Obviously cheating is wrong, and if you get cheated on it's devastating, and if you do it you should feel guilty about it. But all the same, does the sheer wrongness of it make it sort of a turn on?
- 1 mo
Fucking someone else is always going to be a nutt buster. We all want to cheat when our other options are better and the opportunity is there. Not all of us act on that impulse because we have morals and values that we respect more than the tingle in our genitals.
But the real reason I wanted to answer this question is to bitch about all the women that claim they wouldn't ever cheat or even think about it and then they read erotica of cheating or watch movies about it and masturbate to it or become fans of it...
There's the lite version of it like those stupid vampire movies where some mid gets the option of fucking a vampire or a werewolf, but that even shows how they get the tingles off of having the option to cheat gets them off.
Summarized version of my answer: Yeah it's hot, ethical morals are the only thing that stops it. Or at least the aversion to unwanted pregnancies, STD's or an STI or two.
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412 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Being cheated on is kinda a turn on for me,
24 Reply- Asker1 mo
Does your girlfriend know this?
Would you actually WANT her to cheat, or do you just like thinking about it? - Asker1 mo
But if she actually did cheat you'd be devastated, right?
This is hot as long as it's make-believe, right? - 1 mo
Did you know that the likelihood of a woman cheating, is about 10,000 times more than the same woman accepting a hall pass?
Not for men. However, it is for women because women can cheat with far more attractive than their boyfriends and husbands.
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Are you speaking from experience?
- 1 mo
No... It's hot for me. I love to cheat.
I love busting a nut in a no-strings-attached woman and then going out with my wife so she can buy me dinner. It makes me want to bang my wife even more than just banging my wife.
I think she's figured that out, so she lets me bang random women I meet and pretends she doesn't know. I let her pretend she doesn't know. - 1 mo
I get your point though... most men are not me. Most men would destroy their life trying to act like me. They didn't hit the gym and deserve their fate while I fuck their wife.
- 1 mo
Almost all women can have sex with men far more attractive than the men we can marry. I never met my dream movie star. However, if by chance I met him and could be with him for a day, it is very likely that he would f**k me, but I would have zero chance of marrying him since he has options much better than me.
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@Wallythewalrus2 An international team of psychologists have determined that when it comes to one-night stands, men have much lower standards than women do. The study, published in the journal Human Nature, revealed that when asked whether they would “go out with,” “go home with,” or “go to bed with,” a member of the opposite sex, men were universally more willing than their female counterparts, regardless of how attractive the potential partner was. Women, in contrast, were much more picky—agreeing to head home or sleep with men only if they were exceptionally good looking.
The research is a follow up to a pioneering handful of studies of “short term mating” in which researchers sent young men and women on the prowl at a Florida university, instructing them to approach people attractive enough that they would actually consider sleeping with them, and within two sentences of conversation, see if they would agree to a date, a trip back to the questioner’s apartment, or a roll in the hay. (Presumably, for research purposes they didn’t actually need to follow through on the request, merely record the response.) Whereas no women would sleep with the investigators, and only 3% agreed to go back to their apartments, a full 75% of men agreed to sleep with the female questioners, regardless of how cute they were. - 1 mo
I think most people know guys that have gorgeous wives/girlfriends that have affairs with, shall I say, less than desirable women. Like I said, it works out, because those less than desirable women, are sleeping with someone they normally would never have. Guys are horny!
- 1 mo
The idea is hot but doing it feels disgusting
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Speaking from experience?
- 1 mo
I don’t cheat
- Asker1 mo
That's commendable.
- 1 mo
Not really I’ve been cheated on before and it sucks
- Asker1 mo
Oh. Sorry.
But at least you never cheated yourself. You've got the moral high ground. - 1 mo
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AskAh, the allure of the forbidden, right? 😏 It's like a spicy plot twist in a drama! The taboo factor can sometimes make things seem more exciting, but it's a huge red flag when it comes to real relationships. The emotional risks and potential heartbreak aren't worth the thrill. We all crave excitement, yet it's best to find it in ways that keep love strong and trust intact. So why not spice things up consensually within your relationship instead of throwing curveballs? 🍒
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2.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No, it’s disrespectful and selfish for anyone to cheat on anyone , if you aren’t happy in your relationship then you shouldn’t be in that relationship period , just end it and move on , don’t string someone along because you are a selfish POS person with no moral values whatsoever. If you like to have sex with random people , just stay single and mingle and put yourself at risk of catching STD’s and giving yourself a reputation of being a whore. A good man or woman isn’t going to cheat period because they respect and value and appreciate beach other and they both have good morals , people with no morals are Meant for the streets not under the sheets. Every girl that has cheated on me and every girl that lied to me and told me she was single when really she wasn’t are no longer a part of my life , because they don’t deserve to be , if someone can’t respect you and value you and stay loyal to you they don’t deserve you whatsoever. Basically thanks for a good time but not a long time , I cheated one time when I was younger and that honestly was my wake up call that I could never do it again I felt like such a pile of shit and ended it with my girlfriend immediately after I did it , shockingly she wanted to give me another chance and I told her No , that she deserves better but in some weird way, she ended up back at my house wanting to have sex with me again , so of course I fucked her but I felt guilty the whole time I did and told her let’s just stay FWB’s so she can eventually meet someone that treats her better , she eventually met someone else and we still stayed friends’ but we no longer have sex. Why she forgave me and wanted me back in the first place blew my mind. She eventually confessed to me that by me cheating on her turned her on. I honestly was in a state of shock
00 ReplyDo I find the idea of actually cheating on my partner hot? No, not at all. Do I ever fantasize about other people and the idea of hooking up with them? Yes. Forbidden and naughty thoughts can be fun but it doesn't mean someone actually wants to go through with it.
20 ReplyI'd suggest that it isn't cheating in itself that's hot but the feeling of excitement you get from willfully transgressing social norms and values. Fortunately, there are ways to experience this same feeling without deceiving and betraying your partner. Polyamory and kink come to mind.
30 ReplyNo, it would surely mess up your life, more importantly the current relationship you're in. If you feel the need / desire / curiosity to try out a different route, either be open about it or end the relationship you're in.
20 Reply- m1 mo
Not at all. I'd be afraid of everything I'd lose if I were to ever do it.
23 Reply- Asker1 mo
Wouldn't the danger/fear sort of add to the appeal, in a perverse way?
- 1 mo
No, I'd be terrified, and that isn't exactly a turn on.
- Asker1 mo
Okay fair enough
1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. My entire social/sexual life changed forever when my first serious girlfriend cheated on me for months, before finally telling me about it, and I wholeheartedly recommend extracurricular sexual relationships for women in relationships, but not for men.
00 Reply6.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No, it is not. It is a means to an end in many ways.
31 Reply- Asker1 mo
What's the end?
- s1 mo
Not at all. I find it repulsive, why would you want to hurt your partner like that. Be mature and break up if you want to be with someone else.
40 Reply 1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Fantasy's are hot that's the point. Wouldn't trust a soul who claims they don't fantise about something wrong.
10 Reply1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No, only people with low morals think this way.
20 Reply- 1 mo
women are the more promiscuous gender im sure they love a hot random sexual encounter full of passion
30 Reply 3.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. If cheating is "hot" to you, you have a lot of maturing to do
20 Reply3.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It is hot in a perverse way, which is part of what makes it so addictive.
20 Reply- 1 mo
It's so cruel I can't possibly get off on it
10 Reply - 1 mo
Yeah, like lots of legally or morally wrong choices.
10 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No, it's disgusting and immoral, the worst thing someone can do in a committed relationship
10 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I get disgusted by it.
10 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes, It's a Forbidden Pleasure!
20 Reply- 1 mo
No, it's a bad idea, I don't think so.
20 Reply - 1 mo
It's never appealed to me
10 Reply 5.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No I never thought it was hot
10 Reply- 1 mo
Not at all. I want to stay loyal.
10 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Freudians say what forbidden is most desired.
20 Reply- 1 mo
No. Doesn't appeal to me.
10 Reply - 1 mo
Not at all…
10 Reply 5.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope.
10 Reply- 1 mo
Yes. Very.
20 Reply No, it's not
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