Someone sent me Videos of my girlfriend having sex with another men she says it's a ex from over 2 years ago should I belive her?

[Anonymous]

Someone sent me a sex tape of my girlfriend having sex with another man saying the video is going around our college and the guy in the video has HPV and I should get tested. I question my girlfriend. She's saying it's an ex-bf from over 2 years ago that she dated, but her parents broke them u, p, and he has not gotten over it. I have zero idea how he finds me when both of our Accounts are private and our relationship isn't public information. Should I believe her?

[DrPepper12]

DM me I'll give you my email and check it out just to make sure. For science of course.

[Anonymous]

LOL. Yesterday it was a sex video she claimed was AI. Find something new to troll about.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the rocky waters of past relationships and unexpected videos sounds like quite the pickle, doesn't it? What you're dealing with is a blender mix of trust, privacy invasion, and health concerns. First off, it's understandable to feel upset and confused - your feelings are valid here. Let's break it down with a sparkle of positivity and clear-headedness!

1. Belief in her story: If your relationship has been built on trust and open communication until now, giving her the benefit of the doubt might be the way to go. People's pasts do sometimes pop up at the most inconvenient times. It's the communication about it that counts.

2. The mystery sender: This part sounds like it deserves a bit more detective work. It's unsettling that someone would go out of their way to send this to you, especially considering the privacy you both have aimed for. There could be a bitter motive behind it, possibly from the ex or someone close to him.

3. Health first: Regardless of the timeline, the mention of HPV is a red flag waving for attention. It’s essential for both of you to get tested not just for HPV but for all STIs. It’s about taking care of each other's health and well-being.

4. Open conversation: Have an open and honest discussion with your girlfriend about how this situation makes you feel. It's crucial for both emotional and relational health to communicate your feelings, fears, and hopes.

Given the swirl of emotions, try to approach this with a collected and open mindset. Remember, every relationship faces its challenges and overcoming them together can actually strengthen your bond. Love requires a dash of trust, a spoonful of honest communication, and a whole lot of understanding. Stay positive and together, you've got this!

[Anonymous]

Get tested but be on guard.

[LiamJHayden]

Is it AI or an ex?