What to ask a girl that you constantly think of to know if she constantly thinks of you?

[TTNTT]

I’ve been talking to this girl friend of mine for a few months now and we are already super close. I can see myself eventually developing feelings for her, but not right now. For some reason, just friendly and not romantically, she’s most of the time on my mind and I’m wandering what I can ask her that, depending on what she answers with, I can determine if she also thinks of me most of the time. The questions can be deep and/or private, we are very close to one another. We even text “gn ly ❤️” every night before going to bed and “good morning” after waking up (still not romantically).

[kylee2437]

Sounds like you are over complicating love. Why not like her in the moment and come to terms with that instead of hiding behind the friend label? One way you can get a girl to admit she thinks about you is simply telling her you do have feelings for her. See if she reciprocates that same energy you feel about her

[TTNTT]

But that’s the thing: at least for right now, I don’t have feelings for her. I see her purely as a very close friend, but I still think of her a lot. And I am wondering if she thinks a lot about me too.

[kylee2437]

Doesn’t make any sense lol you are over complicating having feelings for someone

[TTNTT]

I don't know if I have feelings for her!

[kylee2437]

You say you think about her all the time, you Goodmorning and goodnight each other etc lol it’s not making sense, it’s over complicated , especially when you want to know her thoughts about you. I get where you are coming from , but it sounds like you do have feelings for her from what you have said

[TTNTT]

Look, I don’t want to know if she has a feelings for me, I want to know if she constantly thinks about me (doesn’t have to be in a romantic way). Cuz look, I think of her a lot and while she is unavailable to text, I still think of her and text her so that when she comes back online, she sees and replies. But she doesn’t do the same. As in when I’m unavailable to text but she is, she doesn’t text. Now you understand me?

[kylee2437]

Yeah but you are still over complicating things. You need to communicate, be honest. Don’t settle for a friendship just because you are unaware of how she feels

[TTNTT]

I’m not saying that I don’t have feelings for her because of the fact that I don’t know if she has some backs. I’m saying that I don’t have feelings because I don’t. But I can see myself developing some in the upcoming future.

[TTNTT]

Please don’t give up on me!