What makes a man successful with women?

[OtterMan68]

Quantity or Quality?

Body count

Long lasting, fulfilling relationships

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On another GAG question, a man said I was not successful with women because I don't have a high body count, and I should have control over what my girlfriend does

[Anonymous]

His ability to lie and twist reality. Most women want to be lied to. Women would rather hear an exciting fiction than a boring truth. So the guy that tells the most interesting (yet still plausible) lies typically wins.

This is something that builds on itself as the guy passes into legend. At some point the guy doesn't have to lie as much. The women will take over and do a lot of the leg work for him as these women will now start competing over him as his perceived value goes up amongst the community of women.

This is what makes a man successful. Because 90% of relationships today is manipulation and false perception.

[Anonymous]

He has to have a huge dick, a bizarre short haircut, a full beard, loads of tattoos and he needs to beat the hell out of her every few days.
At least that's what it takes from what I've seen over the past 40 years. I'm not like that at all which is I haven't had a girlfriend in 25 years.

[JSkye]

I feel like guy culture in general would say body count, but I (and likely most other women) feel like it is the quality of the relationships that counts.

I'm polyamorous and even I don't pursue body count. The depth and duration of the relationships are far more important.

Anyone can go out and up their body count with a series of one-night stands (for girls, that's a really easy number to increase), but that isn't how you become successful in love.

[Apple1996]

Low body count and good healthy relationships

[Nikki1989]

When is he happy. Is he happy with sleeping with 1000 women — successful?

Is he happy with finding that one perfect woman — successful.

No different with women.

[NathanDavis]

that highly varies on what kind of men they are...

or, aren't...

[beefcakebradybatson]

The latter, plus faithfulness, honest communication and respect.

[WhitneySnow]

The second one

[dudegreat91]

Why not the 1st?

[WhitneySnow]

@dudegreat91 it’s more important to have long lasting fulfilling relationships than it is to have a high body count (or a low one)

[dudegreat91]

Yeah I get your point but that is subjective

[WhitneySnow]

@dudegreat91 subjective is better. We don’t need objective standards for whether someone is successful with women. That’s a guy thing.

[jahaims]

Emotional intelligence

[Anonymous]

Looks and Money 💰