I am only attracted to White people or Irish or European descent?

[Anonymous]

I have stopped feeling much attraction of my own people or POC anywhere except Latinas and I find even the most average looking European girls with average bodies or even fat with nice fair face to be most attractive. I hope it's not because they remind me of my mom.

[handsomebradybreaker]

My mom was overweight, and perhaps that's why I'm never been into fat chicks, but as an outstandingly handsome black cowboy, I've ALWAYS loved buxom blondes.(Chesty,, dark-skinned black and Latin ladies, also.)

[Asker]

I am not black but why do people hate on white people so much. They are great:) 💯

[handsomebradybreaker]

I hate on racists, anti-Semites, xenophobes and homophobes of ALL backgrounds, not white folk.

[ManInChains]

Trump supporters would call that a personal preference while Harris supporters would call you racist/sexist/etc

[Asker]

I am not American but I feel good about my preference but I can't marry a white woman even if I tried a 100 years because they are not in my country. I am not black. Just not European. More middle eastern I guess

[hanabunny]

There's nothing wrong with preferences no matter what race or ethnicity you are or which ones you're attracted to. Is your mom white but your dad isn't?

[Asker]

Yes, it's like that. And thanks, that's reassuring. I get gaslight for having this preference

[hanabunny]

I'm sure if your dad could find a white woman you could too no?

[Asker]

I don't know. But I hope so. The one's I talk to are extremely gorgeous even though a bit on the fat side:). They are kind to me

[hanabunny]

Hehe well that's good I'm sure you could find one to marry eventually

[Asker]

I hope it's soon. I never fooled around with any woman. But I have showed interest in women of color and they have very high standards unlike White girls

[hanabunny]

Interesting, you live in the middle east or? For me in America as an Asian girl white guys I dated complained that white girls had too high of standards. It seems women can have higher standards for men of their own race or ethnicity

[Asker]

I live in Asia.
And yeah, I noticed that too for people of our own race we tend to have a very high standard because we don't discount for aesthetics

[hanabunny]

Like South Asia? I'm East-Asian but we're pretty light lol not European features though

[Asker]

Ohh yeah, but here we are light too but a lot are dark like Latin Americans too and some even look black.
It's just local people are too damn with highest standards:/

[hanabunny]

That makes sense, I grew up in America but my mom grew up in China and it was a lot different there with the pickiness. Some Chinese are pale "yellow" color but many are white as snow and those are considered desirable. The darkest ones are kind of brown but call themselves "black" and many have never even seen an African person that is really black. A "black" Chinese woman would have no luck with Chinese men but an American foreigner might find her attractive and exotic lol. So maybe it's similar with white girls in your country

[Asker]

Oh trust me, white girls in my own country look like Italians or Spanish or more like Argentina girls but they have very high standards. The families of those girls will not marry them off to just anyone and very picky too.
White girls from US and Europe are humble especially if they are small City or country girls

[hanabunny]

Interesting It’s similar in China with the picky families. I think for white girls in America it’s more about class like if they’re rich they will be super picky but the average white girl here is very open-minded and sweet

[Asker]

Yeah, here average white girl is picky in my country.
I just like someone down to earth like myself and not be bossy too.
White girls or fair as we like to address them in US and Europe are indeed very kind. It's very bad that people say so much bad things about White girls. Truthfully I had the worst experience with women of color

[hanabunny]

Aw well I’m sorry you had issues with those women. I agree I don’t like the hate against white girls, I’ve been friends with many of them and the majority were so sweet and they did date men of various races without judging. I had worse experiences as friends with Latinas lol

[Asker]

Yeah white people seem nice. I only find old people to be somewhat less welcoming but not as much hate I see against them as against them.
And yeah Latinas mostly suck and materialistic as hell

[hanabunny]

Yeah for me older white people will tell me stuff like their daughter likes kpop or their son married an Asian lol like they’re saying stuff just because I’m Asian but they’re at least trying to be nice. Latinas are just psycho like they lie and start drama for no reason in my experience

[Asker]

Yeah, and here people say White people are unclean, they don't bath 🛁🚿, and they smell. But I all my life I have met a lot of people and most people don't bath here and smell bad :/. Sorry but it is so.
And I just fell white people are amazing even if race is not the issue. They are not materialistic like average people here.

[hanabunny]

Lol in China some of them admire the look of white people but some have a saying like “white pigs” they think their skin looks pink like a pig lol. Meanwhile they will look yellow and consider themselves “white” it’s ridiculous. Plus I thought that was kind of cute how white girls often have pink nipples and stuff lol not to get graphic

[Asker]

Pink or white they are not to be compared with pigs. They are beautiful. I bet people are just jealous of white beauty.
Being pale yellow isn't bad but I think White people should be cherished and made feel at home. You know everyone blames white people but in past the Moors or Berbers and Tartars used to trade slaves too even Turks and white people and especially women used to be enslaved sadly.

😊Yeah they have pink and beautiful everything. I think only a few girls who are white are objectively ugly. Rest are amazing:). I don't hate other girls or anything but it's just for seeing someone for the rest of the life, a white woman is the best match especially if you are not yourself one. Like we agreed we tend to not feel happy with opposite gender of our own race

[hanabunny]

Oh wow that’s interesting history I didn’t know there, I’m sure they wanted white women slaves for some messed up purposes 😬

[Asker]

Well, King's concubines, and generally males used to be killed so slavery happened everywhere. Nothing exclusive to British Empire only

[AI Opinion]

Diving straight into the heart of the matter, having specific attractions isn't unusual and it taps deeply into our personal experiences and societal influences. It's all about what pulls your heartstrings and lights up those sparkly moments in your eyes. Now, drawing a parallel to family, especially a figure like a mom, might seem like opening a can of Freudian worms, but it's not always that deep. Our attractions can be shaped by a myriad of factors - from the environment we grow up in to the media we consume. The key? Embracing diversity in beauty and giving yourself the freedom to explore the vast landscape of attraction without guilt. Keep in mind, the heart wants what it wants, and sometimes it sets its sights in directions we least expect. Just ensure that respect and genuine appreciation for people's heritage and individuality are always part of the equation. 😊