So it seems to me as though, from what I’ve gathered, if you’re just an average guy trying to live life and take things one step at a time, you can’t expect to just have things fall into place naturally.
For a vast majority of men it appears as though relationships require a significant amount of effort.
But of course, there are some guys who have success with women naturally.
And so I’m just wondering which qualities it is that they possess, which attracts women.
Because being someone who is conversationally lazy, flirting with multiple women just really isn’t my thing.
I don’t really have the energy to be pursuing women that often. And so as a result, I’m finding it much harder to come into contact with them.
In my day to day life I just don’t usually talk to people all that much and I spend most of my time alone.
So I’d prefer if they came to me if at all possible. Its just much easier that way.
Effort is something I generally try to avoid. Unless I see an obvious kill shot, I tend to not get involved.
Its like I want all the benefits of being in a relationship, but I’m still just hoping to use a more “hands off” approach.
For a vast majority of men it appears as though relationships require a significant amount of effort.
But of course, there are some guys who have success with women naturally.
And so I’m just wondering which qualities it is that they possess, which attracts women.
Because being someone who is conversationally lazy, flirting with multiple women just really isn’t my thing.
I don’t really have the energy to be pursuing women that often. And so as a result, I’m finding it much harder to come into contact with them.
In my day to day life I just don’t usually talk to people all that much and I spend most of my time alone.
So I’d prefer if they came to me if at all possible. Its just much easier that way.
Effort is something I generally try to avoid. Unless I see an obvious kill shot, I tend to not get involved.
Its like I want all the benefits of being in a relationship, but I’m still just hoping to use a more “hands off” approach.
