Why did he cheat?

[Anonymous]

So y’all I was talking to this guy for 3 months. I’m the only girl to meet his mom and I’m the only girl he took on dates. He would never post his girlfriend (now ex) so I did some digging. They were together while we were dating. I’m literally crying right now. I blocked him. Now I’m about to unblock him and send him a message. And, then send her the screenshots. Y’all I don’t like confrontation at all!!! This was something I was trying to avoid a long time ago. Then he has the audacity to hold my hand in public. And, he has the audacity to get jealous when I would hang out with my best friend. I am hot 52 pissed right now. I don’t even know if I want to send a paragraph.

[Anonymous]

3 months isn’t long enough to know someone. Why are you being such a crybaby. He was probably trying to make a decision between you and her. He probably met her first.

I mean you never know. 3 months is nothing!! LITERALLY NOTHING.

3 months is a job’s probationary period. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Get over it. Now you’re coming off as some jealous Karen.

I almost thought you said 3 years. Now that would hurt. You need to spend at the very least a whole year with someone to completely get to know them. And if you can, 2 whole years. To have a healthy relationship. You need to friend them, get to know them. Become besties first. And later start thinking about love and relationship and such.
3 months is literally almost nothing 🤦🏻‍♀️

I once got a hot guy hooked with me. But it certainly took almost 2 years to reel him in. It was the toughest catch. Men fall in love with time. You need to have patience. Women fall in love with looks. But men definitely need some time to taste your sweet side and your feminine side. Before the sex before any of that.
Have some maturity and patience. Carry yourself with honor. And people will respect you.

If you go and send texts and block people and send this and that to whoever. It’s gonna spell jealousy and insecurity all over the place. It’s not gonna hurt anyone. It’ll just spell your “desperation” all over the place. TALKING FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE 🙋🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

I wish I read the earlier. She wasn’t even dating him when he was with me. I literally caused a whole scene without any proof and they’re friends so I’m sure she’s going to send the texts to him. I feel awful now. I just didn’t want to be the side chick. Not in a feelings sort of way. I don’t want to sleep with anyone’s man kind of way.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn lol. 😂 Guess it’s time to apologize. I mean you’re young. So just say you’re. Young and naïve or something.
But now you know 💁🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

I did apologize but I just wanted my intentions to be pure. If he had hooked up with me while with her I wanted to tell her. I don’t want to stop anyone’s relationship

[Anonymous]

Move on from this player and loser. You only knew him 3 months and now you know. Find someone better for you. Guy lies.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks, Gag. x

[Anonymous]

Lol you don’t like confrontation but you’re going to stir up the pot by sending her post? Lol sure you don’t. Move on. You got played. Live and learn.

[Anonymous]

The same reason women cheat.