Single Guys, would you go out with a girl who you didn't find attractive nor extremely ugly, who was really into you and had a lot in common with you?

[MCheetah]

EXAMPLES

Would you date "a 5 out of 10" who really had the hots for you?

This reminded me of someone I used to know back home. Her name was Gabby. She was many things I did not personally go for in a woman, but other men probably would've liked. She was short (5'4"/163 cm), 21 years old, petite/skinny, a B-cup, and with a slim waist and a pixie-cut blonde hairdo. She was very energetic and outgoing. She would also drink a lot and I don't like or drink alcohol.

She was a friend-of-a-friend; specifically my best friend's girlfriend's college roommate. So when I hung out with my friend on Friday nights to have dinner and play cards, and he brought his girlfriend, sometimes Gabby would be there, too.

We had a lot of things in common. We both loved the same video games, we both were artistic and drew pictures and wrote fiction. And we were both in college at the time (2017-2018).

She wasn't really my type physically, and there were too many offputting things about her for me to like anything about her romantically, including her saying how she was "bi-curious" (gross). And how she once said at the table, "I only like tall guys; like six feet and up! You know, like you!" I quickly told her I was "five-eleven, not six feet. I don't meet your dating criteria." It was such a f*cking turn-off and I already didn't like her much. Any girl who says that is dead to me as a dating option.

But she kept thinking we should get together and be a couple, and pretty much hinted at this non-stop, doing everything but outright saying it, very time I met up with my Leo and Taylor. I was single and looking at the time, and my Taylor thought me and her roommate 'look like a great couple'. But that just offended me even more, with the implication that some tiny,9 0 pound, hyper-active, alcoholic, high-energy pixie chick would be "my type" just because we had a lot of hobbies in common. I hated that people thought of me like that.

Gabby looked like this.

Yes, I'd happily date a "5 out of 10" with many things in common, who had a huge infatuation towards me.

No, I couldn't date a "5 out of 10" who really liked me, simply because I wouldn't find her attractive, or we'd lack chemistry.

I'd only casually sleep with a compatible "5 out of 10" but would not want to be in a relationship with them.

Results.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yeah, I think I would, especially if she had an amazing personality.

The idea of a woman 'having the hots' for me would make her more attractive to me too.

[CT_CD]

No. I deserve at least an 8 out of 10

[razelove]

Yeah, I don't see why not, except your example C, that's a 0/10, Sheila there has a wiener. Also D looks above average going by face and body. Anyway, for companionship, and, you know, not having as much chance of getting stabbed in the back, I've aimed down before.

The power play switches into your favor very easily if you're more attractive then the woman you're with. I wouldn't say the difficulty is as easy as picking nickels up off the ground, but maybe the same as finding a quarter.

Establishing a relationship of trust and respect with a woman who is hotter than you are is the same as finding a hundred on the ground. It happens, I've found hundreds at some jobs, and got into relationships with women hotter than I am. With both of them though, it's enough times to count on one hand. More likely is having a ONS or NSA, they can set the terms. Having compatibility and the edge over the power dynamic, the looks aren't as important if they're decent. We're all going to look like shit when we get old enough anyway.

[OpenClose]

Lol well for one the example "Gabby" you gave is like a 9-10 in my book. I absolutely adore small features and a "boyish" look.

Do keep in mind what a "5" is varies quite a bit.
Like it could mean a "5" in terms of attraction, or a "5" in terms of average girl.
And then it varies by area.

I'm not saying this to be a nitpicking asshole. Just that a West Coast 5 is like a solid 8 where I live. Like, if she isn't obese, she's already about a 6 here.

[HighlyVolatile]

You'll have to forgive me for a convoluted answer but I need to make her more than a 5/10 first. I might very well be able to do that though if I touch her, dance with her, smell her up close, kiss her.

My hands and nose and eyes up close can make 5s into 9s and 9s into 3s. If she's so into me, I'd explore the possibility of elevating her starting with my hands. I would neither sleep with her nor marry her though if I can't elevate her in my mind.

[HighlyVolatile]

If I relate to food (I will offend many women this way in my experience) I once tried Goya (bitter melon) in Okinawa. And I didn't care much for it. 5/10. But I was in Okinawa; this is a huge staple food besides pork. So I spent time with it and ate it in small amounts and I grew to love it enough to make it 8/10.

But I had to actively engage with it to elevate it from 5/10 to 8/10, and not all foods I've attempted such things succeded. I've yet to succeed with Kim Chi, for example. But if I can elevate it, it will be elevated potentially for the rest of my life. But I have to interact with it to elevate it.

[HighlyVolatile]

But speaking to the primitive and perverted side of man, in my experience with what we might perceive as 5/10, they have a mind, they have passion, they have soft breasts, they have different skin, and different smells; all women are different that way from us. They are WOMAN! You hold a woman and that is opposite worlds clashing. There is beauty in that alone in her body and mind. A 5/10 can become 10/10 because she is that when her soft waist is in your hands and her trust in your touch.

[Keyboardkat]

First, it sounds like a date with her could turn out to be enjoyable because of all the common interests; and two, I know of couples who didn't like each other at first, and thought there was nothing there, but then something happened between them and they really fell in love and have been together years! It doesn't have to be love at first sight, you know. Sometimes it develops slowly.

[aliiiek]

Yeh , i did that once , guess what happened , monkey branching happens , now i don't do that anymore , keeping a woman is harder then gaining her , and her ugliness doesn't make her more easy to keep (if not harder) , the only thing that can helo keep a woman is your attractiveness not hers , so i can see no reasons to date a sub 5 woman

My suggestion to you is focus on your attractiveness so you can keep whatever woman u like sub5 or not

And i see u a lot worry about ur height , 5'11 is not that bad see for yourself

[Fa1con]

The best relationship I ever had was with a woman who upon me first seeing her my thoughts were "Oh dear, she looks a bit like a sloth in human form." I never told her this of course. The more we shared the more she appealed to me, frump and all!

[HighValue]

Sure. A 5 (what I think of as a 5) is the minimum physical attractiveness I would date as long as personality wise she was an 8 or higher of a match.

[Berethor]

She sounds above 5 to me, and I don't mind most of her traits, also finding a girl who is not a ho and have no children is hard enough, I don't think that I can afford to be much more picky than that.

[serious]

Gabby really looks gorgeous to me. If she had even shorter hair it would still suit her face.

For your question.

No. I will never date in any scenario

[exitseven]

Yes, and I bet there would be a good chance I would fall in love with her.

[crossdressingrihno]

I'd easily date a 5 out of 10 if we were compatible. Actually being compatible would probably give her an extra 2 points

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, but I also don't consider some of those pictures a 5.

[MCheetah]

Even uglier than that?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Depends on the picture.
pic 1 I'd put at a 4.
pic 2 I'd put at an 8.
pic 3 is a 2.
pic 4 is a 7.
pic 5 is a 5.

[Shiningtempest]

@mcheetah I would never date a woman who's really into me & has a lot in common with me because that would interfere with my tight-knit bond with my bros.

[Jamesshinobi]

everyone looks the same when you turn out the lights and beauty fades in us all.

[BillyBalls]

that last picture looks like a girly boy

[Fuentes]

I would play nice and sleep with

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Yes.

[AFretiredTXn]

Yes.

[JesseJayNeak]

Sure, why not