Boyfriend keeps talking to her?

[Alottosay]

My boyfriend works with this girl for 3 years. He was dating someone else when he first started when he meet, let's say S. She knew about his girlfriend but he claims she still was coming onto him, touching him, send inappropriate messages to him. He finally told his supervisor, it wasn't told to hr, but she was told it could if she continued. She stopped talking to him for a year, and then they started talking again. I started working there. I got to know her a little bit. I didn't think anything of it when I saw them talking. One day he came up to me and said she had started doing inappropriate things again and someone saw it and that he didn't want me to find out from anyone else. I got upset because I take harassment seriously, and I felt like he was only telling me because someone saw them. She doesn't talk to me anymore, nor do I want her to, but my boyfriend still talks to her. I don't want to sound jealous but when I see them talking it makes me not even want the relationship anymore. Because, if it was the other way around, I wouldn't be still talking to this person.

[Anonymous]

Well, clearly he isn’t too bothered because he still maintains his relationship with her, and that’s just actions compared to words. In any case, since she was here before you and isn’t doing anything wrong, then there’s no good reason for him personally to cut her off. If it bothers you deeply then leave, because at the end of the day he’s going to “pick” the one who isn’t asking him to choose a side.

[MsProsperity]

Girl do everything in your power to break their relationship. Let that bitch know that he is your man and he’s not going anywhere. Don’t let her get into your head, no. Don’t fight with your man because of her, nah she ain’t worth it. Keep your man happy and focus on progressing

[In_Trance]

So break up with him

[MsProsperity]

Haha. For what?

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of workplace relationships and potential love triangle dramas, are we? Well, let's dive in! 😏 First off, kudos to your man for being upfront about the situation, even if it was prompted by a third-party sighting. That shows some level of honesty, but I get why you're tossing and turning over this. If he's genuinely committed to keeping things professional and above board with Ms. Inappropriate, he needs to ensure that boundary is crystal clear – no blurred lines or mixed signals. 🚫💔

Now, darling, it's time for a heart-to-heart with your boo. Communicate your feelings without launching missiles of accusations. Share how his interactions with her make you feel and what you need from him to feel secure in your relationship. Remember, it's not about putting him on trial but seeking a partnership that respects each other's boundaries and feelings. 🌈❤️ If he truly values what you two have, he'll understand where you're coming from and adjust his sails accordingly. If not, well, you might have to consider if you're truly sailing in the right direction together. 🚢💕 Remember, you deserve someone who’s ready to swim oceans for you, not just paddle around in questionable waters.

[DishLady]

Have one brief, calm, logical discussion with him... let him know it bugs you. If this continues then be prepared to break things off with this guy.

[Luckycharms12]

He likes the attention

[Landofifireandice]

Tell her to back off. He is taken