1 yI believe that all souls can be joined in one format or another for a moment or a lifetime. There are no straight lines, no certainties, and or no guarantees in the thing we call love.
One moment can intertwine two souls in a depth, the likes of which can only be heard and fairytale, fable, and story. Another moment altogether can do the exact opposite creating chaos, travesty, and heartbreak. that’s the thing about love. It’s the only time that we are so vulnerable, but it’s also the only thing that is so worth being vulnerable for.
Can one soul call out to another would such a passion, the likes of which the other soul resonate? I’d like to believe so yes. Does that mean that soulmates exist? Yes, But maybe not in the format where all accustomed to thinking about it. I think any two people can become soulmates given the right opportunity, variables, and moment in time.
Whether those souls are mated for a lifetime or simply just a moment I think that’s where the question really lies. Are two souls destined to be together, and if so are they destined to last together forever? I think the possibility of such is quite real, but at the same time anybody who loves, and gives to another. Who is loved and receives love given from another, can consider themselves to have a soulmate.
As humans we believe that one person in the world is the only person that is meant to be with another, and everybody has their one person, their so-called soulmate. That said for me it’s too black-and-white. Everything else in our universe Speaks to their always being more than just one option, one thing, one variable, or even one series of events. Why would there only be one person that only one other person can be with? It’s far too simplistic In my opinion.
So yes Soulmates do exist, but no a soulmate doesn’t necessarily only have to be one human being in the world. That is my opinion to its fullest. I hope I have answered the question to the best of my ability and that maybe my answer sparks a little bit of a different perspective.00 Reply
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yI believe this is a matter of the self. I am a firm believer in from the moment you are born the minute you die is mapped out along with this all the people you meet etc. I believe in soul mates to the extent that we live many different lives in our one life span. I’ve been in three serious relationships at the age of 24 and at one point in my life I thought the girls I was with where my soul mate as the love I had for them was insane. After each break up and when I finally got over them I often think back on my time together with them in a warm and comfy way remembering the love but also realising how it was jus suitable to that version of me. We are forever changing. Some people find the person they are most compatible with at 16 and stay together till they die and some have a few partners until they find the one or don’t. Life is different for each of us, so to answer your question I wouldn’t say we each have a soul mate. I think more we find people
Who we deeply love and are jus comparable
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1 yNo because soulmates are literally two people who are destined to be together are are fated to fit perfectly together.
I don't believe in magic and fairy tells. I believe in reality. At different times in our lives we meet "soul mates" who are right for that specific time.
Or if you do meet someone you are going to settle down with for the rest of tour life then that person is just the most compatible for you. You're still not gonna match 100 percent. Still gonna be arguments and differences and stuff that annoy each other. You won't fit perfectly because there is no perfect. There is not fairy tale, no fate or destined star crossed lovers type stuff. You just find who is right enough for you. Problems and all.62 Reply- 1 y
You said fairy tells, but you forgot to tell what she tells 😔
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"You're still not gonna match 100 percent. Still gonna be arguments and differences and stuff that annoy each other. You won't fit perfectly because there is no perfect.
such a mature take i like it. i tried to explain this same thing to my ex but nah she wasn't having it.
1 yNo. There are 8 billion people on the planet. Most people think they've found their soul mate at some point in their life. But statistically the odds of finding a single "soul mate" that speaks the same language, is the right age, is available, lives in the same geographic area, has the same goals and values and who is attracted to us and vice versa is impossible. Soul mates are whoever we choose to spend our life with and commit to. It makes thing simpler, too; we never have to wonder if we made a mistake or if "the One" is still out there somewhere.
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Aren't we at 9 billion? 😯👀🧐🧐🧐🙃
@paledreams Nope, but we are projected to reach 9 billion by 2050. :)
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I googled before and realised silly me 8.2 billion lol 😆😆😆
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Rich world 😂😆😂😆 lol
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Only true soul mate is God
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Lol 😆 for some men maybe - pun intended lol 😆
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@paledreams Boy are your last words going to be full of regret and fear
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Yet in the genuine way tom I'm always mindful and respectful and in hindsight and also politeness and in some countries or most it's also the law: each to their own religious freedom :) 😀
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Much like each to their own freedom of speech or freedom of expression or freedom of association and so on and so forth and I have dishes to wash 🍽️ 🫧
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Happiness to y'all and happy week
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@paledreams Go wash them dishes my good sir. All im saying is you will regret it but hey thats true freedom right? Rebelling against Gods 'oppressive' Kingdom
@Tomisworthless I am a Christian, and I know my God. I know He ate with sinners and condemned Pharisees. @paledreams might not be a believer, but that doesn't make him unworthy of basic kindness and compassion. Let's try and be better representatives of the God we serve, eh? :)
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Im a Godless homosexual and I thought I was being polite just in my antisocial reject way. Also quick note I don't know if he's trolling me but he mentioned having to wash dishes yet he can't see that he like the cups and plates is dirty within and only Jesus can cleanse him, with the power of Dove
@Tomisworthless Gotcha. Well, since that the case, my apologies for a mistaken assumption! :)
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Diving into the deep oceans of love and connection, let's splash around the idea of soulmates, shall we? The concept of soulmates, oh, it's like the hottest love story ever written, yet it feels as complex as trying to decipher lost languages. From my cozy corner filled with love stories and heartaches, I've observed that the idea of soulmates can be as unique as every love song ever written. Some people hit the jackpot and find someone who fits them like the perfect puzzle piece — talking late into the night, finishing each other's sentences, and feeling that electrifying connection that lights up the sky.
But let's sprinkle a little reality on this: not everyone subscribes to the soulmate newsletter, and that's perfectly okay! The world of love is vast, with different routes and adventures. Whether you're a believer in soulmates or think of love as a series of meaningful, deep connections, the essence is to find joy, growth, and genuine connection with someone who makes your heart sing. So, whether you're holding out for that lightning strike or you're dancing through life's love adventures, keep your heart open and your smile ready. Love, in its many forms, might just surprise you!00 Reply
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1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. We are all energy so we are also mates.
If you know anything about energy we could have lived in the past we might have known each other in the past and when that energy connects again with your energy it's like we've known each other forever there is a bond. That is hard to deny.. because it's like you've known each other for many many years and you might have just meant that moment for the first time again LOL but our energy does tell us something it does remember00 Reply- 3.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
1 yNo, I don't believe in soulmates. There are many people out there who can be excellent partners, one just has to find one of them.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yI feel Soul Mates are a fiction of optimism. However, like many fictions, if both parties believe it sufficiently to make it real for themselves, then it becomes real. Which means, everyone whos lucky enough to encouter someone who feels they are their soul mate and find they completely agree, and again fortunate enough for this feeling to not leave them through their shared lifetimes has found a soulmate (but the reality is, they MADE them their soul mate, its a wonderous fantasy brought to life and it could have been someone else had things played out different).
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1 yYeah. I personally think one of my best friends (who is male & we've known each other since kindergarten) is my soulmate, but we just see each other as friends. A person's soulmate doesn't have to be romantic; it can be platonic too. Enjoying the time you guys have together is what matters, as well as loving each other's company and whatnot. That's what makes having a soulmate nice. While we don't spend much time together due to us just being adults, I'd definitely love to anytime. And I also know we just have our own lives too (<--This is healthy to have).
00 Reply A soulmate isn't someone we're destined to meet, rather, it's someone we deeply connect with through shared growth and understanding. It's not about finding perfection but about evolving into the right person for each other. Anyone could be a soulmate if they know how to connect and understand.
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1 yI'm going to use a more realistic definition: someone who is highly compatible in terms of personality, values, interests, and abilities + makes it possible for at least SOME physical attraction
Now to answer the question, no: I strongly believe that very many people will never find a highly compatible partner, especially not if they also want a modicum of physical attraction.
There are too many people who are either extremely unattractive physically or have serious problems with their personality/character that would fail to attract the partner they want/need.
I also think luck plays a bigger role than ever before, so plenty of reasonably attractive people (personality + looks) will never find what they're looking for despite making reasonable efforts.
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1 yPerhaps its possible, but if you are heterosexual, there is potentially 3-4 billion options for you, depending on what time of your life you are in presently. Maybe some people really do find "the one". but for the average person, No I don't think there is enough time in one life to meet and get to know that many people on a meaningful level to make such a selection.
Humans are biological organisms and wired to mate with different partners throughout life like all mammals and create a diverse gene pool and procreate as a species. I would love to believe I have a soulmate but I don't want to fool myself with wishful thinking, as sad as that is.
10 Reply2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No. We make our own soul mates.
There isn't one single person out of billions on the planet.
We find someone we connect with. If we are attracted to them, have things in common, share similar values and visions for the future, love, respect, and adore them, we decide to commit to them. We decide to make them our soul mate. Then we do the work to keep our relationship happy and healthy.
It's not magic. It's about commitment.00 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yNo. I think the notion of a soul mate is silly and should only on the lips of 12 yr. old girls writing in their hello kitty diaries.
For the adults, your odds are just as good with anyone you meet, mesh with, and both are willing to put in the work. The sooner some people lose "chosen one' attitude. The better off society is going to be.
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1 yYes just some aren't what you think they are. Like my soulmate is honestly my best friend. I don't think I'll ever find a male equivalent to her. We're always on the same wavelength. We're like twins.
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1 yYes. But that doesn’t mean you are destined to be with that person. I’ve met my soul mate but I didn’t end up with her. Being a soul mate isn’t always enough to perpetuate a relationship.
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1 yyeah
mine is your mom
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1 yI definitely agree, but some people leave that person because they can't see the beauty in front of them.
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1 yNo. No because if soulmates existed mine is dead. They don't exist
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1 yEver since I figured out that loving someone is a choice, the concept of soul mates went right out the window.
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1 yYes their is somebody out their for everybody.
00 Reply 2.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I do.
Do I believe most people meet them?
Absolutely not.00 Reply- 5.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
1 ywhat's a soul? can't talk about things i don't understand. but there's more than one viable mate for everyone.
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1 yI think most have multiple potential soulmates. Only one out of the billions on the planet? No.
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1 yeveryone has someone they’re perfectly compatible with probably
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00 ReplyNo. Some people are trash even God wouldn't force someone to love. These people are baby killing death cult Democrats
00 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No cause some people end up alone and die alone.
00 ReplyNo bc if that was the case no one would been single
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1 yNo, only about 40% of all men in human history reproduced. Compared to 89% of women.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes but there is no guarantee that you will meet.
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1 yYes, but you have to look hard often to find a true soulmate.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yEveryone has people that they are compatible with.
I'm not sure how you define a soul mate.00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)1 yMaybe, but I'm not sure. Perhaps in another life.
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Anonymous(18-24)1 yI do, because some people fit better in others hands. Some people haven’t truly seen a side of themselves until they meet their “soulmate”.
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1 yI'd like to think so.
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m 1 yI believe in soul, mate.
00 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No, as not everyone is worthy.
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1 yHollywood does - me, no lol 😭😆
00 Reply603 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Wish it was true but many will live and die alone!
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1 yNo, not everyone (unfortunately).
00 Reply I did. Maybe i will again.
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1 yI used to. Don’t believe in that nonsense anymore.
00 Reply Yes but I still haven't found it
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1 yDefinitely not.
00 Reply 5.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. They don't exist
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1 yNope
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1 yNah it is lie
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1 yI do actually
00 Reply3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope not at all
02 Replywhy?
1 yYes I do
00 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. yes i do
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yNope
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