Is cheating always a bad idea?

[godslovelybaby]

hey guys I married, I love my husband and doing everything that he ll feel good, but I don't satisfied in some sexual and intelectual points. I don't wanna divorce. if something will happened with other man god will never sorry me, yeap?:)

[Anonymous]

Yes it is always a bad idea and is not a choice. If you choose to do that, you’ll be setting yourself up for a world of pain and regret and be a fool. Cheating is generally considered to be a negative and harmful behavior that can impact both the individual who cheats and their partner. It can undermine trust, cause emotional pain and trauma, and damage the foundation of the relationship.

If you are not satisfied with certain aspects of your relationship, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your needs and desires. This can help to create a more fulfilling and satisfying dynamic between you and your partner, and can help to prevent the temptation to cheat.

Cheating is not a solution to relationship problems, and is not a healthy or respectful way to treat your partner. It's important to prioritize honesty, respect, and communication in all of your relationships, and to seek support or counseling if you are struggling with relationship issues or feelings of dissatisfaction.

[godslovelybaby]

yes u see. thank u <3

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome and I know a thing or about having been done to myself by someone in the past so please never suggest cheating or take it as a thought or choice.

[godslovelybaby]

i also had this bad expirience in the past, i know what u felt, sorry for u 🥺

[Opinion Owner]

It’s alright I’m much better now from it with who I have in my life now 🥰 she’s special and perfect for me and I’m also sorry for you too as well but you’re gonna make this through

[Iron_Man]

You don’t ever cheat you don’t commit adultery you work out your sexual problems practice makes perfect with each other

[EmmaMary]

@Iron_Man

I couldn't have worded this better myself.

[Iron_Man]

@EmmaMary Thank you such much Emma

[godslovelybaby]

okay lets say i solve sexual problems, but what to do with intelectual or emotional topics?)

[Iron_Man]

Well, didn’t you know how intelligent he was and emotional and everything else? What kind of conversation did you have before you got married?

[SueShe]

Are you sure that you are from the US as your profile indicates? Your grammar is somewhat off...

Yes cheating is ALWAYS a bad idea because people that cheat usually place too much emphasis on sex. Is that topic really so important to you that you have the feeling that you need to cheat on your husband?

Does this one percent of your life that you spend fornicating overrule the remaining 99% of your life? Does your husband have no other qualities that prevail over the minimum time you spend copulating?

Are you ready to throw away your life and marriage just because of sex? If you answer with yes, then you are a lost case and you don't really love your husband otherwise you would not even think of cheating.

[godslovelybaby]

nope i didn't say just sexual, also intelectual. its all not about sex. if it was just about that could be much better. u re right my own language is russian

[SueShe]

вам нужно общаться с мужем. Общение — это то, что заставляет отношения работать.

[godslovelybaby]

вы правы, но мне иногда кажется, что мы говорим на разных языках

[Anonymous]

Yes it is. In the moment it might feel good but it rarely feels good afterwards.

[godslovelybaby]

yes, u re right

[billmunch]

I allow some leeway with cheating.

[In_Trance]

What would be good about it?

[godslovelybaby]

maybe emotional connection, or maybe i dont feel myself a woman anymore. I don't know i lost :)

[In_Trance]

I see your point. I don't disagree. Tough position to be in

[godslovelybaby]

thanks for undertsanding:)

[Pterodon]

Always bad

[godslovelybaby]

yeap