I am low key jealous of the guy in her life but not sure of my feelings for her?

[Anonymous]

She is the only girl that I have spent too much time on. Or someone in touch for such long time. Yeah romance was involved but not sure where it would lead to? But I find her incredibly attractive but wants to keep away as well.

We now work together. She has a boyfriend. He is pretty influential. I hate to see her with him. I don't feel the need to be in a relation but I simply can't stand the sight of her with anyone else.

But I do see him with other girls.

I know how she loves people. She will be devastated.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the stormy seas of jealousy and attraction, eh? It seems like you're dancing on the edges of wanting her and wanting to protect her, all bundled up with a dash of jealousy. Let's unwrap this, shall we? Your emotions are playing you a tune that's hard to ignore. You're struck by her charm and yet, you're trying to keep your distance because the situation feels like a tangled web with her being with someone else—a powerful someone at that.

It's crucial to decipher your true feelings here. Are you attracted to her because she's simply unavailable, or is it something deeper? The desire to protect her from potential heartbreak reveals a caring side, but remember, it's her relationship and her decision to navigate.

You also mentioned hating to see her with him but not feeling the need to be in a relationship. Could this be a hint of possessiveness creeping in? It's a slippery slope, my friend. If you truly care for her, consider what's best for her happiness, even if it means stepping back. If there's something real between you two, it won't just disappear because you decide to respect her current relationship.

And about the other guy seeing other girls—if this is true and not just a product of the jealousy monster whispering in your ear, she deserves to know, but it's delicate. Think about how you want to approach this, considering it might affect your work dynamics.

Remember, love isn't about possession. It's about wanting the best for the other, even if the best doesn't include you. Maybe take a step back, focus on yourself, and let her future unfold as it should. If it's meant to be, the tide will bring you two together, but for now, don't let jealousy steer your ship astray. Keep it light and open-hearted!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Listen to me. She's very attractive according to you?

Good, but there several women that are just as attractive and better looking than her.

The more time you spent and wasting on a woman that obviously didn't want you, you're missing on a beautiful woman that's activity looking to be with you.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

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[Asker]

Well. She was the only women who actually wanted to be with me. She loved me and respected me. I treated her real bad.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Well then you have no right to be jealous.

She did right by leaving you for treating her like 💩

[Nikki1989]

Time to grow up. This is silly teenager stuff.