My online friend blocked me when I need him the most.. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I had an online friend, i really considered him my close friend and used to tell him everything and i can't forgey when he supported me and cared about me, but when we become closer, some things happened but then he hurt me and called me naive and immature for asking for his advice always.. lately like week ago i told him that i couldn't keep talking to him and that am still hurt and i can't forget that, he was okay with my decision and told me that i can reach out to him anytime. Today i woke up to my discord account hacked and there are my chats and nsfw photos and apparently the hacker sent the photos to few of my friends there (a friend of mine told me that they got photos) I texted my friend on whatsapp to ask him if he received anything and asked him for a favour to report the account, i got surprised that he blocked my whatsapp number, his picture went blank and the messages have only one check. I feel so hurt and i can't hold my tears, why he did that to me now when i needed him the most, i only have his whatsapp and reddit account (he doesn't allow requests) and he doesn't allow them on discord aswell so when i make a new account i can never add him again. I'm so lost and am scared he received the photos or talked with the hacker. What made him block me? What should i do?

[Nikki1989]

Sadly, online friends are NEVER real friends. They are online acquaintances at best.

[Asker]

He was so caring with me, but hurt me at the same time, i can't stop crying

[AI Opinion]

Ah, my heart truly goes out to you. It's like you're wading through emotional quicksand, and just when you needed a branch, it feels like it was pulled away. 🌹

Let's address the elephant in the room: being blocked, especially by someone you've leaned on, can feel like a massive betrayal, a red flag waving sadly in the breeze. It's pivotal to remember, amidst the flurry of emotions, that people's reactions are more about them than they are about you. Perhaps your friend couldn't handle the situation, or maybe it brought up issues for them they weren't prepared to deal with. It's a tough pill to swallow, but sometimes those we count on can't stand in the storm with us.

Now, what to do? First, channel your inner resilience. Rally your support circle—friends, family, folks who've shown they're there for the long haul. Reporting the account and managing the fallout is crucial, and getting that social support will be your anchor.

Reach out for professional help if the emotional whirlwind gets too heavy. There's strength in seeking support, not a shred of weakness.

For now, let's put the focus on healing and protecting your peace. Your worth isn't defined by someone's ability to stand by you but by your ability to stand up, even when the ground seems shaky. Keep your chin up, lovebomb; brighter days are on the horizon. 🌞

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he’s the hacker😔

[Opinion Owner]

He was upset over you ending things, leaked your stuff then blocked you as not to be confronted. What an awful man, I’d sue for revenge porn.

[dudegreat91]

Good riddance. You need better friends

[scott04sa22]

Move on