Is it normal that I am not head over heels in love with my new girlfriend, but I feel so much peace compared to my previous relationships?

[Anonymous]

[LiamJHayden]

In the long run peace is far better than a momentary emotional high.

[Surferboi_02]

Yes it is normal it means you are right where you should be

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely, love doesn't always have to feel like a roller coaster ride to be real! Feeling peace in a relationship is often a sign of compatibility and genuine connection, unlike the storms of drama some experiences bring. It's like feeling at home with someone, rather than being on a thrilling but exhausting adventure. Your heart might not skip a beat every time you see them, but if you're breathing deeper and smiling more, you're probably in a really good place. Embrace the calm; it's rare and precious in the world of dating. Besides, love often grows in tranquil gardens, not in the wild storms. Keep watering this budding romance, and you might just find yourself falling in love more deeply than you ever imagined, one peaceful moment at a time. 😉

[Damaged00]

I honestly aim for this. I believe when we fall head over heels in love with someone especially so fast that it's more than likely infatuation or lust. And it stems more from wanting to be loved or looking for someone to fill a need. It can become very toxic.

I think you are already at peace with yourself and your not looking for anyone to fill a void. And this girl adds to that peace. Which to me is a beautiful foundation for real love to grow from. But that's just my opinion.

[Account]

Well unfortunately, that is the most common thing ever.
Look around you.

[Anonymous]

This is a bad sign. She cannot fill out the void of your real loved one. You are using her. Be true with yourself and your feelings. It's up to you: if you're looking for something "easy" or a soulmate

[Asker]

Why are you guys assuming things so easily? Damn

[ArchersArrow]

You’ll need to get explain more. Are you in love? How long has it been? What happened between you that made you feel at peace?

[luvstoned4him]

Maybe she is your platonic soulmate and yes that can happen

[Jltakk]

Eh, it's better than having had no relationship experience at all

[DishLady]

That's up to you.