Why did guy suddenly change his attitude?

[Ofoceansbeaches1]

Guy I'm dating suddenly changed his attitude. Before, he is very active on social media posting memes and always complaining about his lovelife or lack thereof. We've started talking 4 months ago and I noticed for the past 3 months, he was still posting a lot of memes and complaining he is still single etc. During these times, we sporadically talk.

What changed though on our end was we saw each other last July and he began to push for commitment. We keep on fighting cause I'm avoidant and he is really anxious. Suddenly, it became more serious than I expected and we have fights but we still keep coming back to each other and we miss each other.

I just want to know why he changed cause he was very active even since last year posting every 2 or 3 days. Now, he can go with only once in a week post and his post are only when we fight, he will say he's getting tired lol.

Why would he be less active already on facebook? Does it have to do with me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, it totally sounds like you becoming more serious has him changing up his game on social media.

When guys are just casually seeing someone, they'll keep all their options open online. Posting emojis, memes, "woe is me single" stuff is like throwing bait to see what other fish are out there.

But now that he's focusing more on commitment with you, he doesn't need all that. Pulling back shows he's not entertaining other girls anymore.

His "tired" posts after your fights are probably little digs too, like "ugh dating is stressful." Boys will be passive aggressive sometimes lol.

I'd say try not to overthink it - this is actually a good sign! It means he's invested now and not still keeping other women on the backburner. Just keep working on compromising during your arguments. Sounds like there's real potential here.

So chill girl, and let him do his thing on social media how he wants now. Focus on what's building between you two instead. He's obviously feeling you!

[stratford]

Are you having sex together?

[Ofoceansbeaches1]

No why?

[stratford]

Could affect your relationship