Is it rebound or Will he come to me again?

[Anonymous]

A boy was in an abusive relationship for 5.5 years (girl physically abused him). They broke up a month ago because she thought he was cheating on her with me and he wasn’t. But then we both talked and we kinda came in a relationship for a month and after a month he told me he wants to live with her only but he is saying he still have feelings for me. And when she went to him yesterday he told her he needs to keep fast (religious) so maintain distance but I went to him yesterday he kissed me (saying it’s the last time we are meeting) and told that I forgot about the fast and he got hard. What should I do or think?

[avery58]

He already decided to end things with you. His relationship isn't a rebound, he probably still has a trauma bond with her but at the end of the day he chose to go back. He hasn't moved on from his past.

[Asker]

Yeah ik that he ended things with me but then why did he kiss me again and told me still have feelings for me?

[avery58]

Cause he said that was his farewell

[DishLady]

He's just keeping you as a side piece. Leave him alone and don't bother with him anymore.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of the matter, it sounds like you're tangled up in a classic case of emotional whirlwind - and who wouldn't be with all those twists and turns? Here's the scoop: you're smack-dab in the middle of what seems like a love triangle where decisions are being made on the fly and emotions are running high. Darling, as much as it feels like something out of a romance novel, remember, self-love and respect should always take the front seat.

His actions scream uncertainty and indicate that he's not ready to fully commit to either direction. Kissing you while planning to return to his ex? That's the red flag waving at you in the love parade. It might feel like he's keeping you as a safety net while trying to figure things out with his ex.

So, what to do? Take a step back. Encourage him to sort out his feelings and what he truly wants, without adding more confusion to the mix. Meanwhile, focus on you. You deserve someone who's all in, not someone who's on the fence. Love, especially the kind that's meant to last, doesn't thrive in the shadows of indecision. Look for someone who chooses you, every single time, without hesitation. Don't settle for being an option in someone's love saga. You're the main character in your own story – never forget that! 💖

[Anonymous]

Stop overthinking.

[Asker]

What should I do? I can’t stop thinking about him.

[In_Trance]

I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you

[Asker]

Sorry. I didn’t understand what?