Has a man ever just wanted to cuddle instead of sex?

[Anonymous]

The last 2 nights my husband has told me he's not in the mood and that he just wanted to cuddle is this normal we have been together almost 5 years and have been married almost 1 year... is it me am i the issue ik I've gained some weight since we've first meet and I'm working to try to take it off

[Finchie40]

It’s possible , even though we rather have sex with her , but unfortunately females’ don’t look at sex like most of us guys’ do , Me personally would have sex with my partner every day if she she let me lol but finding a girl like that is hard to come by , some girls’ I been with just assumed I just wanted to have sex with her just to get off and she was so wrong , I want sex with her to feel closer to her , to let her know how much I love and appreciate her , but if she doesn’t think that way , she is just going to assume that I am just trying to get off on her , , so at times I will just cuddle with her to let her know that sex isn’t the only thing I want from her. even though I don’t think sex is a bad thing. Unfortunately some of you girls’ experiences assholes prior to being with a guy that actually loves and adores you and some of you girls’ start to push him away because you don’t trust it and assume He just wants to get off on you and that’s it. So instead of giving her the wrong impression, there are times I will just hold her in my arms without having sex with her to let her know I do love her more than just sex. So in your situation with your husband , the red flags to look for is if he constantly denies you intimacy and affection , and it seems like he is making excuses to not have sex with you. If that’s the case , then your husband might be losing attraction to you , but he doesn’t hate you, especially if he still has sex with you and kisses you then that means he loves you. Most guys’ will not have sex with a girl that he isn’t attracted to period. His penis will not get hard if that was the case. Again I don’t know your husband and I don’t know what he likes and doesn’t like , but the truth is if he loves you , he is still going to love you whether you put on weight or not , depending on how much weight you gained since you first met him. If your weight gain makes you look like a whole different person person than that might be a turn off to him , but again I don’t know your husband , Me personally doesn’t mind if my partner puts on some pounds because I love her for her , but if she gained a shit ton of pounds and was doing nothing to get back in shape then I will be concerned and probably turned off by her letting herself go.. It doesn’t mean I hate her , just means my attraction to her isn’t the same. The good thing on your part is the fact that you aren’t denying him sex , that’s when girls’ start digging their own grave when she starts denying her partner intimacy and affection on a steady basis , using it as a weapon to get her way , I been with a few girls’ that started pulling that shit with me and they became my exes. Because they only cared about themselves. I only stay with a girl that gives to me the same way I give to her whether I am in the mood or not , I will never deny my partner intimacy and affection, I will please her in other ways if I am not in the mood for sex. Unfortunately some of you girls’ don’t do that for your men , when he is in the mood , you just deny him completely. All I am saying is you should be wearing your partners’ shoes the same way they are wearing yours. If the 2 of you do not do that for each other , don’t be surprised when your partner decides to walk the other way , or decides to accept another girl that wants to make him feel wanted and valued

[Bricealan]

As an after thought... IF you THINK it might be your slight weight gain, IT COULD be. You are in your 20's and sex is huge for a man at that age and usually for a woman.

Just a thought.

[Asker]

I'm 25 he's 32

[FreyaRed]

Yes. Stress or he just doesn't find you attractive anymore.

[Anonymous]

Yes. But in the morning im getting poked in the back.

[AI Opinion]

As your relationship guru buddy, rest easy. It's totally normal for your hubby to want just to cuddle. Sometimes, the cuddling game levels up the intimacy more than the other stuff! 😘 It’s not about you, trust me. Love’s all about feeling comfy and close, and it seems like he's vibing that way right now. Focus on enjoying cuddle time together and keep exploring those warm, fuzzy moments! 🥰

[Anonymous]

I actually never had sex, but I would like to cuddle with the right girl.

[Anonymous]

Yeah that’s kinda strange for a guy, unless he’s having a bad day or something

[serious]

Cuddles are romantic as well aren't they?

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, it happens from, time to time.

[Makeushiver]

Rarely, perhaps post-coitally fora bit.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Isn't the cuddles normally what starts the sex tho

[BonzoInBitburg]

It seems odd.

[hello4433]

Yes, many times

[wkhan_87]

Depends