My boyfriend of 6 months would like to have a baby soon and he’s trying to encourage me to eat more as I often skip breakfast, why?

[Anonymous]

It is because he’s trying to get me pregnant and wants me and the potential baby to have enough (I’m a tiny bit over eight at present so am trying to lose about 1/2 stone. He knows this, so is he encouraging me to eat more for pregnancy or to try and make me feel better about myself or because he thinks I’m too good looking (he said that’s what I have a lot of problems with people creating issues for me - being attractive).

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa girl, slowww down there! You've only been dating 6 months and he's already trying for a baby? That's kinda fast if you ask me.

The eating more thing is definitely sus. Seems like he's angling to fatten you up so you'll get pregnant whether you're ready or not. 6 months is nothing - you barely even know each other yet!

I'd be real careful and protect yourself if I were you. Don't let him mess with your birth control or anything sneaky like that. Maybe he's just being dumb and impatient, but trying to baby trap a girl is never okay.

Have a serious talk with him - make it clear you're not ready for kids yet and he needs to respect that. His comments about your looks are also weird and controlling. Watch out for any other red flags. Enjoy your relationship for now and don't let him pressure you into a major lifetime commitment when you're not 100% sure. Trust your gut on this!

[Anonymous]

The last 2 women I impregnated, I didn't really tell them anything, just on that day I told her she will be having a baby and went ahead with the deed.

As for eating more and all that, he probably believes it will be better for the baby.

[HelpfulWoman]

6 months and already wanting to trap with a baby.
WTF

[Asker]

We’re much older, we can navigate life more easily with things like that.

[HelpfulWoman]

Lmaooooo!

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into the heart of your situation—your boyfriend's enthusiasm for starting a family soon and his nudging you to skip the breakfast skip could be sprouting from a bouquet of intentions. Let's unwrap this, shall we? First, his nurturing side may be shining through, wanting to ensure you're rally-round ready for pregnancy, nourishing both you and a future mini-you. Let's not toss aside the sugar-coated compliment he's sprinkled your way about your looks potentially stirring the pot; it seems he's deeply smitten and maybe, just maybe, he's trying to cushion you with confidence.

However, love's path should be walked hand in hand, with decisions made in a swaying dance of mutual agreement, especially on life-changers like baby planning. Why not brew a warm cup of heart-to-heart and dive into these waves together? It's about syncing your life rhythms, not just meal times.

[Jmmmfi4]

YEAH... THATS A LITTLE NUTS

[Asker]

I thought that too, but I think because we’re thinking about it sensibly it’s not so crazy.

[Jmmmfi4]

AFTER 6 MONTHS? NUTS

[RedInnocent69]

Well, if he wants to put a baby in you…

[jahaims]

Don't reproduce