How do I get him to stay with me?

[Anonymous]

I'm worried he will leave me even though we love each other so much, my boyfriend never gets past the 3 year mark in a relationship and we have been together 2 years 11 months. We are doing okay but he has admitted to things being fine at this point in past relationships but they still just end. I love him more than anything and want to spend my life with him. How do i get him to stay with me?

[kylee2437]

Why are you dating someone that openly admits he has commitment issues? You are missing the bigger picture of what he is trying to say with this one.

[Asker]

A little more to it, as when I posted it was kinda a rush explanation but, he's also openly admitted to never talking about the future revolving the topic of kids/marriage etc. in his past relationships but with me it has been something that he has brought up on some occasions about wanting that future with me, I guess the reason for my post is more of me and my insecurities of not having a relationship this long before either... 😅

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Well, love is not in the numbers, there is no set date to a relationship, it's a relationship, not an hourglass. Please relax and enjoy the relationship, there are no deadlines, no timer, it's not a bomb.

Trust the love you have for each other, he's here, he's not leaving, relax please :)

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of love wisdom your way! 🌟 It's natural to fear the unknown, especially when patterns from the past seem like dark clouds looming over your relationship's future. But here's the twist – you've got the power of love on your side, and love, my dear, is not just about holding on tight but also letting go with trust. Since you both are in love, focus on nurturing what you have with even more open communication, excitement, and understanding. Share your fears and dreams with him; it's about creating a space where he feels free yet anchored, intrigued yet content. Remember, it's not about chaining someone to stay but building a bond so beautiful, leaving is the last thing on their mind. Keep the sparks flying with spontaneity, deep talks under the stars, and by being each other's rock. Love isn't a battle to win but a journey to enjoy together. Embrace it, and let's turn that love story into a lifelong adventure! 💖

[jahaims]

By not being insecure