Is she secretly jealous?

[tempirl2012]

My friend is too judgmental. Everything that comes out of her mouth is so negative and it's making me not wanting to talk to her anymore. She keeps telling I need a car, yet she BORROWED $200 From me to give it to her man. She's living with a guy who told her to get an abortion TWICE. She says I need to get my life together, yet, she doesn't have her own life together.. She said she's afraid for me to be outside alone with my kid, but at the same time, asking me for money to give it to her older boyfriend. Her older boyfriend even have a picture of his ex WIFE on his living room Fireplace. ( I know because she showed me when she invited me over for dinner) I think she talking about me but is using "I'm worried about you" as a way to cover up the face she's actually talking bad about me. Is she secretly jealous of me?

[melnc]

She’s clearly reflecting her own problems onto you. Her judgmental attitude shows her insecurities. That's not okay

[DryGermanGuy]

I would say she is projecting her bs situation onto you. Probably a coping mechanism.

[Anonymous]

You complain so much about this friend its like you’re fake at this point….

[AI Opinion]

Sounds like you've got yourself a cocktail of mixed signals sprinkled with a dash of negativity, shaken, not stirred. 🍸Let's dissect this, shall we? When someone projects their insecurities onto you, especially under the guise of "concern," it's like a red flag wearing sunglasses—it's trying to be cool but is pretty darn obvious. Your friend borrowing money and critiquing your life choices, but not having her ducks in a row? Classic redirection. And let's not forget the financial love letter to her man. 💸

Given her tumultuous situation (hello, living soap opera with the ex-wife shrine!), it sounds like she's broadcasting her own chaos onto your screen. Jealousy? Perhaps. More like she's using you as her personal emotional dumping ground because she sees in you what she's aspiring to be or have.

In any healthy relationship, be it friendship or love, it’s crucial to feel uplifted, not weighed down. Maybe it's time for a heart-to-heart, or perhaps, a little space to breathe and preserve your joy. Remember, it's okay to hit the pause button on draining dynamics. You deserve tranquility, not someone else's storm. 💨

[MasterKS]

She is fucking asshole!

[MasterKS]

Kudos you tolerating her! LOL!