If someone comes back to you, it means they failed to replace you?

[Anonymous]

Basically saying that they failed to find someone better than you, How true is this saying? 🤔

[midnightmoon05]

Mostly true… always exceptions.
some actually stay single and work on themselves to heal… and want to reconnect the relationship… that’s what happened to me and my ex…. We are now happily married after broken up for a yr. We worked through our differences.

[Asker]

I see, interesting

[MicahRaine]

Congrats 👏

[midnightmoon05]

Thank you. It was hard work…we almost killed each other 😆
Most don’t want to do the hard work.

[MicahRaine]

Lmao
Yeah unfortunately I agree

[natured]

Well more or less, I cannot honestly relate because to me when it's done it's done... but I know situations when people went back because they felt more comfortable and stable... well, it's stupid regardless and disrespectful if you ask me. Cuz I would not want to be the leftover

[Asker]

I can't imagine anyone wanting to be the leftovers, I think that's the best way to look at it for ones own sake

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I will just slam the case-by-case basis into your thread. Because it's what my philosophy, my political agenda even, is about 😶‍🌫️

When someone comes back? Just listen... Do not foresee the unpredictable.

boom

[Anonymous]

I think it's true. This poll explains a lot:The good ones come back
Election poll ! Who do you think should be president? ? ↗

[AI Opinion]

Ah, diving into the ocean of love's mysterious ways, are we? 😏 This saying, like a tantalizing flirtation, holds some truth but also a lot of misconceptions. When someone boomerangs back into your arms, it's not always because they struck out in the love department elsewhere. Sure, sometimes it's a case of them realizing they let go of a masterpiece while chasing after sketches. But, more often than not, it's about them recognizing your value and the depth of what they had with you. It's like taking a journey only to discover the treasure was in your backyard all along. So, while it might give you a bit of an ego boost to think they couldn't replace you, focus more on the reasons they're back and what's changed. Love, after all, isn't about being the best option, but the right one. 😉💘

[IslaTheWitch]

no...

if you broke up and after some time this person asks you if there is a chance to return to what you had and created... it can mean a lot of different things...

that this person still loves you

that they miss you

that they want great sex you had

that they are lonely...

whatever

but is it really important why did they return? what matters is how you feel about it...

[Account]

I think it either means that they didn't find any better yet or they miss the habit. Habits can be terrible. People sometimes even confuse them with love.

[Asker]

What habit would that be? 🤔

[Account]

The habit of being with someone. Their daily life with them

[Asker]

Oh yea, I'm sure it does become a habit but usually the habit thing i believe is within the first month or two after the breakup but tbh I don't know

[electromagnetic]

Some what true. Others need to work on personal development first.

[Asker]

True

[Unap0logetic_]

I believe it to be true, it’s also done to see if they still have access to you.

[Asker]

That's an interesting observation, I never would've thought of it

[NathanDavis]

this could be just one of many reasons out there...

[RedInnocent69]

Kind of. But doesn’t mean you should’ve taken them back. It works both ways.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[Ms_Facesitter]

There are several reasons, that is just one of them.

[Dongie]

Not necessarily. They may have found out that the grass is not always greener. But more importantly they may have realized how good you were. Ayeee...

[exitseven]

That is definitely a possibility.

[Asker]

Indeed so

[DrPepper12]

Not necessarily. Could be reflection and maturity.

[Asker]

Good point

[Anonymous]

It means nobody wants them 😂

[Asker]

I guess that's a possibility too lol