What are some ways a person can express love for his/her partner?

[xJeremyx]

[Guy13]

Understanding the basics attributes of a fulfilled marital relationship, before doing things, is required. And this Relationship is made and not a “Chance find”. Intimacy is work BUT Fun and an outstanding model for children. Man-Up‼️‼️

Respect is one such tenet and it is defined as positive feeling/esteem towards or admiration of person where one defers to that person’s opinion or decision based upon that persons actions and thinking overtime. Do this

Daily relating is a Doing or Making. It is Verbal sharing, Acts of love in a sacrificial service-stop games fold laundry 🧺 etc.,
Commitment expression…”7 years only 43 more to go”, praying or meditating together in a Shared Presence, Shared Decisions, Routine destruction. Humility in s serving submissiveness and it goes both ways.
Forgive verbally of something today ! CONTROL OF TONGUE 👅…. try restraint as that's an act of service, love, humility. Put hand over mouth…let the partner know AND PARTNER…. receiver of Restraint…ask them what was almost said BEFORE bed.
Love is agape which is a sacrificial and intentional…how’s this word action going to affect partner. Lust/Eros is not the same but nice…

Make your relationship and applicable in all personal encounters. Emotional weaker vessel is a real thing and what attracts us on the Front End. Keep it BUT is a joint transaction for sure….

[SnowedIn]

All over the map for me and my wife. Flowers. Little notes on her dashboard. Little notes in her office that I put there on the weekend. Doing things she needs done before she asks or before she knows they need to be done (there's always water in the coffee pot, etc.). Holding her hand (that fills her love tank). Being nice. Getting her favorite stuff (ice cream, cereal, soda, etc.). Remembering her preferences. Being polite and respectful. Laughing at her jokes. Watching the shows and movies she wants to watch. Being quiet. Listening. Hugs. Knowing when she needs advice and when she just needs to vent.

[Gurdy2816]

I love this. Sounds like you are an amazing partner, and she is very lucky to have you.

[t_time]

Find out their love Language.
words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Are 5 of the love languages. Everyone is different how they show and recive love. Even if you and your partner have different loved languages. You have to recognize How your partner shows up to you even if it's not your love language. For example if his love language is acts of service. He does dishes, cleanse the house. Makes you some food. That's a sign That those things make him feel loved. And he subconsciously does it to make you feel the same way. But someone wouldn't pick up on that if they didn't know that his love language as acts of service Unless it was there is Too. Let's say you're Love language is actually physical touch you're always Wanting to be hugged and cuddled. And that's how you feel like you're loved. And your partner's love language is not Physical touch. He won't pick out and find that He won't just find you very clingy unless His love language is physical touch as well. So it's very important to find out what your love languages are. And talk about them with your partner. Then though they're not the same love language some of the time. It will give him the opportunity to Accommodate And understand Your love language. And vice versa.

[t_time]

I hope you understand what I'm trying to say the spelling and everything is really off I'm sorry

[xJeremyx]

Its all well and good. Well said. Good response. 👍👍👍

[katestar]

I have to agree with you.

[MendaciousMarxist]

They will know you. They know you better than anyone and they will love you for it all It will be your favorite book, your name, your color. The way you pronounce certain words, what makes you smile, what keeps you awake at night, and your dreams. They'll know what makes you upset and how to comfort you. They will know how to calm your nerves and sometimes how to get on them.

It doesn't take much to express love between two lovers. sometimes it's just a cute text in the morning or getting them their favorite snack. Sometimes it's play fighting and sometimes it is holding hands, feeling how their fingers perfectly interlock with yours. It is listening to music together and talking about nothing at all. It's sharing sweaters and hoodies because their smell brings you comfort, even though you'll tease them for it.

Sometimes it's the more mundane stuff, like talking out the trash for them, cleaning their small messes, making them a little lunch of breakfast or just some coffee.

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't know why you would need to ask such a question. When I have been in relationships, I knew how to be a loving partner because it was quite obvious. . . but what works in one relationship won't necessarily work in the next relationship.

[xJeremyx]

I asked this because I wanted to get people thinking how they can express love in their relationships. Plus, I wanted to take a look at the diversity of ways people like to do so. And also to make this question a space for suggestions and ideas that other people can try.

[xJeremyx]

A lot of people out there never really had good examples set for them, when it comes to healthy expression of love. So maybe they could also learn something from this.

[OlderAndWiser]

So you are trying to teach by the Socratic method?

[xJeremyx]

More like, encouraging it. Not trying to teach. And I like interacting with people so, why not choose a topic close to many hearts?

[Lulu897]

reassurance, spending time, effort, being there for them during good and bad times, communication. hugging them holding hands, showing respect towards their family, taking care of them, even if you have an argument and don’t speak for a day or two in that day or two if one partner feels really lonely had a panic attack/breakdown feels very low needs someone to talk too the partner should put the argument aside and comfort them because like I said be there during good and bad times, understand them understand why they act the way they do accept everything they have been through and make sure you don’t put them through it again.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

• communicate it tell them you love them and compliment them
• do little things you know they would like could be making them their favorite coffee/tea or something similar
• spend meaningful time together going on dates, eating breakfast together, etc
• hugs, cuddling, being physically present and affectionate (depends on your partner, this would make some people uneasy lol)

[bean2k21]

boooooorrrring

[xJeremyx]

@bean2k21 Oi. Keep your negative comments to yourself.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

it's alright, found it funny tbh :)

[xJeremyx]

Tired of dealing with this kind of people honestly

[dustybiker]

The small things are powerful.

Early in one relationship I had noticed he was low on milk. I stopped by the store real quick and retuned with it before he woke up, not even saying anything. He never forgot that.

[xJeremyx]

A man will never forget the small things his lady does for him. Because in this world, men are expected to fend for themselves, so anything a woman does out of her heart to help him, will really stand out to him.

[Nturavgniceguy_69]

There are many ways. All require action, effort, and attention. All the small things that prove how she feels are what get to me because it just feels genuine and like there's more to cherish past the surface. A simple phrase said in a way that's genuine and you know exactly what they mean. A gift that took effort to make. Buying something you know they are infatuated with just because. A touch by the right person at the right moment and maybe more. Just being present to make a good memory by sharing an experience. Time, effort, quality, touch, words, favors, memories, gestures, support, all can be used to express love.

[Lliam]

Physical contact - holding hands, walking with our arms around each other, hugging and kissing. Gazing at each other's faces, chatting, confiding, laughing and enjoying each other's company. Mutual admiration, respect, regard, and trust.

[xJeremyx]

That is essential in most relationships. Physical intimacy.

[MichaelEspinoza]

Okay here's my comment on this subject , anyway I believe the best way a person can express they're love for the person They are with is communication & trust. I mean people have lots of ways to show how they love or want to express they're self to the person they are with & if it's communication or trust or even chocolate 🍫 it's alright. Cause your way of expressing your love to the person your with is your way

[TT1227]

I think being there for each other is one of the best ways to show your partner how much you care for them. When times are tough there’s nothing better than having someone by your side to comfort you, support you, or just make you feel better. That shows a lot of love in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

My love language is acts of service, and sacrifice.

Il go without so she can have,

and if i see her struggle, il hold her up,

Example, she struggles to go to work. And college at the same time, Il pay for her school, so all she has to worry about is finisning.

not bills, not payments, work, ect……. Just focus on school and il come up with it $$$. and work weekends.

thats love

[JonAsk69]

I try to do it based on how they receive that love language but it’s different for everyone. I usually buy them gifts or spend time with them. But I enjoy finding out what turns them on and what also makes them feel valued and appreciated too.

[LazerBean]

Helping them with stuff their doing, participating with their hobbies.

[LazerBean]

They're*

[xJeremyx]

What about some small things that can be done on a daily basis?

[LazerBean]

I send a small candy with him as he's heading out to work, he likes that. A lot of times I will make his coffee for him, he likes how I do it. Head scratches. Helping him with his many various little projects, or even just watching him and listening to him talk about it. Checking on him throughout the day while he's at work via text. Making a tea he likes at night to warm up with. So on and so forth.

[xJeremyx]

You setting the bar high for the single ladies out there haha

[LazerBean]

Lol you l have to set a high standard for yourself if you are going to get someone who meets high standards

[xJeremyx]

True. Tell that to those people who think they "deserve better" but actually put no effort into becoming better themselves.

And honestly, when you love someone, it becomes second nature to want to do nice things for them.

[LazerBean]

For sure. And it's easy to do all that for someone when they constantly show you that they appreciate what you do.

[xJeremyx]

And it becomes your way of appreciating them for what they do for you as well.

[LazerBean]

Exactly

[xJeremyx]

Good on you. Your hubby is blessed to have you. 👍👍

[LazerBean]

I'm blessed to have him 😊

[xJeremyx]

Looking back at what you said, I realise one thing. Emotional presence is something you actively portray.

[LazerBean]

We are very well connected with eachother. And also we actively communicate what we are feeling frequently. It helps that we have pretty similar emotional states, although he is much more extroverted and in tune with other people than I am.

[xJeremyx]

As in, there's a significant emotional investment that you put into showing your love for him. And thats something that loads of people need to learn.

[melanieeeB]

Depends on their love language and it can be totally different from person to person.
Some show it through acts of kindness, some through words of affection and others through materialistics/gifts or a mix

[xJeremyx]

The ones who express love through acts of service are really worth holding on tight to

[MendaciousMarxist]

lmao love languages aren't really a thing, they've been disproven as false and even harmful for some relationships. "You’re going to pay my bills and buy me gifts and you’re going to enjoy it" is always a good idea in a relationships too 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[xJeremyx]

That tone sounds a little much for me. No thank you.

[MendaciousMarxist]

you don't like buying and receiving gifts?

[xJeremyx]

Not that, I just dont like a demanding tone or attitude.

[MendaciousMarxist]

It's not demanding, it's just expected. especially now with the holidays coming up <3

[xJeremyx]

I probably won't accept someone who tells me to pay their bills and buy them things and force myself to like it.

I want to bless my partner willingly, not at her beck and call.

[MendaciousMarxist]

ok VwV

[Anno2]

Supporting them during hard times. Love is easy when there's no problems.

[xJeremyx]

And how, do you think, that should be done?

[Anno2]

Sometimes staying with them is enough.

[xJeremyx]

So like... Just being physically and emotionally present? Got it. 👍👍

[brezzybaby]

I always make sure I make a cpl posts on Facebook and post pictures of us and say things to let him know I love him and I'm always thinking about him no matter what. I am def the type to get attached easy and I hate that about myself but after the fuckin fucked up child hood I had no wonder

[D_Bone_Steak]

I usually have a boner and a strong desire to bone. But if I actually want to be around her or spend time with her when I'm not taking her to coom town... she's extra special.

[sheikalana]

Reassure them. Make sure they know special you are to them. Compliment them.

[Purpul]

[Ask your partner what they think love is, and what expressions they have viewed that they like the most, start there 🤷🏾‍♂️… Your question is so broad that you’re asking for the whole world.]

[exitseven]

my wife made pumpkin bread and while I was getting ready to go to the dump she snuck a piece warm from the oven on the console of my truck. I thought it was a very thoughtful thing to do.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

"I love you deeply" would be enough for me. I don't understand why we must complicate things...

[Aggon1998]

Singing a song for them. Especially if it matches your relationship.