My ex boyfriend and I have been sleeping together and seeing Each other for a long time now. But the thing is he's gotten someone else pregnant while i was still driving to see him, wasting my gas because now he doesn't have a car. Anyway, i contacted his so called baby mother who claimed he's the daddy but really she don't know) she is basically Sleeping with everyone. Anyway, i told her not to contact him again because he blocked her number. Every time i'm around him, she's calling begging him to be around. He doesn't check on her nor their baby. Which i don't want him checking on them either. Lol. Only thing that bothers me is when i go through his phone, he's talking about her to his friends saying she slept with his cousin etc. Like okay we ALL KNOW THAT! Why does he keep mentioning her when he blocked her number? Idc if it is in a negative STOP TALKING ABOUT HER! what is his problem?
He's not talking to her anymore but he keeps talking about her. What is wrong with him?
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It's possible that your ex-boyfriend is still processing his feelings about the situation with his baby mother and is using talking about her as a way to cope with his emotions. He may also be trying to seek validation or support from his friends by venting about the situation.
However, it's important to remember that constantly talking about someone, especially in a negative way, can be a sign of unresolved feelings or unresolved issues. It's possible that your ex-boyfriend still has feelings for his baby mother or is struggling to come to terms with the situation.
It's important to communicate with your ex-boyfriend about how his behavior is making you feel and to set clear boundaries for what you are and are not willing to tolerate in your relationship. It's also important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to make sure that you are not being dragged into a situation that is causing you stress or harm.
Ultimately, it's up to your ex-boyfriend to take responsibility for his own behavior and to work towards resolving any unresolved issues or emotions he may be experiencing.
Obviously the problem is that he isn't over her.
Stop interacting with your ex