What would flatter you more: a girl wanted to have sex with you, or to be in a relationship with you?

[Bethany22]

[superchan2011]

At one time I would have said sex, but now I think i would be more flattered if a girl wanted a relationship with me because while the girl would have to be attracted to me somewhat to have sex with me, after the sex everything is over. I'm just a distant memory then. Whereas if the girl wants a relationship with me then i must mean a lot more to her than physical attraction.

[Anonymous]

At this point I would be flattered either way as well it would be nice to have a woman interested in either of those with me. However I'd very much prefer a relationship, and as much as I would be flattered if they wanted sex I wouldn't do that.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Depends on her body count honestly. And on how she treated her last boyfriend.

Some girls will have sex with just about anyone. So if a girl like that wants to have sex with you, it's not exactly flattering.

Some girls treat their boyfriends like s**t. So if a girl like that wants to date you, it means she doesn't respect you, which also isn't flattering.

[AviatorTom]

I'd be flattered if she wanted to have sex. I'd be honored if she wanted a relationship.

[236color]

Truthfully, if she wants a "relationship" but doesn't want sex, I'll pass. What is the point. I don't date women because I don't want to have sex with them.

[DishLady]

GREAT question. The polite guys might say “relationship” but the actual answer is probably sex + flirty commentary that make him feel good. Because relationships need work and care.

[TonyMetal___86]

A relationship because sex comes with a package plus the relationship gives meaning to sex, i can never enjoy sex without a relationship!
Also i want a whole relationship and everything that comes with it, i know i'm greedy 🤣🤣

[DishLady]

That is such a sweet perspective. Thanks for posting it. :)

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome miss dish 😌

[IceCreamSandwich]

A relationship, of course. There are very few cases where a successful relationship does not eventually include sex anyways.

[bobalife]

Tbh I be flatter by both, but more so a relationship as it’s more meaningful and they see something special in me.

[ManInChains]

Neither, to be honest. I'm not interested in sex and I've learned after having relationships in the past that I'm much happier without a life partner.

[RetroReviews]

Be in a relationship cuz that's more meaningful. That show she thinks more of you and it's not just a curiosity or fling.

[normalice]

Probably sex though I'd also assume she wasn't serious and engaging in a social experiment or something..

[Titanic1912]

Definitely a relationship because sex is something that should be saved for marriage.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Hey man you're back? 😁👋🏻

[Titanic1912]

My job keeps me busy.

[itsclearlynicholas]

@Titanic1912 Greenpeace or keeping watch for icebergs/protecting the ice lands from climate change? Genuinely asking : you may be an eco guy

[Ms_Facesitter]

Relationship. They want you for who you are. In their eyes, you are the whole package.

[firenine909]

Sex would flatter me more. Relationships are sweet tho

[FunkyMonkee]

Probably the relationship. If she just wants to fuck me, how do I know she's not just a rooster: any cock'll do!

[Makeushiver]

I'd be flattered by either but the criteria for a good relationship takes time. Desire is instantaneously

[Lessthanaveragr]

Wanting to have sex with me. I have a condition called micropenis. Girls always laugh and reject me. At this point, I would take it one step at a time.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

A woman wanting to be in a relationship with me.

[elaphe]

Absolutely a relationship. There are lots of promiscuous people who will sleep with most anybody, but it takes real interest in a someone as a person to be in a healthy relationship.

[FakeNIK]

According to age people will've different answers however in my opinion we all want stability, so latter...

[dinojames22]

Relationship.

Finding someone to have sex with is easy.

Finding someone to spend a large % of your time with (outside of sex)... that's more difficult.

[captain_voidwalker]

I think I'd view either with a level of suspicion that would prevent me from indulging in either choice.