Does everyone have a soulmate? Do you believe that you found your soulmate?

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If so, who is it?

Flatmanlewis · Accepted Answer

I love the idea, but no. I don’t think they do.

For example, I have a wife I love. We have a very, very, blessed life and can ask for very little. She is smart, beautiful, and strong. Had I taken a different direction in life and our paths never crossed would I have been able to find and connect with a woman who was equally as fantastic? Probably. In fact, out there right now is probably the woman I would’ve met in an alternate life path living her own life. If I hadn’t met her, I probably would’ve met someone else even then.

We connect with people based on so many variables and factors. I do believe some people are meant to be with us by God’s design but even then - relationships can be work. We’re not two Lego pieces snapping together perfectly. We have had to lean to compromise and grow and mature and accept things about one another. That’s a real relationship. Not some mythical ‘connection’ of two souls made for one another. Not very romantic, I know, but true.

BadApple69 · Accepted Answer

I have found my soulmate 192 times… which makes me believe there is no such thing as soulmates.
Think about this… if there is that one special person that will connect with you and bond with you as no other can. What’s the odds that he would work in the same company as you? Or go to the same church? Or bowl at the same bowling alley? He/she would be 1 in 7.88 billion so the odds are you would never find that person.
We are loving creatures and can grow to love anyone who treats us kindly. That’s a good thing!

So my advise… to find your soulmate… be kind always. And you will find what you seek.

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

I've found my soulmate. But just because you haven't found your soulmate doesn't mean you will. Some people will never find their soulmates.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

I think so, but I think you can also have more than one soulmate in life

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't believe in soulmates. There are many people that a person can have a happy and satisfying relationship, not one soulmate that is difficult to find.

MrOracle · Answer

There's no such thing. That's a romantic invention.

If you want to be in a relationship, you're going to have to make compromises and sacrifices, and you're going to have to deal with a person who doesn't always agree with you about things and who doesn't always do things the way you like. Your partner will have to do the same with you.

Obviously this is easier on both of you if you share morals, values, and life-goals, but even then, you're still going to have areas of disagreements and at least small differences in priorities and such. There are no "soulmates" - you have to actually WORK to make a relationship work, always.

HippoDino · Answer

Everyone has multiple soul mates, there's so many people in the world that statistically there has to be so many people that would just click with you perfectly, it isn't easy to find but there are plenty of people who fit exactly what you are looking for that also are looking for someone just like you. Some people might never find it though.

BourbonAndBacon · Answer

Yes. So many times I've had a lot on my mind during the day and I'll get a text asking me if everything is ok. I've also had a feeling that something was bothering her and I'll check up on her. Even if we haven't seen or talked to each other in hours we just connect on a different level.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I don’t buy into the Disney fairytale version of life and love. I think a person can get along with another person and create a lasting beautiful life and legacy together but it doesn’t happen magically and immediately. It takes perseverance and effort and will. Combined with basic understanding and humanity.

Anonymous · Answer

I will. She's in Mexico somewhere. I'll be moving there pretty soon, and of the times I've spent down there in villages helping people... the way I got treated by women) and men) there... it was literally a different planet from the USA. She's in Mexico somewhere, I'm sure of it.

RingOfFire · Answer

Let's hope everyone doesn't have a soul mate because what are the chances they would even ever meet that one person in 8 billion people on planet Earth.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I do not believe in soulmates. Because if they were true in pretty sure mine cheated on me because I refused to have sex with her. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I don't believe in the mythical aspect of this but I believe that some people are really good for each other.

msc545 · Answer

I don't think everybody has a soulmate, but almost everybody has someone they're willing to settle for which is what I think it ends up like for most people.

Twalli · Answer

We have one, we probably won't find that person because we decide that the person we marry is close enough. Having said that, I think I have

Masterodd · Answer

SOULMATES... NSA. (No Such Animal) This is a word and a myth made up by a bunch of people to make feel-good small talk.

petera1987 · Answer

A hopelessly romantic notion that has no foundation in reality.

Starrrboy · Answer

Yes... I even think there's a lot of people who are eligible enough to be your soulmate..

eagle1951 · Answer

had her for 37 years, now Gods has her

Agape93 · Answer

If such a thing is real, it'd be my best friend

Jazzy54 · Answer

No I don’t believe in that.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes! I have two.

jahaims · Answer

Soulmates don't exist

BLP11520 · Answer

I believe in that but I don’t have one

Slim57 · Answer

No. And I don't know anymore honestly 😞

Sarahdelacruz · Answer

I hope so

Anonymous · Answer

Kind of relying on that 😂

LavLavLuv · Answer

My man

Sasha0426 · Answer

I don’t have one

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