I'm suddenly feeling less attached and less love toward my girlfriend?

[VanityIsBliss]

I've been so in love with her for over 7 months, and now suddenly I feel it much less. Am I just going through some weird phase? I care so much about her and don't want to hurt her, and I'm scared if I say something it'll screw things up if I start feeling normal again. And I know she still really loves me...

Please help me, I'm freaking out. For our whole relationship I was under the impression that we'd be together for years. What's going on? :(

[MuckBucketQueen]

This is normal I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and we both have had phases when things came up that made us wonder should we stay together. Try telling her how you feel make sure she knows it's nothing she did you just don't feel the same that it's probably a phase. I'd wait it out you need to think if you can see a future with this girl. If you can't imagine life without her right now then your not ready to break up and are just going through a phase.

[Anonymous]

you probably just got over the chemical infatuation phase, its not possible to be infatuated with someone forever but it is possible to love them forever. the chemical high from infatuation comes and goes.

[VanityIsBliss]

Yeah that's a possibility. It just freaks me out so much, because it happened like over-night. It may also be the lack of affection we've had together lately because she's been a bit depressed. I just hope to God this passes. I told her about it today (without making her think I don't love her anymore) and she wept. It made me want to kill myself

[Opinion Owner]

Try staring into each others eyes, studies show this activates a bonding hormone and couples that do this stay together longer