You ever felt like you were justified for cheating on someone?

[Finchie40]

We all know cheating is wrong but is it wrong if your partner is treating you like shit , and disrespecting you and belittling you , making you feel like nothing you do is good enough , they with hold intimacy and affection from you and treat you like they are using you. So you end up meeting someone else that treats you way better than your partner does , and you end up having sex with them , and then you end your relationship immediately after doing so. To me I don’t consider that cheating if you end your relationship immediately after you screwed someone else , it’s only cheating if you go back to your partner like nothing happened. So do you think you are justified for doing so?

[RubyFrench]

If you fucked someone else before ending it then its cheating.. but i do get your drift in what your attempting to say.


I've cheated on somebody once when young and that was because they cheated on me, repeatedly. His little lady ended up coming and telling me personally because she obviously got mad at him for something he did, or didn't do.. Now Im an extremely empathetic person, but this was pretty bad what he did. 'not just a once off' and it was in our apartment occasionally as she had a lot of photos that she happily shared with me and it proved EVERYTHING 💔


So i literally fucked his older brother out of spite.


Now this would have fucked my exes head up.. but what he did to me and how he hid it messed me up too.. so in my opinion we are both very bad people for doing what we did and those choices that we made. Thats the ONLY time i ever cheated and ever would! I still feel both happy i did it and disappointed that i reacted. The reaction was priceless though it honestly was. (and i think id do it again). Ha, It sounds so bad. Im 10 years married to an amazing dude now and no other male has been able to turn my head other than my husband, and plenty have tried. So i'm not really ashamed to admit any of this ^^ as everybody makes mistakes and it sounds like you did too.

[Finchie40]

Yea I only cheated once , basically the same way I asked this question, as much as I knew it was wrong , the hurt and anger and resentments I had toward my partner at the time , from the way she was treating me , made me feel like she was already cheating on me , by how mean and disrespectful she was towards me , in my mind I already felt the relationship was over by the way she treated me , so I was accepting of this other girl that was treating me with kindness and respect, that made me feel good about myself , that was telling me positive things , complete opposite of how my partner was treating me , so the other girl came on to me and I didn’t push her away , because I loved her heart and I considered her a good friend as well , so I ended up having sex with her and knew at that moment It was over between my girlfriend and I , so I immediately ended the relationship with my girlfriend and told her I met someone else , that treats me with kindness and respect , my girlfriend was upset but she admitted she was wrong by how she was treating me and begged for me to give her another chance , I told her No , it’s too late , cuz every time I tried talking to you , you pushed me away making me feel like I was worthless to you, which pushed me to being open to this other girl that was actually listening to me and kind to me , that actually has a heart , so I am sorry , it’s too late. As much as I felt it was wrong for me to cheat , I actually felt justified for my actions , now if I went back to my girlfriend like nothing happened , then yes that’s is wrong big time

[texascollegegirl]

Cheating is natural. It's how women are evolved. Men too. We cheat for the more virile, masculine, bigger dick men for the health and genetic diversity. We often keep it under wraps so the more stable guy can provide thinking it's his baby. There are exceptions for guys who are into that. It's actually a very straight sexual impulse for smaller dick guys to feel insecure and excited by the idea their woman is cheating with bigger dick guys and the sexual satisfaction they bring. It's called sperm competition. Too many guys buy the modern culture idea that these impulses to sexualize huge dicks mean a man isn't straight, when it is the straightest thing there is. Of course we aren't wrong to do the things that have best served our evolutionary needs. Also, what they don't know doesn't hurt them. You're just pushing these ideas that rob women of our natural sexuality.

[Finchie40]

I know people can be very selfish , but what you are doing and what you believe in is so wrong and sadly demented , I’m sorry you look at things that way , something had to have happened in your childhood or your boyfriends child hood to make you both believe in stuff like this , probably why you chose a cuck as a boyfriend , which honestly that’s something I could never do with a girl , that doesn’t even sound like a real relationship to me to be honest with you , but I know it’s out there , it’s just something I wouldn’t tolerate with someone , someone that allows and gets turned on by their partner screwing other people is dirty and degrading to me , and some warped ass shit , so that’s something I could never do , I wasn’t raised that way. But if you enjoy being used by people that’s your choice and if your boyfriend is into that shit , I’m sorry he has some serious issues as well Something had to have occurred in your childhoods for the both of you to be this way , so maybe you are happy together in a demented way , it’s just something I don’t believe in , Me personally feels if I was accepting of my partner to go screw other people , I would be a coward and consider myself weak , I would also feel I wasn’t protecting my partner by allowing her to go get screwed by multiple guys’ that could be putting her at serious risk of catching STD’s or putting her at risk of being beaten up or abused my some other guy that just wants to fuck her like she is a whore , so your cuck boyfriend is not a really boyfriend in my book , he is just some weird guy that has some serious issues with porn or whatever weird fetish he has. So again I am not being judgmental I am just saying that is something i wouldn’t tolerate period in a relationship. This is shit we watch on Jerry Springer or Maury , if a girl told me I got her pregnant and I found out it wasn’t my kid , I would probably end up in jail by her being a lying selfish whore , that is some fucked up shit.

[texascollegegirl]

It's really hilarious that in your own post, you *defend* cheating as okay, then want to criticize others. My point, which you missed, is that it's very normal for white guys to envy big dick Black guys and the fact that attractive white girls get with them. You can't just pick your own values and try to enforce them on everyone else. You do you. You have no room to criticize a natural impulse women have to get sex on the side with more virile, attractive, bigger-dick men. You also have no room to criticize normal smaller dick men for the fact that they are naturally turned on by this. Your fake masculinity BS is just the typical trying to limit what choices women and girls can make. But everyone knows white people can get so intensely curious about big Black dick. It's not just a culture thing, but also just fits with our evolutionary adaptations. Race is a social construction and that's just how the culture looks at it. It's not a weird fetish - it's not only normal, it's one most white men have. It takes a brave man to admit it or follow through with it. You were raised to try to compete with bigger dick guys by guilting and shaming women into giving you are bodies even though your body doesn't fit the type we would want for sex as well as other men.

You're not being judgmental to call girls who like big Black dick demented, dirty, and so on? You obviously have a lot of racial hangups and a serious inferiority complex. At least cuckolds find a way to enjoy and compete. That's actually being more of a man. I'm not being used by these big dick Blacks - we are having intense sex together in a way that exposes and fights racism and gets us off at the same time. Insecure white men need to deal. The cuckolds and fetishists do.

[Finchie40]

I agree people can make their own decisions in life , that’s why we have free will , I am just saying that’s a decision I wouldn’t make for myself. I wouldn’t be with a girl that thought it was acceptable to go screw other people, I wouldn’t consider her a girlfriend at all , I would just consider her a convenience but she wouldn’t be my priority whatsoever. If I wanted to go screw multiple girls’ I wouldn’t get into a relationship at all. If a girl can’t choose me , my ass isn’t going to choose her , she is just a slut to me that has no dignity or respect for herself that allows herself to be used and degraded and putting herself at risk of catching STD’s. , so it has nothing to do with racism , not every black guy has a big cock , sadly you watch way to much porn that’s controlling and brainwashing your mind and your boyfriends’ mind as well , Most porn is made up bullshit , most of those massive cocks aren’t even real , they are implants that a porn worker gets done for part of his job. So don’t believe everything you watch in porn. Porn is a money making industry that was designed to draw people in to make money , they are actors and workers trying to make a living. So for whatever warped reason you feel it’s you mission to screw black guys with big cocks that’s your decision, just because you were raised by a racist family , that’s still your choice and your decision to fuck them. skin color means shit when it comes to penis size. You just chose that decision by allowing yourself to be warped into porn and being with a guy that is warped into porn. So whatever floats your boat , but to me that is something I stay away from , porn actually does nothing for me , because most of it is made up bullshit and honestly I rather be the one making the porn , not watching someone else get off , so your whole logic on black cocks is completely wrong , you are believing in something that isn’t 100 percent true. .

[texascollegegirl]

" I am just saying that’s a decision I wouldn’t make for myself."

That's not all you were "just saying," and you know it's not all you were just saying. Porn is made up, but it is an indication of people's sexual and relationship interests. A huge collection of BBC porn built up over years, or custom BBC porn to jerk to, or low key showing he really wants her to fuck big dick Blacks is a sign. And it is very, very normal and maybe the most popular thing to for white boys to fantasize about big Black dick and especially about their girlfriends or women they know getting it.

Your issue is you think you're "just saying," but then you say it's "demented" or "warped" even though it's a very natural sexual interest that massive numbers of people do, and even though many more would if we didn't have all the racism trying to stop it from happening. And no, it would not be warped to give my body to big dick Blacks out of pure sexual interest, nor to fight racism by giving my body to the biggest dick Blacks. As a very attractive girl, I can set an example for what white southern country girls can do on a personal level to promote racial healing. It is a very moral, Christian thing to love one's neighbors enough to help them heal from the way the biggest dick Blacks have been targeted. It makes them feel safe and healed to know white girls who will stand by our desires and we won't betray them and that we don't care who knows it. I wasn't warped by porn at all. I had never seen porn before I found my boyfriend's BBC collection and his colleges of my cheer pics surrounded by giant Black cocks. 100 percent,, big dick Blacks absolutely love fucking hot white girls - either the innocent ones new to it or the ones like me who are sluts. You do you, but stop giving shit to people for very normal sexuality that is probably the largest part of what white people fantasize about.

[Ariesman81]

Probably the most honest post I've seen from a woman yet

[Finchie40]

Yea she admitted she was a slut , so yes she is definitely honest lol

[Ariesman81]

Is it possible you misunderstood? The deceit of cheating is bad... the act of sleeping with people you find attractive is not. I tell my girlfriends they're not the only ones... they are not my top priority... and they never will be. Take it or leave it. Some stay... some go.

[Ariesman81]

Welcome to the world of good women

[texascollegegirl]

"To me I don’t consider that cheating if you end your relationship immediately after you screwed someone else..."

LOL! Totally honest person, right?

[Finchie40]

Yea shockingly some girls’ don’t care if you cheat on them because they are probably cheating on you already , they just like the convenience of you , the same way you like the convenience of them. Which is fine , as long as she knows she isn’t going to get my heart and loyalty 100 percent , we just use each other for sex pretty much , but for me to be in a relationship with a girl , her and I have to be on the same exact page as things and set boundaries together , Most girls’ I have been with that told me they were looking for Love , changed their minds after awhile and decided to be selfish instead. So I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl , I prefer FWB’s with some strings attached , meaning we only fuck each other but we are open to date others if we choose to , if we end up in bed with someone else , we end the benefits part and remain friends. It seems to be working for me because most girls’ I meet don’t know how to love someone the same way they want loved in return because most girls’ don’t know how to remove selfishness. So if she isn’t choosing me , my ass isn’t choosing her period. Kind of what happened to my ex wife and I , let alone we don’t fuck anymore

[texascollegegirl]

People making their own decisions and doing as they were evolved to do shouldn't be described as demented or weird or any of the other insults thrown in this thread. I have met a few girls who fully support their big dick Black boyfriends being with other women. Some of them are bi, some not. They introduced me and it was great. And opinions will vary on whether cheating is a valid choice if a man or woman has almost everything but can't satisfy sexually. We are evolved to do that in so many ways. I'm not going to blame a girl who just can't resist a big dick Black. I mean, my boyfriend enjoys that I cheat and lie to him, but if I didn't, I still wouldn't be able to say no and I wouldn't want to. That's why I can't have a big dick Black for a boyfriend - I think they're entitled to cheat and I would feel bad cheating on them. No matter how big they are, it would happen. We were born to love that. It takes all kinds to make the world go around and we should be slow to judge.

[BullShark]

"People making their own decisions and doing as they were evolved to do.."

@texascollegegirl
Only they weren't. I've been reading all your comments start to finish, and I honestly feel disgusted that women like you actually exist that give other women a bad name. I'm sorry kiddo (assuming you're not lying about your age) but whatever bs you've been typing isn't how the real world works, and your buzz words alone just indicate how insanely misinformed, delusional and in the wrong you really are.

No, not every white woman dreams of being railed by a black guy's massive cock (which is another stereotype created by porn. Most black men are more or less the same length and girth as any other skin colored guy out there, so again, you don't know what you're talking about) and not every "small dicked" white man would willingly let another guy jackhammer his girl. There are some cucks who might enjoy that shit, but most of them still hate it underneath it all and are secretly planning the murders of both their cheating girlfriends and her current boy toys.

"I have met a few girls who fully support their big dick Black boyfriends"; again, those women don't represent all women. There are plenty of self respecting women out there that would be repulsed by unfaithful men just as much as how self respecting men will be repulsed by women who glorify cheating and being a hoe.

You can go around sleeping with as many massive-schlonged men as you like. Nobody's stopping you from it, because it's your life and your rules, but don't go around hating your normal peers who chose to settle down, remain faithful and living their best lives with their partners whom they love and have started families with, while you're in your mid to late thirties, still single, and the big-dicked deadbeats you slept around with don't want anything to do with you anymore and have moved on to younger women, because that WILL eventually happen.

[BullShark]

@texascollegegirl also your whole obsession with penises is also worrying and quite frankly disgusting too. Unlike the orgies you're probably so fond of watching with your cuck boyfriend, like how @Finchie40 said, what you see in porn is far from real and pornstars almost always undergo painful surgeries to become bigger, which later on down the line ends up with them having lasting side effects, like not being able to get it up without taking pills, loss of sensation, or just straight up destroying their blood vessels entirely. Also, most black guys in real life aren't that much bigger/smaller than fair skinned or brown skinned men, and the vast majority is in the average range, and that's the cold hard pill of reality you'll soon realize

[texascollegegirl]

@BullShark Women are definitely evolved to be more attracted to more masculine, virile, bigger dick men for sex on the side, and guys who are less masculine, more stable, provider mates for our main relationships. This provides genetic diversity for our offspring while also providing for their needs. It's called dual mating. The pair of that is sperm competition - the fact that men are evolved to want to compete to impregnate the most attractive, fertile women, even in the absence of a relationship. The bigger dick is a health display for women. The bigger, fatter head that goes deeper scrapes out competing sperm. The longer, thicker dick deposits opens us up mmore and deposits the semen far deeper. The bigger, longer dicks give these really strong vaginal orgasms that pull the bigger dick semen into the uterus where the eggs are. We have a strong sexual desire for the best reasons. Meanwhile, smaller dick guys get all aroused by the thought of their woman cheating - that's the competitive instincts along the lines of sperm competition. It's why so many men love cheating porn or cuckolding and especially BBC videos. No shame in any of this. This is healthy for humanity. And yes, all the biggest dicks are Black.

[texascollegegirl]

@BullShark I don't resent women who don't fuck big dick Blacks. It's very easy to befriend attractive girls who know I'm slutty for biggest dick Blacks, and they all wind up doing the same things because that's their natural curiosity and irresistible temptation. It's just the biggest dick Blacks we can't possibly resist in the longer term once we have the opportunity. A lot of white girls don't have the opportunity because there are more attractive girls getting it ahead of them. It's actually the opposite of what you say. Girls learn to respect their own sexuality and awe for the biggest Black dicks and what they can do for us, and we give our bodies to breaking those taboos even if we keep our main relationship.

[BullShark]

@texascollegegirl if there's one thing I see us agreeing on is that yes, women are by default, more attracted to masculine men, correct. But everything else you said later on is not true. First and foremost, the size of your dick is not a measure of how fertile/infertile you are or the quality of sperm you can produce. Other factors like our hygiene, overall physical health, diet and exercise are what determine that stuff, and there are plenty of big dick guys out there who have trouble getting it up, or even impregnating their wife/girlfriend. The size of our penises is purely based on our genetics and has ZERO relation to our skills in the bed, our ability to pleasure our partners, or our fertility, and that's not just me and all the able-minded men (and women) saying this, but you can go look it up right now.

"The bigger, longer dicks give these really strong vaginal orgasms.."

Again, not true and a personal preference of your's. The average depth of a vagina itself is no more than 4-5 inches deep at full arousal, and even then, 90% of women don't want you going all the way in and instead, keeping a steady rhythm somewhere in the middle where the sensitive walls are. Going too deep in and hitting the cervix can cause most women excruciating pain and can do lasting damage, so again, that's just porn logic talking. Even then, the g-spot located in the vagina, is also no more than 1-2 inches deep inside, which is primarily responsible for vaginal orgasms, so this also throws your whole "bigger is better" logic out the window.

I won't even acknowledge the whole rant you went on about "sperm competition" because that's also stuff mates did primarily during prehistoric times when logic didn't exist, we were all mostly naked 24/7 and quite frankly, savages who even went along impregnating our own mothers, sisters nd daughters. So unless you're into that as well and think that's also "natural" then go right ahead and go all the way

[BullShark]

@texascollegegirl all I'll say is before closing this senseless debate is that porn has quite frankly, ruined your perception of reality, and if this is how you really think the world works, I'm sorry, but you're in for a world of disappointment once you get older and realize that that's not how the world works. Penis size isn't even close to what most people look for in a partner, and is as insignificant of a determinant as the size of like say, a partner's hands, feet, height etc. and not something any of us can control and determine. Some people are bigger than average, sure, but the vast majority is in the 4-5 inch range with a few exceptions. The dicks you're used to seeing belong to a few men who got lucky, but that all doesn't certify you of a great time and that a bigger dick will always be pleasurable. You could find a guy with a 12 incher but they bust within a few seconds of going in, and you could find a guy with an average 5 inch willy who knows what he's doing and can make any woman convulse beneath him in multiple waves of pleasure and screaming his name.

[texascollegegirl]

@BullShark I don't watch porn. I'm not even talking about partners, andI don't know why you bring it up. Girls who experience the biggest dick Blacks understand what is so amazing. It doesn't mean we dump our boyfriends. It just means we enjoy sex with the biggest dick Blacks, often on the side. They are also the men who tend to have the most skill because they get a lot of opportunity and being great in bed is important to them and all of us who give our bodies t o them. No, the five inchers can't do what these big dick Blacks do - they can't even reach and there isn't the special kink.

[BullShark]

@texascollegegirl you literally just answered your own argument; it really is all just a kink thinking guys with monster cocks are Gods in the bedroom and normal dick guys are, in your very personal and subjective opinion; "can't do what these big dick Blacks do". Again, that's all YOUR OWN preference and taste, and that's fine.

Is it the norm? No. And just because all the big dick dudes you screwed around with had tons of experience and were great in bed, is unfortunately not the case for a lot of other guys. My own college friend, from what he's told me, is just 4.5" and would have all the girls chasing after him because he was THAT good. And I'm not even talking about random one-nighters either, but lasting friends with benefits relationships.

And on the flipside, I had another friend who was 9.5" hard and was the unluckiest one of us all. He'd manage to get a girl to bed and every single girl would walk out after seeing his length, telling him it's way too big and she likes walking. You just enjoy big dicks. Most girls don't. It is what it is.

[BullShark]

Even if your partner treats you like a doormat, cheating on them shouldn't be an option and just shows how immature and desperate for affection you actually are. If you're unhappy with them, cut them off and break up, and then go on seeing whoever else you wanna see.

Someone calling you "shallow" and finding out you're in another relationship almost immediately after breaking up with your ex is much better than being labeled as a "cheater". Yes, you were interested in someone, but you were still respectful of your relationship and didn't make any moves until you were free from it, and that should account for something

[OlderAndWiser]

Is it wrong to break a promise if you think you have sufficient justification? Every cheater believes the answer is yes, and every cheater thinks their justification is valid. Cheating means you can never tell someone that you always keep your promises, or that you would never cheat on them. . . unless you think lying is also justified.

If you are unhappy in a relationship, break up or get a divorce. . . then go out and screw a bazillion women, if that's your goal. But your promise to remain faithful should be a promise that you make to yourself as well as your partner, and you should always keep your promises to yourself.

[AI Opinion]

Jumping straight into the heart of love intrigue! While the land of love and relationships is complex and often feels like navigating a labyrinth in the dark, let's shine a light on this spicy topic. Feeling belittled, disrespected, and emotionally abandoned is a heavy burden to bear, and seeking comfort in someone who treats you better is a natural, yet risky, reaction.

However, sprinkling a bit of relationship wisdom here, stepping into someone else's arms before ending things with your current partner is a tango on the cheating dance floor, regardless of the immediate relationship termination that follows. It's understandable why one might find themselves in such a situation, looking for an exit door from a painful relationship. Yet, the healthiest and most straightforward path is to address issues directly with your partner or to end things before exploring new romantic territories.

In the realm of ethics and love, justification is a slippery slope. While your feelings and needs are valid, the act of cheating rarely leaves hands clean, even with a rapid relationship closure following it. It's more about maintaining your integrity and respecting yourself and the people involved. It's always tempting to find shortcuts through the maze of unhappiness, but the direct route, though more challenging, leaves you with fewer emotional entanglements. So, tempting as it may be to justify actions taken during emotional turmoil, facing problems head-on or making a clean break is the gold standard in love's complex game.

[Anonymous]

The question is why you were not able to end the relationship before it happened? Why people feel the need to monkey branch to someone else. If the relationship was bad, you should have left already. The reality is that you meeting someone else, just gave you the strength to leave the relationship. In my opinion, it’s a coward move.

[Finchie40]

Yea honestly I knew it was wrong , but the other girl was coming on to me she knew the situation I was in with my girlfriend nat the time , she knew how mean and disrespectful she was to me , and told me multiple times times to leave her , that she doesn’t deserve a guy like me , Anytime I tried talking to my girlfriend she would push me away and not
Listen to a work a I was saying , in my mind I already felt my girlfriend was cheating on me by the way she treated me , so the other girl pretty much came on to me
And I didn’t push her away , at that moment I knew it was over with my girlfriend and I , so I immediately ended my relationship with her and told her the truth that I met someone else , My girlfriend was upset and apologized for how she was treating me and wanted to have another chance with me and I told her No, that it’s too late , I told her the truth that I gave her plenty of opportunities to talk to me and she chose not to , so I already have to much anger and resentments towards you and that’s pretty much why I was accepting of this other girl that actually treats me with kindness and respect , yes I knew it was wrong for what I did , but I also felt justified for my actions , Now if I went back to my girlfriend like nothing happened , then yes I would be completely wrong. So since then I have never cheated on a girl again , I just end it if things aren’t going well

[Ariesman81]

Dude and the thing is... your girl probably respects you more for doing it. Quit feeling guilty for being a man.

[Ariesman81]

Hold on... she took accountability and you left her? Dude... you're not dumb for cheating. You're dumb because you were deceitful and for leaving a girl that gave complete control to you!

[Opinion Owner]

I understand you. But why I feel as if you feel a little guilty about this? Do you still like the girl? Do you regret leaving her? What’s on your mind?

[Finchie40]

Honestly yes , I feel guilty for what I did to her , because I realized at the time I was being selfish , but in my mind she was being selfish as well, by the way she was treating me and not listening to a word I had to say , everything I told her would go in one ear out the other , so I pretty much gave up trying and that’s when I was open to this other girl , because this other girl listened to me and made me feel good about myself , made me realize I was in a relationship with a complete Bitch pretty much that didn’t make me feel loved or respected , but this other girl did , so one thing lead to the next and I fucked her. During the time I was fucking her , I kept asking myself is this right or wrong? Then I thought well it’s too late now I am already screwing this other girl , so I am just going to break up with my girlfriend because if I loved and cared about her? I wouldn’t be screwing this girl. I hate to say it but at the time I felt justified for my actions because I was so angry and upset with my girlfriend , even though I knew it was wrong , I didn’t care. So I ended it immediately with her when I had the chance to , and told her the truth that I met someone else and I no longer want to be with you anymore , you and I aren’t a good couple because you are nothing but mean and disrespectful to me , she begged for Me back and I told her No it’s too late , sorry , you had your chance plenty of times with me and you kept choosing to ignore me over and over and continued to be rude and disrespectful to me and not listening to a word I said , she cried and begged me to give her another chance , and I was honestly in shock that she wanted to. Hearing her cry made me feel bad for her , so I told her she will find a guy that she won’t have to yell at all the time and hung up the phone , a year or so past and I ran into her again and we talked and I told her I was sorry for what I did , she apologized as well and asked if I was seeing anyone? I told her

[Finchie40]

No I wasn’t , I said that other girl went back to her ex boyfriend so I am staying single for now , she said she wasn’t seeing anyone either and asked if we could go out again , I said sure , so we went out for drinks and ended up having sex again , she was being sweet and kind to me and I told her let’s just stay friends and see what happens. So we agreed to stay FWB’s and she eventually met someone else. I was happy for her because I knew I fucked uo

[Opinion Owner]

So you want her back now and she is with someone else?

[Finchie40]

No , I don’t want her back now , we just remained friends , we were FWB’s for a little while , but she eventually met someone else , so we are just friends’ now

[Opinion Owner]

Last question I promise. If the girl you cheated with didn’t go back with her ex. Would you have still feel guilty? by the way, I’m not judging you in any way. I’m just curious about the thought process

[Finchie40]

She didn’t go back to her ex , she met another guy , but if she went back to her ex? I would have shook my head that she was that stupid to do so. Taken exes back is like trying to reheat McDonald French fries in a microwave, it will never be the same lol. Why I couldn’t be in a relationship with her again , and decided to just be FWB’s , we both enjoyed the sex we had together , but the romantic connection was no longer there because the trust was broken between us

[Finchie40]

She did trying going back to her ex the first time around but that was a mistake she made , that’s why she come running back to me

[jojouzumaki]

Cheating is cheating. If someone is not fulfilled in a relationship it is way better to get out of it rather than to cheat.

[Ariesman81]

Disagree. There's cheating, or the act of being deceitful, and then there's having sex with another you find attractive. No deceit... no cheating

[ItsaMeMaik]

Yeah thats still wrong. If you are unhappy etc. Just break up, then you can do what you want.

[Finchie40]

Yea I knew it was wrong but the other girl came on to me and I didn’t push her away , at that moment I knew it was over between my girlfriend and and I , so I immediately ended it with her and told her I met someone else , now if I went back to her like nothing happened then yes that is big time wrong

[JamesRandiDebates]

If your primary bitch isn't doing her job, you are perfectly within your rights to get it on the side from someone else. That goes for everything. If the bitch won't cook, you can go to a restaurant. If the bitch won't clean, you can hire a maid. If the bitch won't spread her legs enough, you are fully justified to find a different hole.

[idonotlikeyou]

Cheating is, was, and always will be wrong. You should have broken up first and then slept around all you want, but as long as you're in a relationship, you keep your dick tied in a knot.

[Nikki1989]

I have never cheated and never would. I have had men cheat on me like most women have and that is bad enough.

[magiusX26]

yes, it is still wring. if you are with someone treating you like that, just dump them, then you can do what ever with someone new such as your new meet in your example.

[Anonymous]

Yeah that’s still as wrong and still very much cheating. It’s never justified. There are no excuses. You end the relationship before searching for or entertaining someone else.

[avery58]

No I never cheated even during the worst times

[DrPepper12]

No I never did it out of spite or revenge, it was always opportunity usually combined with lust and alcohol.

[Twalli]

You should break up first. Onr of my fiancée's exes would claim she cheated. She ended the relationship, but he wasn't willing to accept it until she stated making out with his friend.

[noohair]

I finally realized that I know nothing about the personal dynamics of people that cheat, so I should just say nothing.

[LiamJHayden]

I've never cheated and I would not consider cheating justifiable under any circumstance.

[Ariesman81]

Dude... women love cheaters

[LiamJHayden]

@Ariesman81 Integrity is more important to me. I have no problems getting dates, but you do you.

[Ariesman81]

No you don't!

[joselyn002]

If your partner is cheating it doesn't mean you should be cheating as well

[Finchie40]

I ended it immediately with her after I cheated

[joselyn002]

You can message me directly so I can know little about you

[NathanDavis]

no, I am not an asshole like that

[Anonymous]

No. Just break up with them.

[jahaims]

Cheating is literally never justified

[Dongie]

Nope.