How did you know you were getting used in a relationship?

[Bcrow24]

[ohsheeT]

If you feel this way then just pay attention listen don't talk they will tell you everything but if you talk back because you're trying to understand things the water gets cloudy again but if you just pay attention and you listen they will tell you show you everything. If life is all about them and what they're doing and what you have to do to help them get what they want or succeed in what they're doin.. . Or if they're always on the go on the run but it's all about them then you're being used. If their time is more important someplace else or doing something else then you're being used there's so many so many ways that they will tell you but you have to stop and slow down take a step backwards and look and listen

[Finchie40]

When you are constantly giving without receiving in return , you are more than likely being used , Someone that only cares about what is best for themselves and doesn’t consider your feelings as well , You are just a convenience to them. Someone that loves you and cares about you will be by your side no matter what , giving you pretty much the same as you are giving to them , Never stay in a relationship with someone that only thinks about what is best for themselves, you will only be hurting yourself thinking they actually care about you , kick them to the curb where they belong , life is too short to be a convenience and used by anyone

[Xoxocutekitty]

When you stop initiating contact and realize that they can easily go three days without communicating with you.

If you actually like someone, it's not work to reach out about the stupid little things that make it break your day.

[DishLady]

I was comfortable sitting with the guy and we were able to understand one another without having to explain everything... just a look or gesture was meaningful. We understood each other and that... was everything. <3

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic tale of realizing you're more of a convenience than a partner! It's like you're the go-to person for a mood lift, a favor, or a plus-one, but when it's your turn to lean on them, suddenly they're busier than a bee on a clover field. If you're sending more love bombs than receiving, and your partner vanishes faster than your socks in the laundry every time you need emotional support, then my friend, you might just be their emotional pit stop. If every time you bring up your needs or feelings, they ghost you faster than a Casper with commitment issues, it's a big, glaring, neon red flag waving at you. Remember, a relationship is a two-way street, not a solo marathon. Keep it real and make sure you're not just the comfort food on their emotional menu!

[katiesmuff]

I think if you are paying close attention you can see it early in a relationship!. It's little things at first which manifest into bigger issues as time moves along.

[coxoabean]

When your the only one actually putting in all the effort

[exitseven]

after it was over. She went back with her old boyfriend and I realized she only dated me to make him jealous.

[Nikki1989]

When it is all about sex and not much else.

[paledreams]

Lol if all she wants is not to pay, lol 😭😆 come on folks, use your brains lol 😂

[paledreams]

So instead my chocolate gold coins are for me, mmm 🍫

[Sugar100]

If you don’t meet family right away guy is using you.

[LiamJHayden]

Her friends would think it was okay to park in my driveway or garage without asking first.

[virtualwasp]

All talk no effort by them

[PeachyPie93]

They don't reciprocate.

[dustybiker2]

Expecting and less giving.

[missindiana93]

When its just sex.