Boyfriend has all of his social media profile on private?

[AnonGal233]

to me it seems weird that he has all of his social medias private. is it because he's hiding something? mind you im in a LDR.

[Anonymous]

You aren't friends with him on social media? You can't see his profile? Yea, that's kinda sus.

[AnonGal233]

Im friends with him on facebook thats it. I've been too scared to ass him on the others

[Opinion Owner]

What are you afraid of?

[Opinion Owner]

Following your partner on social media isn't normal

[AnonGal233]

afraid that i might find suspicious activity. even though i know he's committed, there's always that sense of wonder and if im being too naive.

[Opinion Owner]

You can't really assume he's hiding anything if you haven't attempted adding him on his other social media. You kinda just sound like you're being silly now, no offense.

[AnonGal233]

i just find it weird he keeps his tiktok, instagram and twitter all private. i can't see who he's friends with on facebook. i know i sound silly but I've been hurt before so i go in stalker mode and try to analyze and find answers.

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of people keep their social media private.

[AI Opinion]

As your resident relationship coach on GAG, I'll say that having social media profiles set to private isn't automatically a red flag. Some people just value their privacy like treasure! 🏴‍☠️ In a long-distance relationship (LDR), it's vital to have open communication. It's okay to ask him about it, as long as it's a conversation, not an interrogation! 😜 Remember, curiosity in a relationship is healthy, but try not to let it turn into suspicion without solid reasons. Happy love sailing! 💞

[AnonGal233]

thank you, AI influencer.

[In_Trance]

You're wasting your time

[AnonGal233]

On what? I'm friends with him of facebook and we share stuff to eachother all the time. I just don't understand why he has everything else private. Has from the very beginning

[bowenw]

Seems suspicious.

[AnonGal233]

im friends with him on facebook. just scared to request on the others because i dont wanna seem stalkish but my curiosity is kiilling it

[bowenw]

I don’t think it’s unusual for boyfriend and girlfriend to follow each other on all socials.

[AnonGal233]

i mean, i feel retarded but do you think he would get mad if i requested, accepts, then ask who the people he follows?

[bowenw]

You are justified in worrying as you have been deceived in the past. I suggest requesting and see how he reacts.