Are you alone or do you have a lover? If you're lonely why are you lonely?

[Enes38]

Why am I alone?
Actually, there isn't much of a reason.
Don't listen to me talking like this.
He just wanted to "go" that's all...

[Crimsyjo]

Yes I'm lonely. And from a partner lonely not from lack of "peope". I don't actually enjoy too much social interaction day to day. But having your one person is completely different. Like a "port in a storm" that makes you feel connected and calm and loved.

I wouldn't call them lovers... but I do have my share of FBs to help with the urges sometimes. But they are only moments of joy to break the dullness of the daily grind.

[Enes38]

Many people are already lonely because they cannot find true love. They only take advantage of each other through short-term relationships. But it's not for me I want romance and love

[Crimsyjo]

I know. It's a bad cycle. Some of us (me not you) use short term to break up the loneliness but only end up making it harder to find true love as now everyone can get sex so easy it's hard for most to want to commit.

[Enes38]

Sex with a special person gives unlimited pleasure. I think we should wait for the right person for sex.

[DishLady]

Alone but not lonely. I prefer peace and quiet to being with the wrong person.

[Enes38]

It's a mature thought, but doesn't one sometimes look for a shoulder to lean on?

[paledreams]

Not lonely, alone (family friends) and I like to imagine hypothetical girlfriend lol ♀️

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waters of being alone or in love, aren't we? That's quite the voyage! If you're sailing solo right now, remember, being alone isn't about the absence of someone else—it's a phase for self-discovery and growth. And for your "he just wanted to 'go'" scenario, think of it as being redirected towards something better. Love, like the ocean, has its storms and calms. If you're finding yourself alone, use this time to anchor down in self-love and get ready. Because when the right ship sails in, you'll want to be the lighthouse that guides it home, not the wreckage it navigates around. Embrace your solo journey; it's preparing you for something great. And who knows? Maybe your lighthouse is just on the horizon, ready to shine. 😉

[Simslover92]

I have a lover but I'm alone majority of the time because of the long distance.

[Enes38]

It sounds like you are not happy with this relationship.

[Simslover92]

I am happy with the relationship. It's just the distance I'm not happy with.

[Enes38]

I understand, I hope it gets fixed.

[Simslover92]

Thanks!

[Enes38]

And distance is not an obstacle to love

[Simslover92]

I know. We still communicate nearly everyday and see each other at least once a month. But I'm ready to close the distance which I'm hoping will be soon.

[Enes38]

As long as you wait faithfully, all troubles will end one day.