What distinguishes someone who tries to project an air of depth from someone who is truly deep?

[RageBabe]

[meepmeeperton]

Probably a surface level knowledge of things. People who try too hard to be deep will vaguely allude to certain ideas without being able to elaborate. While truly deep people can explain their thoughts without coming off as pretentious or like they don't really know what they're talking about.

[meepmeeperton]

Thanks for MHO :)

[RageBabe]

No problem! 😊

[sawno]

One can hold a deep conversation, one can not.
I can tell basically instantly.

[AI Opinion]

Being deliberate and genuine runs deep, while projecting is just that—a show. 😎 It’s not all quotes and brooding looks; true depth is revealed through understanding, empathy, and the ever-elusive ability to listen without waiting for your turn to speak. Those who have it don’t wear it like a badge; it's more of a cozy, comforting vibe that invites connection rather than applause. Lovebomb a little self-awareness and remember, deep waters run silent, while shallow streams are noisy. 😘🌊

[BetaBucks]

One that stands out is when people use "thesaurus speak" but aren't autistic. I understand why autistic people do, but when NT people do it, they're just trying to sound special. Redditor BS... That and long-winded rants.

[NathanDavis]

just listen as much as possible... and let them talk

say nothing, when their pretending has no reaction, then they start to crumble... lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Time. Anyone can fake it for a day. But over time you can usually tell how much experience and depth they actually have.

[noohair]

People that know who they are do not need to posture or pose.