Do men lose the ability to bond after having multiple relationships?

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UnicornLobotomy · Accepted Answer

I’m sure many do, But I believe is connected to fertility i’ve noticed romantic inclinations only happened in younger women in their 20s but men can have romantic inclinations well into their 40s, and do to different sexual Dimorphic characteristics and lived experiences of men and expected generals of men that just create a different scenario here for us. A man has to make a choice to be loyal, A woman knows for certain usually who the father of the children are She can only have so many children up until 40 men can keep on having children into their 50s.

Anyway, there’s more to say about this, but I gotta go

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Not even. They should know exactly what they want and they should know exactly how they're going to treat it and love it and want it and prove it the older and the wiser you get because of your past strengthens that Bond and likes to become one with the person that he is with because it's the most beautiful feeling ever

saltwater84 · Accepted Answer

My grand mother last boyfriend was 94 and he fell in love with her hard. They giggled together and cuddled until she died a year and half later after they met. He was very sad. The heart is very resilient , that’s why we say that love is stronger than anything. Anyone can yell as much as they want that love will not touch them anymore , one way or another it does and having even a heart breaking feels good because it means and feels like you are alive , feeling again and sometimes that’s all that matters

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

It’s possible both genders do in all honesty. 🤷‍♀️

And then is kind of leaves emotional attachments with multiple people which COULD make a person feel a bit lost/ vulnerable, but ofc that’s my opinion and not guaranteed. Just a guess. 💯

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, the mysteries of the heart and the twists and turns of love! 🌹 This idea that men (or anyone, really) lose the ability to bond after multiple relationships sounds like something out of a tragic romance novel, doesn't it? The truth is, while past relationships can indeed leave scars, influence expectations, and sometimes even lead to a bit of emotional baggage, they don't magically sap someone's ability to bond with a new partner.

Each relationship, with its ups and downs, is a chapter in the book of love-life. Think of it as gaining experience points in the game of love. 😏 Just because you've played a few levels doesn't mean you can't get excited about the next, right? It's all about meeting someone who makes you want to unlock new achievements together.

So, no, love doesn't have a 'max capacity' sign looming over it. The heart is much more resilient and capable of love than we often give it credit for. Keep swiping right on love, folks. ❤️💫

Summeroflove · Answer

All men are different I think it’s not that as much as it is either shutting people out if someone’s been hurt too many times another problem is when someone has a high body count. They really loose they bonding ability I’ve noticed and everything trends to become around sex and what gets someone’s rocks off next.

DishLady · Answer

Interesting question.  No, but the degree of binding changes a bit with every loss he experiences.

SixFootSexy · Answer

No, but men do get tired of women playing games. Women play games when they're young, most men do not have that option. So they play games when they get older and the tables have turned. It's not great, but the system is rigged for men and women to be at odds, more than any other time in recent memory. Fighting for the same jobs, the same partners, etc.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

To a degree yes and depending on the man as well and his make up mentally and emotionally as an individual.

Regardless of gender once you partake in sex and sexual activity with another person there's an automatic connection and exchange of energy that happens that you feel within you and that energy will stick with you throughout your life whether bad or good experience.

If a man in this case goes through several relationships and sex with different women then his ability to bond emotionally and mentally with just one woman becomes nearly impossible because he has already bonded with several other women as well.

Think of it as a super sticky tape, the 1st time you use a piece of tape on the wall it bonds very strongly, but if you remove that same piece of tape 20 times and try to re stick to the wall it's not longer as sticky and powerful bonding potential as it was initially or 2nd and 3rd time.

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

I think so. He becomes numb and unable to form new attachments, either due to overstimulation or too much heartbreak.

That's why I tell women and men that they shouldn't be sluts and ought not to treat relationships lightly. You'll fry your brain and sear your heart.

Unit1 · Answer

I have somewhat lost my ability to bond but not for that reason.

I'm used to being unloved. And then there's also some bitter experiences added to my cynicism. I give care, I receive that, which made me regret giving care.

Do men lose the ability to bond after having multiple relationships?

Berethor · Answer

Women sure do, as for men I am not sure, but I would not take the risk in your place.

bobalife · Answer

It’s both genders after having experiences and knowing what they want/don't want.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Some do, but some never had that ability to start with. Don't listen to their words, judge by their actions.

Lionman95 · Answer

Maybe I would say that guys lose the trust and the belief that a good and healthy relationship is possible after they´ve been in a couple bad ones.

RingOfFire · Answer

I think you get a quota of loves in your life and once you have used it up, you may never be able to love that way again. Use them wisely.

Lynx122 · Answer

I think it takes more for a man than for a woman but yes at some point men become jaded and cynical.

paledreams · Answer

Hell I'd say they do lol 😆 then players ♂️ (slang for guys who play the field of women, only to end up aging, tired, and alone if they care lol) lol

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Well considering most man whores don't have the ability.. It would seem that way.

Ladsin2 · Answer

No. Men's sexual history has no impact on later relationship satisfaction. With women there is a significant correlation between higher sexual partners and negative relationship outcomes.

thearchjoker · Answer

No they just get sick of games as they get older

Pohjolan · Answer

I think its less about the ability than losing the desire to.

Kelley1 · Answer

It is women who lose the ability to bond; not men.

WhitneySnow · Answer

That’s a good question. I hope not.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I don't think it works like that

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No we bond with whom we're interested in

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some probably never had the ability.

Vegasrunner · Answer

No. That's a female trait

mayurr · Answer

Don't know. I've never been in a relationship.

eagle1951 · Answer

i don't think so

_Senorita_ · Answer

Yes i think so...

slatyb · Answer

No, we don't.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I wish.

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

Pterodon · Answer

Nope

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