Why do guys only want women who don’t care about them?

[Anonymous]

[smashleyy]

apparently mens love hormones are released when they release dopamine and vasopressin, but do you know when men release vasopressin? it’s when they're stressed😂. that’s probably the main reason why men get weirdly obsessed with you when you ignore them or when they have to chase you because it’s releasing a love hormone. vasopressin isn’t only released from stress tho it’s also released when they have high volumes of sodium in their body, obviously if you eat you’re increasing sodium levels so I’m assuming that’s where the saying “a way to man’s heart is through his stomach” comes from. Womens love hormones are released from dopamine and oxytocin (sex releases oxytocin) women think sex and doing above and beyond kissing mens asses is gonna make them fall for them but it’s not. Sure they’ll appreciate you but it doesn’t release love hormones. Most men couldn’t tell you why women that stress them out or don’t want them are the women they want the most.

[Asker]

Thank you!!

[jennifer_bloom]

A lot of guys want accountability partners because they lack self control and a demanding woman is seen as an accountability partner that can keep them healthy, fit, productive, and moral.

[elew4too]

They want a woman who cares about them. Everyone (guys and girls) shows much less interest in those that make themselves too available though. It’s a subconscious thing. The opposite happens when someone doesn’t make themselves as available: the scarcity of their presence makes them seem more valuable. It’s stupid, I know, but so are many other of humanity’s knee-jerk reactions

[OfMiceandMen]

It makes it easier for that type of guy to kick her to the curb. No hard feelings, I guess?

[TheVigilantFox]

I don’t, I want someone who will care about me as much as I care about them.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't, I want the exact opposite of that (as do most guys)

[WellGreetingsISay]

I sure don't want a woman like that. I'm happy to have women who care about me.

[Anonymous]

I wish I knew. The only girl i truly am into rejects me everytime I try. I do have bad timing tho...

[serious]

That is totally untrue.