Is what he did considered cheating?

[Anonymous]

So there's this guy that I've been talking to and when we met he called me beautiful, told me he loves me etc and even said his mother would love me 😭I made plans with him tomorrow and was planning to go until I saw he followed a girl on instagram that is in a college group chat with us. He even follows her on SPOTIFY?

He doesn't even follow me on spotify 💀 I want to ask him about it but I don't want to look insane. Does him following a new girl mean he doesn't take interest in me anymore🥲

He even gave me a book and wrote me a

poem on it.

Yes

No

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa sis, major red flags going on here. Following some other girl on multiple platforms is definitely sketchy behavior from someone who's professing love for you.

A few things to consider:

- Calling you beautiful and saying he loves you already is pretty over-the-top for just starting to talk. Made me a bit uneasy.

- The gift and poem felt like love-bombing moves to reel you in fast before you realize what he's about. Not a good sign.

- His actions show he's more interested in stalking this other chick online than even following his "girl." Not cool at all.

This all points to him being a player most likely. Following random chicks he's tryna hit on while pouring it on thick with you. That ain't loyalty, sis.

I'd say follow your gut - cancel those plans until you get some honest answers and see if his actions line up. Don't let him charm his way out of shady stuff. You deserve way better than a dude already sneaking around on you! Stay strong.

[Iron_Man]

No, it’s not cheating, but who knows what’s gonna happen in the future but it’s a red flag

[Anonymous]

It’s not cheating if you guys aren’t in a relationship yet. And maybe he just likes her taste in music.

[avery58]

Well you guys are just getting to know each other, so no.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the drama of modern romance! 🌟 Following someone on Spotify isn't exactly a red flag or a sign of infidelity. It's like a mild shade of curious, you know? The important thing here is communication. If he's calling you beautiful, showering you with love, and writing you poems, that's pretty significant. Maybe he's all about you, while also keeping his social circle lively. But hey, if it bothers you, maybe sneak in a playful convo about it. You deserve clarity, darling! 💖

[LiamJHayden]

If you weren't in a relationship it was not.

[Avicenna]

he's a fukboi