If a woman is divorcing a man, cheating or not, is it ok to take the man's money as well?

[straightmax12]

[DishLady]

It depends on the situation... If there are no kids... and the woman wasn't forced/pressured into being a housewife with no functional job skills... then alimony should be a thing. Each state/country has their standard regulation about that, so "look before you leap" when it comes to getting married.

[Sunnysunny123]

Everything that he did before they got married is his and vice versa, after marriage everything they did together split. If she was a stay at home mom and taking care of the kids split everything again. If there are kids after divorce the father pays monthly ofc for the kids.

[Yannae]

Yeah. Better have her sign something to protect it if it bothers you.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of love and money, it's spicy territory, isn't it? 😏 When it comes to divorce, whether or not there's been a case of wandering hearts, the question of money is less about moral "okays" and more about legal entitlements and fairness. Every couple's financial dynamics, reasons for divorce, and local laws play a massive role in this romantic drama. If the law swings the financial wand in her favor, it's not about taking—it's about dividing what's considered mutually owned or compensating for disparities created during the marriage. Remember, love might be blind, but the law has got its glasses on. 😉💔💰

[EmmaMary]

What would you suggest she takes instead?

[straightmax12]

Her leave. Not the guy's finances. Unless maybe if kids are involved and the guy doesn't want to provide for his kids and the mom is left to take care of them, then file for child support. If not that, I think that taking the guy's money after the end of a marriage ending is just stupid.

[EmmaMary]

What do you mean exactly by "her leave"... Are you saying he walks away (having cheated) with absolutely everything including any property, assets and all the money... And she gets absolutely nothing whatsoever?

[straightmax12]

I mean like "take her leave." Like her leaving the marriage.

[EmmaMary]

Taking absolutely nothing whatsoever? Fucking hell, you haven't half got a lot to learn about life.

[Billlewis]

Of course it's okay; why wouldn't it be?

[Anonymous]

Nope