I dated a guy for a month, it was kind of a situationship instead but i was ready to make it official. However, he said that i deserved better and he is unsure about his feelings, so he thinks it wouldn't work out. I replied with "okay". This was a week ago, we haven't talked since.
This guy is my father's coworker, and a few days ago he asked my dad if he was mad at him. My dad asked why, is there a reason he should be? My situationship said that yes, and asked if i said anything about him at home. My dad said not much, then he walked off. He watched all of my stories within minutes, and he posted a story of his car yesterday which i didn't view on purpose. (he never posts by the way) I woke up today and had a dream about him dying in a car crash it was awfully specific like i remember how many amd what kind of flowers were on his grave, what pictures of him was set up. Then today he went with my father and their other coworkers to play football. I left my scrunchie at his place about a month ago, he had may chances to give it back to me (we last met last Saturday) , or to bring it to work to give it to my dad, but no, he chose today to give it back.
What is this all of a sudden, like am i delulu? I feel like he is thinking of me and tryna get my attention or tries to make me contact him or smth. But he didn't text. Should i just ignore all of these things? Should i say something? Maybe text him to thank for the hair tie?
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You are treating this situation like someone who shouldn't be in any sort of 'situationship'. Remember this: once you give it up for free (ie no commitment) through a friends with benefits, situationship, fuck buddies, you WILL NOT ever be taken seriously.
The looking at your stories means nothing and he forgot about your hair scrunchie. So stop thinking he is 'trying to get attention' or whatever. He told you what was up. As far as coming back? He might for sex, but that's it. Trust me.
I didn'r give it up for free, we didn't have sex. We only kissed and cuddled a few times.
I apologize for my assumption then. Maybe he didn't want to wait for you to put out then.
We have a saying, a prostitute will leave the neighborhood street alone. Meaning, he knows your dad and he will leave you alone unless he wants you seriously. You were just a flind at best