Why do women just drop a loyal, and good boyfriend or Husband that treats them right?

[Anonymous]

Most guys I know usually put loyalty and respect first and foremost in the relationship, (unless they find a reason to just not like the relationship anymore) sometimes it just doesn't seem like women seem to care much about that, especially when some tend to have romantic feelings for a backup man and remain in contact with them while being in a relationship that hasn't been bad. Sure the woman and the backup man may not have sex but still she's having romantic feelings for another man while in a relationship that's practically cheating and as she remains talking more and more with the back up man she puts less and less into the relation with her man that she actually is in a relationship with. Then she just finds some reason to end the relationship with the man that hasn't done anything wrong. Because of this I don't find it surprising that most men don't want to marry because of this.

[Summeroflove]

Women who intentionally pick bad men are mostly very shitty themselves, with that said some people start off genuinely amazing the same thing goes for men who pick absolutely horrible women.

I see men do this all the time when marry women who are nothing but entitled ungrateful spoiled brats. Who cheat on him and nothings ever good enough.

[mobiusforniner]

Because people are unpredictable. Because people change. Because people are immature. Who knows?

Listen, you can’t control what she does. You can only control what you do. And ask yourself, why does it hurt YOU? Any feelings of resentment and anger, while warranted for sure; are often rooted in trying too hard to control what you want. This itself stems from being personally insecure and having a fear of losing someone or (in most cases) something you want from that someone.

control your own actions and behaviors. Learn, grow and try again. Staying angry about it means you’re a toddler choosing not to grow up. Not attractive. Gaining experience, despite having many heartbreaks and pain, improving oneself and learning to shrug it off and still keep a straight head…. this makes one a MAN. Good luck.

[fonduegirl]

First of all, nobody owes you a damn thing for treating them right. That's just the Nice Guy narrative.

Second of all, that's a universal thing. Not a gender issue. You ever wonder why the new recruit who is a total jerk by the way got promotion before you? After all these years you've sucking up to the superiors, all the expensive dinners you wasted on them, the overtime work you've done... And THEY get promoted, not you.

[Anonymous]

It's not just a single gender thing because I'm asking the SAME exact question about some men. Simple answer: some people were then, are now, and forever will be a-holes no matter how good of a person you are to them. It's nothing you did, said, acted like, they just suck! You have to learn like everyone else eventually does to move on and keep looking for someone who cares about you or just be by yourself and love yourself.

[fonduegirl]

Exactly

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of love and relationships here! Oh, the age-old question of loyalty and love taking unexpected turns. Let me sprinkle some insights into this dynamic. It's not so much about gender, honestly. Relationships are complex creatures, and sometimes, they evolve or devolve in ways that baffle us.

When someone starts eyeing the greener grass on the other side, it's often a signal of deeper issues within the relationship itself or within that person. It's not exclusive to women; men can find themselves in similar boats too. The heart wants what it wants, right? That doesn't excuse the behavior, but it explains it a bit.

Lovebombing one day and ghosting the next isn't confined to a single gender. It's a human thing, stemming from a mix of emotional dissatisfaction, unmet needs, and sometimes, a dash of commitment phobia.

The trick is communication. A lot of these heartaches can be mitigated with open, honest conversations about needs, wants, and expectations. Remember, it's not about finding someone who never looks elsewhere; it's about finding someone who chooses you, day after day, even when the going gets tough. Keep the romance alive, keep the communication channels wide open, and never stop nurturing the relationship. Love is a garden; it needs constant tending. 💘

[MrOracle]

When this happens, it's usually due to one of two things.

1. She feels like a better deal came along - but she will almost always be looking at surface issues to judge that. The new guy is taller, more fit, more handsome, makes more money, or is more exciting (which means dangerous). And she won't be thinking about the new guy's morals, values, or life goals, just about her life being more exciting.

2. She has Disney princess syndrome, and really believed that a relationship would make her "happy ever after". She wasn't supposed to ever feel stressed or overwhelmed or sad or envious or bored, and when she does, she quickly decides it's her husband's/boyfriend's fault. And since she "deserves to be happy", he has to go, and he is to blame. This is the #1 reason for divorce in the Western world.

Of course, not all women do these things, but of those who do, nearly all of them will fall into one of these two groups.

[DextroShade]

It usually boils down to one of two reasons:

• She has had too many bodies and her current man doesn't compare to the Chads and Tyrones who ran through her, so she starts resenting him for not being those guys.

or

• She has been influenced, either by society, social media, her bitch friends, or all of the above, to think that her man sucks and she can do better than him even though in reality she probably can't.

[Lynnzee]

I wouldn't. A lot of women may be attracted to a bad boy type but also that particular guy just may not be right for them even if they are loyal.

[strateguy632]

Because she gets "bored" instead of appreciation he is nice. Then she looks for "excitement " with the wild guy... and suffers... and whines all men are jerks.

[BetaBucks]

Those characteristics don't matter. Masculine and attractive are what matters. Status too. Everything else is just an extra perk.

[Anonymous]

Because of the whole drizzle drizzle / sprinkle sprinkle mindset (by those who unironically think like that). And no i know these phrases sound stupid but im not the moron who came out with these terms

[Anonymous]

Boredom. Women aren't loyal to men. Women are loyal to her feelings. You can treat a woman like absolute garbage so long as she feels connected to you, she'll want you.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Because the backup boy may be richer, better-looking, a great stud or a combination of the three.

[TheCaller]

Not every woman does this. As the lord of Sealand, I have always been kind to women and none of them have ever cheated on me.

[Jackson2005]

Same reason why some guys just drop a loyal, and good girlfriend/wife that treats them right 🤷‍♂️

[Xawyx]

Just like men, not every woman is a good person.

[FunkyMonkee]

Greed, apparently.

[zagor]

Boredom. Whether sexual or otherwise.

[LiamJHayden]

Boredom seems to be a common excuse.

[power_wolf]

women are like spoiled children. don't ever marry

[Ladsin2]

They got a better option.

[elaphe]

A decent woman wouldn't do that.

[noohair]

Women always look to trade UP.

[Cheerfull009]

New taste , new love