I rarely ever have these dreams but when I do, it was usually my intuition telling me that I’m being cheated on and apparently I was proven right. I know it was probably just a coincidence but I get scared now every time I have these kinda of dreams unsure whether it really is just a dream or if my intuition is trying to tell me something…
You’re right this does happen, not always but it can definitely be a sign. Cheating on something isn’t just physically betraying someone especially if it’s sexual but even if it’s not it’s a spiritual betrayal and is DESTRUCTIVE!
A lot of times you have instructs, gut feelings, as well as logic that can put together someone’s cheating. Many times people just don’t want to see it until there is concrete proof. Many cheaters even want you to know what they’re doing to you it’s a way they get off to it more. Is that they have to tell you what they’re doing but then throw in plausible deniability in there as well.
They think if you’re too stupid to believe their lies, if you’re too foolish not to catch on, if you’re too weak to stand up for yourself, then you deserve it. That’s how they think I’m not saying they’re right but it’s what they think.
Exactly! My boyfriend was recently caught emotionally cheating on me (after I had a vivid dream about it and eventually confronted him with the evidence I found). Now every time I have a similar dream I just panic unsure whether it is just my fear speaking to me or if my intuition is trying to tell me that he’s still cheating…
Asker it can be hard to tell but maybe deep down you know it’s over. It’s hard to recover form being cheated on and you maybe also know that by the time someone gets caught it’s not their first time.
Maybe it was his first time maybe it’s his last too…. But it’s unlikely. Many people when they first cheat they are SUPER careful it’s just after a while they start getting more brazen because they haven’t been caught yet. They cannot believe they been getting away with it thus far.
Many times once they are caught they say they won’t do it again but they do
To me even if someone’s only cheated once. They betrayed me and I’m sorry that’s the end of it.
Maybe if he has a genuine come to Jesus moment things can be fixed. But I think you deserve to be with someone you’re happy with and doesn't chest.
If you would never do anything like that to him then you don’t deserve it. Especially if you’ve been loyal and he has not that’s one sided.
It’s weird because I bet if he caught you doing the same thing. He would be pissed but when he does it it’s fine.
Well here is a tip for you Hun after a year of being with my ex I ended up getting a gut feeling he was cheating and everytime I dreamt about him I always walked in his house or bedroom and seen him with another girl or a bunch of girls and just him or he wasn't at his home and I went out looking for him found him in his friends and saying he didn't want to be with me that he's been sleeping with this girl for years and then we made up next few days he was going out he was in hers again and everytime I woke up in tears cause I loved my ex then my gut was giving me true positive vibes I was right 3 years of being with him I had only ever had 4 nice dreams about him other ones I always caught him cheating looks like Cinderella was right you dream a dream more than once it is fkn sure to come true this same one I had was true he was cheating for 2 years of in a relationship
That’s the thing, sometimes dreams to be giving you “warnings” about what to look out for in real life… I dreamed about my ex cheating one time and the next morning he confessed to me that he cheated. I’ve had similar instances happened to me at least three times so I don't know what to believe anymore. Sometimes dreams are just a product of my insecurity while other times they are a “sign”
While I only had 4 good ones of my ex so having only 4 good dreams of being 3 years in a relationship and the rest bad is definitely a sign especially if it's non stop everytime u know it's true for instance I have had dreams about Uma Thurman a few times and in everyone we fall in love in the end and I wake up with a smile or sometimes cry with happiness but they only happen now and then not to much that's how I know it's not going to happen but I still love having them there lovely other wise the ones about my ex with other women where none stop that's how I know they would happen I woke up crying with sadness everytime so there's a hint to
People will say no, but when I’ve prayed on certain things.. I always got the answer… I asked God to speak to me through my dreams and that’s exactly what happened.. I asked him to reveal certain things about my ex and it never missed a beat.. every time I had a dream that I found something on his phone, I did in real life… After the 3rd time, I found exactly what I needed to know because it was no longer about pictures etc… he was looking up illegal things and I figured out that he was waiting for someone to turn 18 and I left… (he will be 40 soon and I find that to be disgusting)
Yes!! Sometimes you do get “messages” through dreams. Like you I’ve had a lot of warnings sent to me through dreams
I have too.. I used to dream of a guy before he would message or call me. It was very freaky at first but then I learned to accept it and be grateful.
Dreams are usually your subconscious memory that likes to play tricks on you , some dreams can feel so real like it actually happened or it’s going to happen like it was a warning sign for you to look more into it. That’s up to you if you want to take it that far. Has there been any changes in your current relationship that you can’t really put your finger on or have you been cheated on before by someone? Or you subconsciously don’t want your boyfriend cheating on you and afraid that he will. So dreams can mean a lot of things or they can mean nothing at all. Only you can figure that out
That’s true. Some dreams are just a product of my insecurity. My boyfriend was caught emotionally cheating a while back (I had a very vivid dream about it and eventually found evidence). Now every time I have a similar dream I just panic unsure wether it’s my intuition telling me that he’s still cheating or that it’s just my fear speaking to me subconsciously
I’m sorry to hear he did that to you , so yes you are having those dreams because of what he did to you , you are feeling insecure , because you actually don’t feel at peace with him , because of what he did to you , so your subconscious memory is going to trigger those dreams because you fear he will do that to you again. My advice to you , is sometimes it’s best to move on from a partner that did that to you , because you will never be at peace or feel safe staying with someone like that
That’s true… I really wanted to give this relationship another chance but I think it’s taking a toll on mental health sadly…
Yea sadly once the trust is broken between 2 partners’ things will sadly never be the same , you can forgive them. and try burying what they did to you the best way you can , but you will never forget what they did to you , it doesn’t magically go away and sadly that’s where resentments will eventually come into play. I tried giving a cheater ex girlfriend another chance that claimed she just had an emotional connection with another guy and not physical , but I’m sorry emotional is just as bad as physical , At the time I felt like I could possibly forgive her and put it all in the past , thinking maybe things between us could work out , but I was wrong , because the trust I once had for her , was sadly no longer there. I couldn’t give myself 100 percent to her like i did before , so I ended it with her and moved on , and honestly it was the best decision I made because I wasn’t at peace with her. I didn’t hate her , I just didn’t trust her or love her like I did before she betrayed me , because at times I felt like she will eventually do it again to me when she had another opportunity to do so. So just because you feel like you still love someone and care about someone , it doesn’t mean you have to stay with them , you can still love and care about someone without being in a relationship with them. So it’s better for you to do the same so you can feel at peace again and eventually find yourself someone that won’t betray you whatsoever.
Diving into the world of dreams and intuition, aren't we? Dreams about your S. O. cheating can feel like a sneak peek into a secret world, can't they? But let's tread lightly—our dreams are often the playground of our fears, insecurities, and, yes, sometimes our intuition. It's tempting to see them as crystal balls, revealing truths or future events, but they're more like mirrors reflecting our internal states.
If you've previously had dreams that turned out to be eerily accurate, it's natural to feel anxious. However, it's also crucial to remember that correlation does not imply causation. Dreams can be influenced by countless factors: stress, trust issues, past experiences, or even that spicy taco you had before bed.
Should you ignore these dreams, then? Absolutely not! Consider them as prompts to reflect on your relationship's health and communicate with your partner. Share your feelings, fears, and needs openly. Who knows? It might just strengthen your connection rather than revealing a secret plot twist.
Bottom line: Dreams about cheating might be your mind's way of processing deep-seated emotions. Listen to them, but guide your relationship by the reality you build together, not just the scenarios played out in your dreams. Stay grounded, keep communicating, and let love (and a bit of playful investigation) be your compass. 😉
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u Is there any truth in my dream about finding myself downtown nude, and falling into a pit of snakes?
Lol that would be a literal nightmare. I had a dream that I was a millionaire once, if only there was some truth to it…
There might be. Either you’re under a lot of stress and are worrying too much. You could have fears that your SO is cheating on you however they’re your own worries that are weighing on your mind. It could be possible your subconscious came up with the scenario if you’re not a lucid dreamer
All of this are true. I have been under a lot of stress lately and my boyfriend was caught cheating emotionally on me a while back… so it’s more likely a product of my fear (I hope…)
I don’t know what you mean by cheating emotionally?
He cheated but didn’t have sex with the other girl, so he was developing a relationship with the other girl
You’re still dating him?
Yeah 😅 it’s complicated but we decided to give our relationship another go, I don't know if I made the right decision though…
Even dreams cheat lol
The number of times I have jumped from an hill and fallen into well chased by ghosts and what not.
Thankfully most didn't get true.
And it's our insecurity that we try to fit situations that would resemble them and truly it's just a thought always running back of your head.
I dreamed that I was a crypto millionaire once, woke up to find that it wasn’t real… but then I dreamed that I was being cheater on, woke up to find out that it was true 😅😭
Dreams generally mean something, but you shouldn't jump to conclusions about what they mean.
If you dream about your S. O. cheating on you, it could mean there are some subtle signs of infidelity that your conscious mind is trying to overlook. Or it could mean you're afraid of losing him. Or it could mean you're intimidated by his hot female coworker. Or it could mean a hundred other things.
Don't jump to conclusions.
You’re absolutely right. I don’t want to jump to conclusions because after all these are just dreams. But he was caught emotionally cheating on me a while back (I dreamed of it, woke up to find the evidence posted online by the other girl) so I’m just super wary of any similar dreams I’ve been having…
Well, okay, so you've been burned by this guy once already. So your fear of him cheating isn't exactly irrational.
I think you should be less worried about your dreams, and more worried about what you're seeing with this guy. Is he acting the same way he acted when he was cheating before? Is he distant? Is he secretive? Is he evasive when you ask him questions?
He’s actually much more open with me now, even gave me his phone’s passcode and has been much more open with me. He has been stressed lately so he’s been a bit distant but he said it was because he can’t handle seeing me depressed so I don't know
Okay, as a fan of Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul, I have to ask... do you think it's possible he has a second phone?
It could be possible but I don’t want to entertain that thought lol. He also gave me his social media passwords (even tho his fake accounts but I immediately logged out of all of them because I feel weird about it) so I would like to at least try to trust him… my dreams haven’t been making it easy though
How did he cheat on you the first time? Did you say it was emotional?
Sorry my previous response didn’t really make much sense lol but yes he cheated on me, it hasn’t gotten to the point of sex yet (they did go on a couple of dates) which is why I labelled it as “emotional cheating”.
Are there any large blocks of time in which he's vague about where he is and what he's doing?
Is he supposedly spending a lot of time at the gym, but his body doesn't seem to be improving? Anything like that?
We always go to the gym together and have a very active sex life. He showed me their texts and there was nothing sexual. Even when he went on the date with her he was still texting me, I had to double check against the timing of when she posted the photos on her IG story lol
Are your dreams the ONLY reason you think he might be cheating?
So far yes which is why it’s kinda driving me crazy lol
Okay... pretend you're him. If you (meaning your boyfriend) were going to cheat on your girlfriend (meaning you), and she already caught you once, and she has access to your phone and social media accounts, how would you do it? Would it even be possible?
Cheaters will find a way to cheat again if they want to of course, there’s always that possibility. So if he ends up cheating again then I’d just leave (I’ll be hurt of course) because it was my decision to give him another chance and I’m aware of the risks. I’m hoping for the best of course but I’m prepared for the worst, let’s just hope it won’t come to that though…
Grim question, but... will you ever be a hundred percent sure he's not cheating? Or even ninety-five percent sure?
You can message me if you feel like it.
Hmm right now my trust in him is pretty low, I’m just gonna let things unfold on its own I guess
So you're right back where you started.
Keep an eye open for signs he might be cheating.
What are some signs that I should be looking for tho? Would love to hear a guy’s perspective on this
I mean, his phone is a big one. You have access to it, you said. Do you notice that he NEVER makes personal calls/texts on it? That might imply he's making personal calls/texts on another phone.
Are there blocks of time where he's not available, and you don't know where he is?
Does he ever get a guilty expression on his face when you ask him innocent questions?
You said you and your guy have an active sex life. Has he tried anything new with you lately? Something he might have learned from someone else?
That's all I can think of off the top of my head.
Not usually but there was an instance where I had a dream revealing my ex cheating and after doing digging into it, not even telling him about the dream I found out actual evidence of him cheating. It was more of a coincidence though.
Literally same. I don't know if it was just a coincidence or what but I’ve had it happened to me at least three times
Subconscious is what I've read in psych google results over the years, from my old high school psych class text books, ahhh that takes me back 🔙 📚📖
And I'm only 30 - only 30 👟
Your subconscious mind can either be your best friend trying to warn you of things irl or it could be your worst enemy playing with your biggest fear lol
You should attach zero importance to your dreams. It's just your mind's way of doing a test run of various scenarios
You’re right, dreams are just dreams
It's a dream. If those dreams changed how you treated your SO, thry make it a aelf-fufilling prophecy.
That’s true. I don’t get mad at my boyfriend irl because I know they are just dreams, most likely a product of my fear.
@magiusx26 my boyfriend actually emotionally cheated on me a while back. I had a dream about it and woke up to find the evidence posted online by the other girl which is why now I’m super wary of any similar dreams 😅 I don't know if it’s just because of my trust issue in him or if it’s my intuition telling me that he could still be cheating…
@aaker ah but thats the thing twalli reffered to to begin with, if its your trust issues then it could be a self fulfilling prophecy. in this case, that wpuld be your subconcious having you say or do things to push your S. O. into anothers arms, such as maybe not showing him as much affection or connection as you did before. not accussing you, just giving you warning of what could happen and how easily it could happen.
@magiusX26 yeah I’m well aware of that 😅 which is why I’ve been consciously making efforts to not shut down or be less affectionate towards him. My initial reaction was to withdraw but I know that it would do no good so I’ve been trying my best to still act normal - at the same time I told him that I’m still processing his betrayal just so that he knows that even though I’m still loving and caring, doesn’t mean I’m letting it slide. I guess since I’ve been repressing my hurt and fear, it ends up showing up in my dreams…
Could be your subconscious mind putting together observations and hints.
It could be. I don't know if it’s my fear or my intuition though…
Dreams are often opposite. For instance You dream of shit and money comes in.
Lol Then I wish I’d dream of shit so then money can come in
Sometimes it's intuition, sometimes it's just fears.
You’re right. If only there was a way to tell which one is which lol
Probably best to trust your dreams.
Some dreams are just dreams though
Pay a PI to find out.
Can’t afford it lol
I think you need a good blanket
I have one, just need a better pillow for sure lol
Trust, but verify.
Right, should jump to conclusions over a dream lol
Grown adults asking these kind of questions
Come on, don't be that crazy bitch.
@Peridot25 thank you for standing up for me. I hope you have a great day though, stay awesome! xx
@Peridot25 take your overdramatic ass somewhere else if you don't like it then. If someone says something crazy then I'm not going to sugarcoat it.. and "my boyfriend cheated on me in my dreams omg what do I do.." is BONKERS.
@Juxtapose Oh, ok. So you’re admitting you’re a garbage human being with no sympathy for others. No wonder why you’re so messed up.
No one else in the comments called her a crazy bitch. Calling her that was uncalled for because this happens to many people. Yes, there’s some who take it too far but I didn’t read it like that. She just asked a simple question which you could’ve answered nicely. But, no. You just had to be a cunt about it.
I had a feeling she blocked me so I tested it and I was proven right!
@NYCQuestions1976 @Unit1 look at this shit.
@Juxtapose People conflating lucid dreaming with subconscious intuition. Low on my concern list.
@NYCQuestions1976 it just baffles me because if a man was talking like this people would think he's a childish buffoon.
@juxtapose Don’t worry I’m well aware that this is all just a dream. I don’t treat my boyfriend any different irl, I don’t blame him for what he did in my dreams because they are just dreams. I’m just overthinking everything because I had a couple of dreams of him cheating (which turned out to be true) before all this so now I’m just extra wary. It’s definitely a product of my insecurity which is why I asked for reassurance from the people of GaG. That’s the whole point of the website anyway, for people to also openly ask about stupid questions anonymously because they can’t ask them irl. I don’t appreciate being called crazy for simply asking a question because I’m well aware of my actions irl. I don’t go out and start getting pissed at my boyfriend because that would be very immature of me to do.
@peridot25 thank you again for standing up for me, I do agree that some people can take dreams way too seriously but there’s no harm in asking questions about it lol
I mean yeah, you can go ahead and ask whatever question you want but if it seems ridiculous I have the right also to voice my opinion and call it out. I'm not going to walk on eggshells to spare people's feelings.
My first impression of you is that you seemed somewhat reasonable but a bit crazy. You seem more reasonable now but I am just a stranger.. my opinion should really not that matter much. Someone else got so angry on your behalf they blocked me after throwing a tirade.
Turns out you're not a crazy bitch at all.. she is!
No worries, you’re also entitled to your own opinion! I usually always try to understand the other person’s perspective before making judgments about them but I still appreciate you throwing in your two cents about my silly question. I appreciate the honesty and reality check lol
Nice. 👍
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