He got angry and ended things with me but still follows me on Instagram, have me on his " close friends" but switched his profile to private?

[Deimy]

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure what your ex-partner's intentions are in following you on Instagram and having you on his "close friends" list while also switching his profile to private. However, it could be a sign that he still has some level of interest in keeping tabs on your life, even if he's not ready to continue a romantic relationship with you.

It's also possible that he's trying to assert some level of control or power over the situation by maintaining a presence in your life while also distancing himself from you. This behavior could be a red flag, particularly if he ended things with you in an angry or manipulative way.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether you're comfortable with him following you on social media or being on his "close friends" list. If his behavior is making you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, it may be best to block him or limit his access to your profile. It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to make choices that are in your best interest.

[1123581321b]

I cannot possibly comprehend the question here. Could you please rephrase so I can better understand?

[Deimy]

This guy was my casual guy. I did not like his attitude and before I was not into friends with benefits situations, I wanted more and to be respected. Once I told him we are done I won' t have sex with him anymore but he came back showing me he takes me more seriously. We had sex again and in the end he was acting disrespectfully so we got into fight I even badmouthed him to his friends and he said I am crazy and I should stay away from him but he still follows me and I am still on his close friends on Instagram, he checks all my stories. Why?

[1123581321b]

Ah...
Thanks, this is useful clarification.
He likes you.
He really likes you.
But DON'T date him.
My suggestion is to keep him at flagpole's length. This is the kind of guy who will exploit you to wit's end. Just keep doing what you're doing, but I'd suggest getting a new Instagram account before dating someone else.
These are the kind of idiot guys who become violent if females date anyone other than them.

[Deimy]

He likes me? Really?

[1123581321b]

Hard to tell, rethinking this. He's a jerk for sure... I think he probably likes you in the core of his being but he's too manipulative to get into a healthy relationship.

[1123581321b]

But don't take my opinion as the opinion of a PhD user.

[Deimy]

Ye he said he is not a relationship guy and that' s why he left his ex but he wrote to me on Valentine' s day and it was really strange so it can be

[legalboxers]

block and delete him

[Deimy]

Why guys do it

[legalboxers]

I dont...