Why do women push away good boyfriends that really love and care about them?

[Anonymous]

I heard that when this happends it creates guys that don't want to get back into a relationship, or become fuck boys, and leaves the women asking where are all the good ones at?

I'm a man and I wonder why this happends

I'm a woman and I wonder why this happends

Selfish people are made for selfish people

Mature people don't push away the good people in their lives

[lightbulb27]

yea. timing, hormones and wisdom at a different place... not valuing that person yet. they will later in life after they've been hurt enough.

[emeraldsaphire]

Because love is not enough. I love a lot of people, but that doesn't mean I want to date them.

Relationships are hard, there are a lot of factors. They could love and care for you, but what if you are incompatible. She wants to move to Paris, but you want to move to Ohio. Maybe she wants kids, but you don't. Maybe the attraction that was once there is gone.

If you recently had a break up, my heart goes out for you. I've been there. You will recover and find someone else.

but the "this makes men become F*boys" sounds like toxic incel rhetoric. If a man chooses to become one that is there decision not their Exes. And I don't even think that's a bad thing. If a guy wants to only pursue sex who cares.

[Nikki1989]

Because they are rarely as good as they claim to be.

[Anonymous]

She either toxic and doesn't really understand that or she's still immature. If she's 30 or older she's just toxic. Because if she hasn't grown out of that by 30 she ain't going to.

[ProbablyClueless]

Self confidence issues. Not being in the right place career wise. Could be a lot of things.

Here's one that blows my mind every time I encounter it, but sometimes people will push away great relationships because they "just don't feel like it" in the moment. It happen more than you'd hope.

[Garud]

Good boyfriends often make their girlfriends feel like they're a lot better than they really are.
then immaturity along with a lack of humbleness, demanding and over-self-prioritizing behaviour.
It's also the other way around.

[disappoint3d]

The quickest way to make a woman loose interest in you is give her exactly what she asks for and be available to her all the time.

[Flower7]

Lack of interest, I suppose.

[Crazzyyworld]

It’s bout money what else? Comfortable life

[Crazzyyworld]

She wants a pimp to sell her out not the ones making her a slave to cook and push baby out

[Anonymous]

Upgrades

[jahaims]

Trauma response