How do you feel when two people of the same sex openly show their love for each other?

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There are, sadly, a lot of countries where homosexuality is frowned upon or even forbidden. But I think that even in the countries where it is totally legal, there are still a lot of people who have difficulty accepting it. I don’t think it is age-related. I see and hear lots of remarks from people who assume it is an unnatural thing, both from young and older people.

Just a couple of weeks ago, I saw 2 young girls walking hand in hand. One of them had bought a bouquet of flowers for her partner. They obviously had something to celebrate, or it may have been a surprise gift. Anyway, I think I have never seen two people so in love with each other.

How do you feel when you see a similar situation? Does it seem awkward to you, or would you say it’s no-one else’s business but theirs?

And what if your own daughter or son came home one day and wanted to present his boyfriend or her girlfriend?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes i agree. Like my wife was being moody and abusive one day for no reason, not the first time so I decided to be the strong husband she desired and follow the advice my pastor gave me. So I grabbed her and forcefully put her across my knee despite her struggling and protests I pulled up her dress and down her underwear and spank her behind as hard as I could and didn't let up ignoring her crying and her begging me to stop. After being aroused at the site of her bare bottom as I often I bent her over the couch and had my way with her as she cried and whimpered, she came very easily the spanking having excited her, she was dripping wet and I came fairly quickly. In shock after it she said nothing and when I left the room she ran to her parents and told them what had happened. They let her spend the night and told her It was about time I put her in her place with her smart mouth and sent her back the next day to me. She could barely sit down for a week, she looked very uncomfortable sitting on the wooden pews in church.

She is much more obedient and respectful towards me now. She actually looks for me to spank her at times and she enjoys sex with me a lot more. When she's cumming she looks at me with both love and fear at the same time.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I'm happy for any two people who find mutual attraction and are infatuated/in love. Good for them. They are fortunate.

But I'll be honest. It grosses me out just a bit to see two guys being romantic in public. Not so much holding hands. That's fine. But kissing - ick.
I just don't watch. They have every right and I'm am not opposed to it.

I actually campaigned for gay marriage. I don't think there is anything abnormal or wrong with homosexuality, but the idea of two men kissing or having sex creeps me out, so I'm not interested in watching.

I am less creeped out when women display affection in public. Although I'm still not interested in watching them make out unless they are both hot. 😄 Then I'm jealous. haha, just kidding.

I have even watched lesbian porn. Women are tender and beautiful. They are good at licking tits and eating pussy. Being women, they know what women like.

As a guy who is attracted to women, I guess I can better understand why women would be, too. And I can understand why touching or being touched by a woman would be erotic for anyone.

JSkye · Accepted Answer

Speaking from experience on the other side, I have always wondered why it is bothersome when it is no one else's business?

Anyways, when I see other same-sex couples I am generally extra happy for them. Here's why: I know the adversity you face when you are dating the same sex. Some days, it gets to be too much, and any day that is less than stellar, you generally go "stealth." Seeing a same-sex couple in public that are showing pda generally means that they are legitimately very happy to the point that they don't care about the judgement they are getting for it.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

It makes me feel happy when any consenting adult shows love to each other.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, love in its purest form! When I see two people of the same sex openly showing their love for each other, it genuinely warms my heart. Love is love, and it's the emotions, the connection, the spark between people that truly matters. Witnessing a moment of affection, whether it's a gentle touch, a loving gaze, or a joyful surprise, ignites that hope in humanity, that love knows no bounds, no gender, no prejudices.

As for it being awkward, why should it be? Love is a universal language, and when you see it being spoken so fluently between two hearts, it's not just business—it's a celebration!

And oh, if my little one came home one day, radiant with love, wanting to introduce their boyfriend or girlfriend, my heart would swell with pride. Love doesn't discriminate, and neither should we. To support and to accept is the greatest gift we can offer to one another, sprinkling a little more joy in this world. Love wins, always!

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I would just go oh they are gay.. and make my way away from them, since I find seeing that weird and gross and don't want to see them kiss if they do.
If my son or daughter came home gay I would be really disappointed but they are still my kid and I'd still love them. I wouldn't want them to act "gay" in front of me since I would hope my son still acts masculine and a daughter still acts feminine. I would be more upset if they were like my daughter was butch or my son was girly but I am sure my kids would already know this and not behave that way in front of me.

hahahmm · Answer

They are not entitled to my approval/encouragement for any lice choices. Same as if my daughter said she wanted to be a cop, I would not approve. Or if she said she wanted to be a prison guard. Nope. Or if my son said he wanted to sell toxic (but legal) drugs to people. Nah. I don't have to approve things just because other say it's legal/trendy/"equal" to whatever.

When I see people making a show of kissing/fondling in public I think they're attention whores. Doesn't matter what sexual orientation they have.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

I think the people who critique homosexuality and gender identity are one of those cases of “the lady doth protest too much.” Meaning they want those things for themselves but won’t admit it for fear of societal rejection. The anger is a natural, defensive response to the pain of believing they can never have that for themselves.

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Same sex love is in my state, but it is not a common thing to see. In fact, I can’t remember the last time I saw a same sex couple here just on the street. It happens, I am 100% sure, but it is not as common as it is in a less conservative state.

Account · Answer

I think it is adorable. Just like when I see people of different sex openly expressing their love. I like seeing happy couples in general.

MittParekh15 · Answer

Haha, that's the new trend which will take some time for the acceptance

I find it a bit awkard, but as a male I find it interesting to see two girls / women in love ( don't know why) - may be because I get fun by looking two girls in one scene 😂

Berethor · Answer

I feel that same as most men in the west, gay men stuff is totally disgusting to me, while lesbians stuff is okay, I also prefer to have a lesbian daughter than a gay son, no doubt.

on_my_knees · Answer

The sight of them, both wearing leather collars and blindfolds, sends me into a frenzy as I stroke my cock and envision myself as their willing slave. I long to be the third wheel in their loving embrace, to submit to their every whim and desire, to be their plaything, to be the one they both fuck and degrade. The thought of being forced to watch as they take turns pounding my tight little ass, leaving me writhing in ecstasy, is enough to make me cum harder than I ever have before.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I feel the  bravery  at play, it's a bold move considering how much unwanted attraction it's going to draw. Even in places where it's legal, even in places where it's supposed to be an accepted behaviour.

Anonymous · Answer

Disturbed  , is how I feel. Male is supposed to go with female. And female is supposed to go with male. Male is supposed to be attracted to female. And the other way around. Same-Sex Attraction is a mental health disorder.  And specifically most lesbians, they all usually have a past where a man SA them in their childhood. Completely scaring them off from men. So their only option then is the same sex.

LadyKitty · Answer

Love is love! There is nothing weird about same sex / lgbt couples just like there is nothing wrong with heterosexual couples. My brother is gay and I support him 100%!

Luopio27 · Answer

In Thailand I remember a rule taught to turists, not to hug, kiss, hold hads, cuddle, groupe or sex in public places with your partner, because it makes those poor cleaners and others who have nobody feel more lonely.

Its like millionaires showing off their wealth to homeless people. Showing off hurts the poor even more than the unfairness of this world!

MysticAngel5000 · Answer

I don't pay the least not of attention. They're just like any other couple. I'd much rather see them being happy and showing affection than see them being abusive or something. If they're not bothering me, why should I bother them?

WhiteSteve · Answer

I’m fine with it, I just don’t like to extreme PDA from anybody.

Actually, that’s not entirely true. If it was two hot chicks, I’d probably be like “niiiicccceeee”, let’s keep it a buck😅😂

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I just think it's lovely and perfectly fine. Queer couples are just as natural as hetero couples are (just don't tell them I said that). People of different sexual orientations existed for years before we even had a name for each one.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is a beautiful thing.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care. I think people should be free to be with whoever they are attracted to. But if I'm being honest, seeing two women showing affection for each other is very different than seeing two men doing it. It shouldn't be, but it is. It just is, and any straight person who says otherwise is just suppressing that natural urge to wretch, and saying what they think they should say, which of course is their right.

RubyFrench · Answer

None of my business what other people do or choose to do. Good on them for doing it

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

If I am allowed to kiss my boyfriend in public then anyone else should be able to do the same with their SO.

Anonymous · Answer

Lesbians and homosexuals are free to engage in their relationships. Others are free to condemn them. In a truly free society, we ALL have freedoms, and we shouldn't be coerced into parroting the PC position.

JesseP1nk · Answer

I see them as failure to a society. I dont see gay man protecting his country with a gun, building houses, they dont grow new generation of people for the society. I see them as women with BALLS.

Anonymous · Answer

I literally cannot bring myself to care. It doesn't thrill me or disgust me. It matters as little to me as two strangers choosing which breakfast cereal to go with.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s uncomfortable and cringe enough with straight people, it gets extra cringe and unpleasant anything else other than straight. Especially women for me. I feel some gross feeling.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Perfectly fine with me! What's wrong with showing love to the world? It's not like we don't have enough of it!!

art84 · Answer

I remember in college there was a lesbian couple in my introduction to sex class. I never saw them kiss in class though they hold hands after class.

Anonymous · Answer

I know it's an awful thing to say, but I don't mind when it's two women. When it's two men it feels awkward and weird. Sorry, it just is.

morganherrel · Answer

I think it's really gross, so it makes me uncomfortable. But why should they care what I think? I'd treat them with kindness anyway.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Lesbians, I'm fine with it. Gays, I find it gross. And despite feeling that way, I just don't do anything about it.

Eleni06 · Answer

No problem hetro people show PDA. Why should people have a problem with it. Those who do must be hiding their sexuality.

Anonymous · Answer

The same way i feel about the opposite sex couples. It grosses me out.

DextroShade · Answer

It's gross when it's dudes or ugly lesbians, it's hot when it's pretty lesbians.

Jennz6 · Answer

@mandyfire98 ❤️🥰 I feel the exact same way as you 💕💯

Anonymous · Answer

I'm fine with it as long as they aren't having a full on make out session. I don't like when straight couples do that either. I just think it's obnoxious.

Anonymous · Answer

To each their own. I have no issue with it, I just don't want to see it, especially if it's two guys.

Ladsin2 · Answer

I don't pay much attention to other people.

OddBeMe · Answer

Happy. Good for you. Loke when i see a black business owner. Good for you! [Punched in face]

Smashingdoozy · Answer

I feel normal and wish it was me lmao

Anonymous · Answer

I won't tolerate it, and there is kids out in public

BetaBucks · Answer

Dudes: 🤮  Chicks: 🍆

electromagnetic · Answer

To each their own.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm happy to see people in love.

Ane99 · Answer

I dont care. Not my business.

paledreams · Answer

Not usually my cup of tea ☕😞

Bety23 · Answer

It ok dose not bother me

Babygirl_S · Answer

Honestly, I find it funny

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not my business.

In_Trance · Answer

I don't care what they do

onedarkcloud · Answer

None of my business!!!

I_am_a_human · Answer

I think it is beautiful.

Anonymous · Answer

Only when it’s in porn

Texaskid1 · Answer

Yuck

jack1924 · Answer

So what

Gentilegoyim189 · Answer

🤮🤮

Anonymous · Answer

Sickening

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