Is that a fact?
I don't think so. Well, I don't know about other men but as a man I totally appreciate a woman who is genuinely sweet, kind, caring as a person and an OPEN BOOK type. Like she never plays hard to get or any sort of manipulative mind games with me. It doesn't matter even if she is an acquaintance or a woman I met online.
The moment I come to know or if I suspect the woman may be playing hard to get or any mind games then immediately I will cease all contact with her. From that moment she will be out of my life. As a man I have no patience for such women, no respect also.
Of course I would appreciate it if a woman makes the initiative, like it could be simply messaging or even texting me. I will surely appreciate that effort.
Yes, I know my limits so I will only keep it to talking and acquaintance level but still as I said before I always respect and appreciate women who are genuinely nice, sweet, kind and caring and one who never plays any sort of manipulative mind games.
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I've just seen a similar question but in the other way round.
My answer is this isn't the case all the time. People like others for different reasons. And there will be someone who likes you over someone else. That's the nature.
I know this because this happened to me too. There was a girl who liked me, but I liked her friend. But her friend didn't like me. It's all natural. I didn't like the first girl not because she's bad or anything. I still think she's a good girl. I'm just not romantically attracted to her. That's it.
Both girls look beautiful and they are similarly successful characters. They both are good girls (I believe). So it's not because anything bad. Just how the attraction works
My cousin says the same thing that men always want what they can’t have and woman are like that too sometimes.
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The thing is playing hard to get makes anyone feel like they are being challenged.. which is a feeling that makes you go all out... that feeling can be nostalgic for most of men... it feels like you have some tals to achieve which makes you lit like fire...
The reason behind this is cinematography,
Our view of romance has started to come from the movies it self... and most of them has the term "play hard to get"...Because we guys loose the focus for the right women.
In culture where it seems like guys should be experienced when getting in a relationship he probably feels like he has to play around first to get experience in relationship and in bed.
It's not your fault he's just not ready for a relationshipI cannot agree with that statement, as its too broad to be true. In some cases, yes it actually happens. It has to be with the fact that the girl plays hard to get, making herself look more "valuable" (pathetic if you ask me) while the girl who likes him gets herself more approachable and drops clues which he does not receive.
Ignorance. That is why most people do this. They don't know what they're doing. Many never figure it out and just end up hating the other gender.
Because some guys want sex on plate, or money and charm instead. They don't want "another mother" like you seem to think.
Same reasons why girls do the same.
she is probably really hot in bed
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