What are some unconventional things you find attractive?

Question

By "unconventional" I mean things you don't normally think of. What things do you notice in other people that make you find them more attractive? Doesn't have to be sexual either; we gravitate toward people for many reasons and meaningful connections that aren't sexual are just as important as ones that are. I realize I placed this under "flirting" but that's just because I'm not sure where else to put it.

For example; for me, I notice the way a man's hands look. I also pick up on subtle mannerisms, choice of words, gait—and often these things stand out to me more than how conventionally attractive or fit they are.

What are some unconventional things you find attractive?

I'm straight but I also notice things like this in women and find them attractive, albeit differently.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I like  #1  eyebrow and hand scars  #2  perky noses (like Brad Pitt, Romeo Miller, Jason Lewis)  #3  sharp canine teeth (like Tom Welling)  #4  eyebrow piercings  #5  nose freckles #6 long eyelashes  #7  multiple grin lines (like when the Rock smiles)  #8  thick eyebrows  #9  a nice tan (idc what race the guy is, anyone gets that natural tan from being out in the sun and that glow just makes the guy even hotter)  #10  guys around 5’7-5’10 are just extra hot to me. I consider them tall but not too tall to kiss  #11  guys who try not to curse  #12  guys who are waiting til marriage or for the right person  #13  guys wearing ankle socks  #14  guys who wear eyeglasses  #15  guys who are shy  #16  guys who pray before bed  #17  when guys wear a pencil behind their ear  #18  when guys write poetry  #19  lean, lanky guys  #20  cleanshaven dudes  #21  if he's a lonewolf  #22  if he wears a sharktooth necklace  #23  if he says things like “golly” or “great googly moogly” or “holy smokes” or “hot diggity dog” or “goodness gracious” #24 if he doesn't have pets  #25  if he eats a steak with his hands like its a piece of chicken or a hamburger 😂 Hand is a bit too veiny but nails and scar is perfect Sexy eyebrow scar I miss when his teeth were sharp like this! His neck looks sexy too, I just wanna bite it Those brows Their skin is just glowing! Fckin hawt

sheenagwapa · Accepted Answer

with my ex before the way he would hold his hair when we are looking at things at the mall. he would hold his front hair. i can also tell if my ex arrive just by the sound of the steps he is making, when he would tip-tow when he is passing by i find it too cute. his face the length of his eyes, bushy eyebrows... even wearing his slippers i find cute how big it is. my ex is my life before it's just really weddinh we lack i think we treat each other as married couple already and everyone treat us that too. and we see each other everyday for the almost 13 years we are officially together and not once i gwt tired of his looks. i feel like i already know what married life is when he get sick it's me who always take care of him, do the paperwork and the one who would go to his company. even his personal stuff i but it tok so yeah it's married life eithout weddinh. i don't really notice much other men's physical attributes when i see someone attractive my mind be like ok attractive move on 😂😂😂just not my thing. i think i would notice only when i have romantic feelings if it's just attractive it's nothinh.

Billlewis · Accepted Answer

I love women who have bangs, women who swear and use filthy language, women who have a chubby muffintop protruding from between their waistband and their top, women who wear red lacquer on their toes and women who intentionally go out of their way to prick tease guys.

I love guys who have a lot of sex with attractive women, guys who are confident, or even arrogant, guys who wear toe rings and sandals or flip flops.

rocksongwriter · Accepted Answer

I'd say women's height. Almost all men are drawn to shorter women, but I'm drawn to women who are the same height as me (5'10" or 1.778 meters). My mom is slightly taller than my dad and I don't know if that influenced my taste in tall women or if I inherited some gene from my dad that makes me attracted to tall women.

kylee2437 · Answer

The way a persons house looks in terms of cleanliness can make or break my attraction for someone for sure.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I like a guy with beautiful hands. My hands look masculine and child like. I never held hands with the last guy I dated but I thought they were beautiful. I also like a guy with bushy eye brows.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

I am bi so i picked up on these things from both genders that I personally like:

MEN

Mans hands
When a guy wears something “Australian.” Tooth necklace, vests etc lol 😆
When a man speaks romantically, but formerly. Ex: darling, sweetheart, sweetie ☕️. Most commonly said by waiters eeeeeeekk😝

WOMEN

When a girl wears a long necklace and its in her boob cracks, thats hot. Similarly to when u c a girl having her purse satchel across her tits. Seatbelts do that too 😳
Girl sitting politely, u can c a bit of definition on her thighs
Back dimples ☺️

Thatpearl26 · Answer

Ever since I was younger I would always notice the little things. How when someone talks to me their eyes dart or how they turn their ring slightly to the left. Now as I’m older some subtle things that I find attractive is when they feel comfortable laughing in my presence. Not the fake one just to please me but the real genuine laugh. Or how he occasionally bumps into me. I can’t walk straight and tend to bump into who I’m walking with so to me it would be cool if they are the same. A buddy who’s as clumsy as me!

BadApple69 · Answer

If I see a woman with creative talent, that is attractive to me. Example: I have a friend, she is a fashion designer and she makes some awesome outfits. She was involved with a Netflix fashion show and has done many outfits for singers, and movie stars. So creativity is a major turn on for me. Another friend I have is a magnificent painter. Her talent with canvas and a brush is mind bending.

California_Poppy · Answer

What really gets me is acts of chivalry. Things like giving up their seat to someone who needs it, helping someone grab something off the top shelf or lift something heavy for someone etc.
I can only speak from my experience, but this is relatively rare where I live. It used to be the norm, but now everyone minds their own business or is too distracted to notice other people in need.
Someone that does this without hesitation and without looking for social points, always gets my attention.

WilmaReportu · Answer

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Shamalien · Answer

Little gestures that shows she’s not entitled. Like offering to pay for meals, clearing dishes without being asked, always going out of her way to thank me for the things I do for her and being appreciative.

god I just realized I am my mother 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Hands, feet, jaw, eye contact pluss a smile, Long well kept hair, man bun, thin lips and full lips, big no se, small nose, thick thighs and big butt, big arms, big back, broad shoulders, muscular, fat-muscular, skinny-muscular, tooth gap, wide eyes, eye smile, humble, high forehead, hunter eyes, thick eyebrows, acne, short, tall, funny, empathetic, talkative, friednly, puts in effort, laughing and so much more.

Perfect man in my eyes is a tall guy that's muscular with high cheekbones, a broad strong forward jaw, high forehead, perfect midface ratio, hunter eyes, thick eyebrows, straight nose, broad shoulders, big arms and legs, long beautiful hair, fuller lips, youthful skin, white, big hands and feet, and a nice smile.

Enaya · Answer

The things that make a huge impact on me other than the usual of height and eyes is actually a wide smile, hands, arms, posture, wide shoulders, accent and voice. I love a deep voice and if that deep voice has a nice RP British accent…

red_knight · Answer

Such dressing, when we're talking she ties her hair up.. No perfume. Long headhair. Such pics

Chrysantenum95 · Answer

Im attracted to a man with clean, smells good and stands confidently

thatshydork · Answer

I’m not sure if this is unconventional, but if I learn a guy plays baseball, he gets like +5 points of attractiveness (if that even made any sense😂)

Drooogie4 · Answer

Glasses and big noses. I don't know why but I ❤️ them.

Blackcupcake · Answer

reactions looks (not physical appearance but how they observe something or someone)  body language

Anonymous · Answer

Treating me with basic human courtesy in public, even if I'm not wearing a brand new, name brand outfit with shiny new kicks I just bought and pulling out a roll of bills no smaller than a $20 to pay for something at a store.

Fireguy17 · Answer

For me the biggest thing is how they interact with other people, how they treat them. Especially bartenders and wait staff. That tells you a lot about their character.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

A woman's ears. Especially from the back when her hair is tied up. Reowwr!

Tecilla · Answer

He follows God, even when things get tough and stands up for what's right

TrueConfection · Answer

Tone of voice. I love a slow and calm voice. It's very VERY attractive.

Paul09 · Answer

Um all women are bisexual to a degree lol. So nothing that special. For me I'd say stomach hip area. I've always loved that part on a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know if it's unconventional. Sharp eyebrows, nice hands, big doe eyes ( where u can see the whites when they look away... it looks cute to me). When they smile/laugh with much enthusiasm.

Anonymous · Answer

someone’s middrift or lower abdomen but I don’t mean abs

In_Trance · Answer

unconventional would be things that I wouldn't think of. Things I think of are conventional to me.

BLP11520 · Answer

Some women have a warm personality like a magnet very hard to describe

xotrulyfree07 · Answer

A guy that has good hands. I don't know how to explain what qualifies as "good hands" I just know them when I see 'em.

MementoMori777 · Answer

the back of the neck when they rock a ponytail

gothbxtch · Answer

i find big noses attractive

Anonymous · Answer

Usually hair and based on the accuracy of the picture hands

Unknown29 · Answer

Girls armpits are SUPER sexy

LavLavLuv · Answer

Vibes

Anonymous · Answer

Your lips & cleavage ❤️

HMZ444 · Answer

Soft and smooth long hair

daaaaan · Answer

I like it if they are a sadist in the bedroom

Flower7 · Answer

Shyness.

OddBeMe · Answer

Ankles.

Alex8736 · Answer

Dimples

Angelike · Answer

Guy's nipple

monghjay2 · Answer

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