Girls, girlfriend kink shamed me an it developed into cheating?

[Curiousguy0202]

I love my girlfriend a lot that’s why I haven’t split up with her, a long time ago we tried a kink fantasy of mine involving me being a receiver etc, she made me feel shitty an weird for being into it, she spoke to her friend about it since they are super close, then her friend messaged me saying she’d been there an done it all, basically comforted me an it’s developed into a semi casual situationship where she’s sleeping with me but now I know it’s a really shitty thing to do so how should I go about trying to end this an stay with my girlfriend

[SueShe]

In my opinion, any sexual kink/fantasy is something that needs to be addressed by a specialist. It is not something to be proud of or to brag about. I see it more as a disease than something natural and acceptable. To each his own but I would certainly not accept a partner that have such a sexual problem.

A girlfriend that needs to talk about what is happening in the bedroom is someone to get rid immediately as this is something that is private and not to be disclosed with friends and family. This is totally disgusting and a breach of confidence.

Get rid of that toxic person at once. But honestly, you are not any better yourself for fornicating with your girlfriend's friend. That shows no respect for your girlfriend either. You are both sick in your own ways.

[Abbycado]

Oh, now you know it is a really shitty thing to do. That didn't register before you started sleeping with her?

[Curiousguy0202]

Well at the time I felt really low an embarrassed, I opened up, literally, a really vulnerable part of myself to someone I trust an was completely rejected, but as times healed it I’ve realised I’ve messed up an I wanna amend my mistakes

[Anonymous]

And yet you just posted elsewhere that she's your mistress forcing you to do something embarrassing. Most people can make it 3 minutes on this site without making it obvious they're a lying troll. Try harder.

[Curiousguy0202]

No I was sharing an experience? Doesn’t mean it happened yesterday it’s an experience that happened an it was how I felt in that moment

[Anonymous]

Troll harder kiddo.