The obvious one is Loyalty. Simple but impossible to prove until the end. So every one of these men will make you sign a prenup. It's not they don't trust you but they don't even trust themselves.
Second is sexual compatibilities. If it wasn't for this they would have gotten another man. Yeah, they ain't gay so they need to get sexual. The woman has to at least like the guy sexually or it will never work out.
Third is good financial sense. The 1st makes a woman a good "toy" to fool around but this third point promotes her to wife. Unless she can manage a ton of money and probably grow them in the process then she probably isn't worthy to hold that much money.
Forth is resolve. Life is never smooth. The more successful you are the more hatred you will draw. If they can't hurt the guy then they will go after his family. The wife is the first target. Without a strong resolve to see things through then the woman will ended up destroying herself by rumors and humiliation.
Finally, capabilities. Being able to take hits is good but able to retaliate is much better. There is no better defense than a good offense. Maybe she can get even or she just need to prove that she is better. Just show that she is not an easy target.
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@usermpp22 Every man is different, regardless of whatever you deem as successful.
Use your beautiful mind. Sit down and write out, in detail, the special guy you want.
That should take days or months. It should be as concrete as possible.
Figure out your non-negotiables and focus on those.
Then ask yourself what is a good fit for that guy.
Really focus on character traits and conditioning in all its forms.
Don't worry about age, you cannot control that.
You're 19. Don't fall into the trap of thinking because a man is successful (whatever that means to you) that he is a good man and good at all aspects of life.
There is no one size that fits all so most people's opinions would be based on their individual preferences whether they are successful or not.
To give my two cents, I would say communication is the ultimate thing that matters in any relationship. Simply having someone you can communicate with I believe makes things work.
For some people, physical appearance does matter, but there are a lot of women who are pretty, sexy and hot. It takes a high dose of wisdom and discipline to be a good communicator, to not just talk but actually do so in a way the other person will understand, and at the same time, being willing to listen, pay attention and expect a response 👌🏾
The ones that I know chose confident and self respecting women with ambitions and dreams and careers. Some only made minimum wage or did not have high education but none of them were too lazy to do what they could to make the home better. I knew a millionaire who worked full time and his wife worked full time at a minimum wage job with very little vacation days. Why would a millionaire want his wife to work a full time minimum wage job? Its about the status of having somebody who is willing to contribute, even if their income is small.
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In terms of personality, I really just want someone who is easy going, and who I can just have a good day with. I want a sense of stability.
Someone who is loyal, understands what I want out of life and sees how their goals and dreams can fit with mine. When it comes to woman, I think it would be nice to have a girl with the mental age of 30 but the physical age of 25 but that's just a silly over the top desire, like how I wish Ben and Jerry's would bring back the Cinnabon ice cream.
I have this vision where I have a wife and kids and we have dinner most nights and talk about all the things we're doing. We go to each other's events and consult eachother on projects. There's this equal respect that is had from a mutual desire to achieve goals and raise a family.
Each man, as do women, have their own conception and preferences that define Attractive. First physical consideration to me is small waist, skinny arms and neck, and what we would like with you on my arm at Make-A-Wish and/or Business gatherings.
The second consideration is if your smile and general nature dismantles me into blubbering idiot. This has happened twice in my lifeā¦forgot jokes, couldnāt really speak, and had to shut down and reboot 🙃.My final thought before I commit to long-term investment is the following: āwhen I look like a swiveled-up Prune and her a Raisin, will she still be beautiful.-This has more to do with that āpersonality and characterā that dismantled me into blubbering fool 😎
- Don't be a bitch/feminist.
- Have some class and self-respect; don't be a slut/whore.
- Look and act feminine.
- Have good health.
- Be loyal and supportive to your partner.
- Know how to cook, clean, and take care of yourself.That's pretty much it.
A woman with class. Takes care of herself, easy going, fun to be with, understanding, takes care of her manās needs, has a good head on her shoulders, doesnāt need a man but wants to be with a man to enjoy life with. She is a good wife/mother material.
men are really simple, especially successful menā¦they donāt want women who gives them headaches.Age isn't so much important as compatibility and that is hard to come by in age gaps larger than 9 years. So we tend to look near our age group without rolling others out. And what they look like will vary from man to man. I really don't have a type per se. But I do have to be attracted to her. Loyalty and honesty is a must. This eliminates 80% of women right off the bat. After that it's just a matter of finding a woman that's "like minded". We don't have to think exactly alike. In fact it's better if we don't. But we do have to have similar life views and goals or it just won't work.
If I'm totally what I've noticed in my experience is that they aren't to fussy when it comes to her success and career. Yes they want the best for them and will be very pushy when it comes to that stuff but they don't care if your not from some super rich family and your not a doctor or something.
If anything they like submissive, loyal, good woman who are also very pretty. They want wife material and want her to be able to work around his life and be supportive and comforting.
Dear internet,
after careful consideration of my options I have decided that I would like to trade out my cunt for coins.
How can I get a man who has absolutely no incentive what so ever to make a commitment to me?
PS Any personality that I have of my own is unimportant, I just want to know how I can best pretend to be someone else so that I can get a free meal ticket.
PPS Insert link to onlyfans page here.
Be 18-23 feminine, agreeable, natural, submissive, and not weigh a ton. Aim for 115lbs maybe 120-130lbs max. Remember he is the prize and you can be replaced by any other girl easily and respect that reality.
Someone who is not a princess and who I can talk to without worrying about what I will say. Someone with a sense of humor not to make me laugh but so I know I can poke fun in a friendly way.
Someone who I don't always have to say something good about all the time, and I can talk to about anything without her blowing up or going crazy.
Probably someone either flashy or someone stable. Has a good head on her shoulders and self-reliant. Depends on what they are looking for. A show piece or a long relationship without concern of money grubbers.
Sorry girl, set aside the obvious, no idea what successful men specifically look for in women. Proof of their virility and success? Boasting? Snobbism? Or just genuine love? Even creating a family?
You can have pretty much any type of personality and do just about anything you want -- as long as you are never, ever nice to me at all ā¤ļø
As a future successful man, I hope my future woman is also equally successful in her endevors.
Not over-fucked, actually have a personality, attractive, loyal, feminine, cooperative.
Somebody younger and very hot so they could show off.
All men are different but it's rare to find Loyalty, compassion, and actions. Words and promises don't mean half as much as the things you do.
rules for girls:
1. Don't be fat
Mostly successful men will go for younger girls, they should be feminine and have a feminine body. They should be supportive and respectful. They should cook and clean. That's all a man asks for.
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