Why doesn’t she talk about her boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Girl and I have been flirting and seem to connect very well, I’m quite attracted to her. She’s got a boyfriend, and knows I’m single.

She never mentions him, at all. She’s asked me about my prior relationship, and we’ve talked about my time at university, and her boyfriend went to the same place, but she still never brought him up. There seem to have been other good opportunities for her to float his existence out there as a reminder he does exist, especially since she seems flirty/somewhat interested in me

I’m very used to women bringing up their boyfriends in conversation, either just because or to make it clear. Not trying to be a home wrecker but have made this observation. I mean if she’s gonna dump him then I’d think about making a move but never before then

[Wubs3000]

Probably doesn't want to brag or talk about themselves too much or whatever. Tbh I love talking about my boyfriend but I don't go up to my friends in real life and randomly talk about it because that would be weird of me. (So I use gag to talk about it on the relationship posts lmao where it actually fits)

[Asker]

I get that! I would think it’s weird to talk about a SO all the time but I don’t think it’s weird if it fits in the convo, and I feel like it has in this situation but no mention

[Asker]

Also I’d add she talks about herself a decent amount, and I talk about myself too

[PatriceONeal]

She is making sure you know she's getting dicked down.

[Asker]

What lol? How is not taking about him showing she’s getting dicked down?

[PatriceONeal]

Oh lol I thought it said does. That is weird. She's trying to get some sneakdick

[jennifer_bloom]

When I had a boyfriend in years before I did not talk about him cause I was not happy and had nothing to brag about or discuss with the world. Like if your son buys you steak you tell people, if he buys you potato chips, you keep your mouth shut.

[Asker]

Thanks! That’s kind of what I was wondering if she wasn’t happy with him, he overall seems like an attractive, successful person otherwise but what do I know I guess