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Do you care if your partner drinks alcohol or smokes (moderately)?

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  • itsannalee
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    Guru Age: 33 , mho 38%
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    509 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    No i don’t.
    Ny man drink alcohol all the time, and smokes.
    As long as he still can taking care if himself whe he drinks, i don’t mind with it.

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    • SpaceGalaxy
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      @itsannalee Do you smoke and drink as well?

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      I only drink if I accompany him to drink.

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  • KpopMusicFan
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    It’s fine if it’s little bit.

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  • Jumping right into the heart of love and relationships, let's talk about the sip and puff of partnership dynamics. Now, isn't it fascinating how the little things like a casual drink or a smoke can turn into big conversation starters in relationships? It's all about what you're comfortable with and what vibes with your lifestyle. If you're someone who loves a glass of wine at dinner or enjoys the occasional lazy Sunday with a book and a smoke, finding someone who shares or at least respects your habits could be the cherry on top of the romantic cake. On the flip side, if you're more about that clean-living life, a partner puffing away might not be your cup of tea (or glass of detox water). Ultimately, it's the blend of understanding, respect, and compatibility that keeps the relationship intoxicating - in all the right ways. So, let's toast to finding that perfect mix! Cheers to love, compatibility, and the occasional debate over Merlot vs. Marlboro. 😉

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  • mandyfire98
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    Alcohol is fine. Marijuana once in a while is ok.

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  • Apple1996
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    Drinking/smoking doesn't bother me

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  • Anonymous
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    Ideal to prefer a smart person. No smoking or drinking.

    but. I’m not so closed off.
    If someone wants to have a drink here and there it’s fine. occasionally like at bars, or parties if it’s moderately.

    I don’t want to deal with an alcoholic.

    smoking, I’ll NEVER date or be with any smoker. It’s a stupid way to look purposefully give yourself health problems. Any smoking at all.

    if you’re an alcoholic or a smoker, the persons comes off as an idiot to me.

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  • Anonymous
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    Smoking is 100% a dealbreaker for me. I had a family member die from lung cancer. She never smoked, her husband did. He died first, and I guess took her along with him. The smell is horrible, it's bad for everyone's health, if I see someone light up, even "occasionally," I'm out. Plenty of other fish in the sea that don't.

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    Alcohol and smoking are carcinogenic and super-toxic substances, did you know that both smoking and alcohol even taken individually have more toxins than faeces, urine and sweat put together? On top of that these substances are addictive, so it's not easy to handle either.

    If it was once in a while, for example once a week or every fortnight, it wouldn't bother me, but if it was habitual I wouldn't like it.

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  • dragoblack
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    I highly prefer my partner doesn't smoke, just because it smells bad, makes her smell bad, bad for her health, and is an expensive addiction. Drinking I'm fine with as long as it is controlled (as in drinks for flavor, not to get stupid blackout drunk)

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  • PeachyPie93
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    Absolutely hate smoking.. drinking I wouldn't like but if they know how to control themselves and it isn't every week, fine..

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  • quickquesocheese
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    Yes. But not in a way where i try to decide what they can, or can't do with their body. Its more about their health. And that i want to have them around for a long time.

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  • luvstoned4him
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    I don't want to be with some who smokes but if he drinks, hopefully it's socially and he doesn't make it into a habit

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  • Caroline91
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    Hard. no on smoking. Very light and infrequent alcohol use.

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  • jorfan3
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    Not really. Why do I need to control their life?

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  • DrPepper12
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    I was the smoker and drinker. She tolerated it but didn't like it. Insisted I smoke outside house. So glad I quit both!

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  • paledreams
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    I wouldn't date a woman who's not clean and always been clean

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  • exitseven
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    it never bothered me when i was younger but I am a lot more health conscious now so I say no.

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  • jamesgoldman
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    No for the drink but the smoking cigarettes are bad but a pipe or cigar is a okay

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  • impalabill77
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    Drink alcohol, no I don't. Smoking I do mind. I quit last year and I don't want the temptation on starting back up.

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  • Walksbehindtherows
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    Yes, a smart person does not smoke. Drinking alcohol is also pointless.

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  • elaphe
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    Drinking moderately is fine. I would not tolerate any amount of smoking.

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  • Radiate143
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    Absolute deal breaker.

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  • Fireguy17
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    drinking ok, smoking no.

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  • MysticDevice
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    Drinking, sure. Smoking, no.

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  • LiamJHayden
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    Drink, no. Smoke, yes.

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  • Inthelines
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    Yes, I am against alcohol and cigarettes.

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  • Agape93
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    Not really

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  • Kingofkings1992
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    Nope.

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