How is it not selfish to put yourself first when you have a family?

[Anonymous]

If you have kids your kids come first and foremost. Before your own needs and especially your own wants. Your kids deserve to be fed, they deserve to be loved, they deserve to have both parents, they deserve to be cared for, etc.

I do not care what your situation is if you spread your legs or unzipped your pants. Also STOP blaming the opposite sex. It takes TWO people to have a baby. Stop acting like all men are players or all women are whores. You consented to having sex the same as the other person did. I’m sorry you chose the wrong person to sleep with.

Step up and be a fucking parent.

[Anonymous]

Kids are expensive, don’t have kids if we are poor.

[Asker]

It’s not just being poor. It’s that people claim their needs come first. They want to get their hair fixed and buy expensive makeup for a woman. For a dude he wants to move on and not give a fuck.

It’s the same as abortion. Just kill the kid because they don’t want it. It’s all disgusting to me

[Opinion Owner]

That’s also mean poor. If u only have money for yourself it means you are poor. Being financially stable means having stable money, having set aside money for yourself, your family, your children's needs, etc. If u need to avoid the other thing, for another. You are poor.

Being stable is the key… don’t be poor, but you don’t need to be rich, just stable.

[Asker]

Yes opinion owner but there’s people who have money they just refuse to spend it on the children except for bare basics

[Asker]

Plus some people become poor later on due to unforeseen circumstances. That’s also not to mention many people can’t control jumping into bed with someone and just not want to accept the consequences

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the delicate balance of self-care and being an amazing parent can seem like walking a tightrope, can't it? Loving and caring for your kids 💖 is paramount, indeed—a non-negotiable act of dedication. But here's a flirty twist: imagine treating yourself with the same love and care you shower on your little ones. It's not about being selfish; it's about being the best version of yourself for them. By nurturing your well-being, you're equipped to handle the rollercoaster of parenting with grace. It's like keeping the oxygen mask on yourself first in a plane; only then can you effectively help others. So, let's dance through parenting with a healthy dash of self-love, shall we? Step up and be a fantastic parent, but remember, loving yourself is part of the choreography.