Girls, would you ever date someone not conventionally attractive? Why or why not?

[Anonymous]

Girls, would you ever date someone not conventionally attractive? Why or why not?

[Amy_Theo]

More often than not, the guys I find physically attractive are not the kind my friends consider "hot" or "cute". So I suppose that way, my type isn't the conventional attractive. I prefer lean guys over muscular ones (but they have to be fit- in the sense that they're not fat. They have GOT to at least be in the healthy standards), if they're of the shorter kind, no beards, goatees or whatever else (clean shaven, etc. Quite possibly one of the few physical traits that can be considered conventional (that I adore) would be nice hair.
So yes, I would love to date someone who doesn't fit the conventional idea of an "attractive" person.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I have more than once. I never really know what attracts me to guys, honestly. It's once I get to know them that I find them attractive, and I can't put my finger on what exactly draws me to those specific guys. I have no "type" when it comes to looks, though I'm not always attracted to every guy with a good personality, either. It's just something that "clicks".

[CubsterShura]

Yes because looks aren't everything. I might be making an attractive baby with him but when it's gonna cry at night and he will be the jerk that never performs his dad duties I'll be the miserable one. I care for my future enough to be smarter than that.

[Teahappy]

Yes and done so before because you can't always get what you want. He can't be full blown attractive, educated, have all your interests, can cook and clean perfectly, so sometimes you gotta settle. If not looks, will have to enjoy geology, plants, be veg, and honest. Not vice versa

[Mädchen]

I have in the past but some put me on a podest and that's something I really don't like. I want us to be equal. I dont want someone who. constantly agrees with me because he is afraid to lose me.

[BrittBratt2416]

Pity dating is an asshole thing to do.. making someone think you really like them and find them sexually attractive when you don't is wasting that person's time.

[Alpha09]

Probably not. I have to be attracted to them to get to the dating level. Looks aren't everything but it's kinda what makes you want to sleep with someone to begin with.

[dobby-is-a-free-elf]

I don’t care if he’s attractive or not. If he’s a nice person who can make me laugh I will fall for him

[KassandraVI]

The key here is to feel attraction to that guy, that is what only matters, the rest are just rules stablished by society to tell us who is "physically" good looking

[s_alj04]

Well i can't remember when i really liked a guy who was considered conventionally attractive

[WinterAurelia]

Yes as long as they are to me or they're amazing in other ways

[tara987]

I would and I have. But I still need to be attracted to them, even if my friends think he's not that attractive.