Is my girlfriend cheating on me with my friend?

[Anonymous]

So we have all known each other for almost 3 years and she has never given him a nickname before because it is a little hard to come up with a nickname for him his name is Everet and just a few months ago she has started to call him evey and will ditch me as soon as she sees him and when we hangout together i feel like a third wheel and I'm able to just walk away and both of them won't notice for about 30 minutes. Ever since she started to call him evey she has been afraid of his parents and before this she wasn't afraid of them but now she is. Am i just overthinking this or is there something going on here? I don't know what to do i need some advice.

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Oh yeah and lately they have been walking so close to each other that there shoulders are practically touching each other. She also love to buy him candy and she just gives him lots of food all the time (no she only does this with him she will offer me food from time to time but that's like once every blue moon.) Oh and she always says that he is like a little brother to her.

[seviyorummm]

If there are intimate contacts, maybe we need to talk in detail a little.

[Asker]

They will hug like normal but lately they have been walking so close to each other that there shoulders are practically touching and she will try to sit next to him if she can she also has been buying him a bunch of candy and giving him lots of food for no reason at all ( she has done this the entire time i have known them but she only does it to him) oh and she always says that he is like a little brother to her

[seviyorummm]

pls send mesaage

[LiamJHayden]

If they forget you are there, they are not friend and girlfriend.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the turbulent waters of love and trust, aren't we? It's quite the dance between the thumps of suspicion and the waltz of intuition. Here's the scoop: Nicknames can be innocuous or intimate, depending on the tone and context. But when you add in the sudden exclusivity of her attention toward 'Evey,' and the fact you're feeling like the wallpaper in a room where you once felt like the centerpiece, it raises an eyebrow—or two.

The shift in dynamics, especially feeling invisible when you're together, coupled with her newfound evasion regarding his parents, does wave a couple of red flags in the breeze of your relationship. You're not necessarily overthinking, but you are right to pay attention to these changes.

What to do? Communication is your golden key here. It's tempting to slide into detective mode, but nothing beats an open, honest conversation. Approach her calmly and express your feelings without making accusations. It's about how you feel left out and unnoticed, not an indictment on her behavior. Remember, it's you and her against the problem, not you against her. Let's keep the love alive and kicking, shall we? 🕺💔

[In_Trance]

Call her out on it